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Q: HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx

Not good enough? its bad.. your to skinny unless your like my friend april.. and skinnyness runs in your fam. but if your eating healthy then its just your digestive system so therefor you are lucky! lucky you! but just remember to keep eating though.. dont get the idea that gaining more weight is terrible-trix

Q: i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips?

Well maybe your just not comfortable in.. wear what your comfortable in.. dont follow "the crowd" or whatever.. and for you it could take some getting use to-trix

Q: What do you think is the average weight for an 11 year old???

It depends on how tall you are.. if you told me that .. that would help me-trix

Q: Nothing at all-alison krauss
hands down-dashboard confessional
dreaming of you-selena
i was only 17-beu sisters
brown eyed girl-van morrison
never had a dream come true-7 club 7
all these things-stephen speaks
saved the best for last-vanessa williams
forever and ever amen-randy travis
you were meant for me-jewel

need more? just let me know i know TONS more!! :)

Thanks!! If you no anymore keep em coming! lol i love to hear them-trix

Q: i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee

x0xO MayA x0xx

Well 6 times? dont you think that did it? i would.. but that is just my opinion.. so go with what your heart tells ya!!-trix

Q: if u ask a guy out nd he says no cuz hes gonna go back out wit his x and then they go back out and break up again and now theyre strictly just frends would it be like completely hopeless for her to say yea if u asked him out again??

*Ker~Bear

Im confused.. im slow.. but i read it over and over.. and i didnt understand it neither did my friend but i would say noo if i understand what i think its sayin.. i get the idea that u r that girl that u and this guy went out and now u guys are just friends and ure thinkin bout askin him out again but u dont know it would be hopeless but i would leave it alone but thats tricky -trix

Q: Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!

just talk to her about it all and tell her not to take it persoanlly just ler her know why you think its better for you to live at the other aunts house and just let her know that you will come around and still be there to talk and to also babysit-trix

Q: ok well i am 5' 5" amd weigh bout 130. i dont think i am fat but i wanna keep in shape for sports ect. itd also be easier to get in shape now then later. i RELE try to work out and eat healthy but i can never stick with sumthin long enough to see results. we have so much tempting food and i never get around to my work outs is there ne tips ppl have to stick with sumthin? thx

**i could also use some good ab work outs too**

Well go on the south beach diet! it really works!-trix

Q: ok well there is this kid i like i think i dont know im having a really hard time figuring out whether i like him or not because we kinda talk but then he ignores me for a long time of will randomly talk to me after not talking to me for a while or he will be a jerk to me for no reason and im like what is going on? i mean i didnt do anything to him and he makes me like him then he makes me hate him or he will ignore me and talk to other girls around me and look at me the whole time and i kno this because i see it out of the corner of my eye and then after they leave he will talk to me and its just weird and i have no idea wut is going on! please help

signed - confused =/

Well first off you deserve better someone who will talk to you. Its like he uses u for backup-trix

Q: okay first of all i dont think im fat at all and i like the way my body looks. however im very health conscious and eat healthy food most of the time. i count calories too. if i didnt eat the daily number calories i think is efficient ill go eat until its exactly the number i want it to be, because i don't want to become too thin. i think about food a lot. i never thought i was fat and i know im not and i love my body. im a cheerleader (a flyer) so i try to remain small. oh yeah and i love cooking and food overall, mostly healthy food. i mean ill choose a grilled chicken sandwich over a big mac you know? could this possibly be anorexia?

Thats unhealthy.. you may want to go over the calories!!-trix

Q: For everybody out there why do you support Bush? If you don't why don't you?

I do because i have just gotten use to him being the president.. although i dont agree with all his moves.. i just do-trix

Q: Ok, I love Linkin Park and Coldplay and I'm looking for music like that. Anyone got any suggestions? Thanks a bunch

Yellowcard blink 182 there good-trix

Q: hey i no that this has been asked alot but i really want to no if i am overweight. i am a 13 yr old girl that is 5'7 or 5'8 and i weigh around 120-130. is this considered overweight or normal?

No but your super tall! but dont worry about it!! I no some people would like to steal a few inches from you lol-trix

Q: ok i just got a cell phone, and my friend is going to the beach with my family so i figured her of all people would be happy for me since we can go do whatever while everyone else is somewhere else...and she wasnt happy or excited or anything she was just like oh ok cool. and shes normally never like that and then like the next day shes got invited to some special dance and she was all happy and kinda rubbing it in my face and all yeah so im going to the mall and stuff to shop for a dress. and she told me a while back that she would invite me to one of those dances but she never said n e thing about that. and like when i told her that i got a cell phone all i said was oh yeah guess what i got a cell phone! and she was like ok w/e...idk if i should tell her or what and now since this happend im not all THAT excited n e more about going to the beach together bc im afraid she'll be all talkin bout that dance...what do i do?

Just leave it at that.. but if she gets on your nerves enough tell her..-trix

Q: idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do

16/f

Wait-trix

Q: ok ill get rite to the point. i have a problem with being open. i dont like telling ppl anything. my mom and dad always try to get things out of me but most of the time it doesnt work. ive been trying to lighten up and tell ppl things but its hard. does anyone know how i can tell ppl more about me and how i feel? i always think that they are y feelings that i keep to my self. i mean why should anyone else care about how i am feeling? is this right? please help...i rate~
signed
to many feelins inside

Just try to relax thats how i am but i just relax and tell myself it would be sooo much better if i just let it out! ask yourself why do you care how others are feeling? then thats why they care about you.. because your there friend too-trix

Q: This is a stupid little thing.. but oh wells.

As of now, I'm hungry. I need something to snack on! Any ideas of what I could make for a little midnight snack?

Haha. Thanks!!

crackers with peanut butter and jelly! yum!! or a sandwhich or chips.. or fruitsnack or popcorn!-trix

Q: i love my friends and bein the person i am its the only thing i have, i dont have much family and what i do have.. well thats a whole different thing.. i feel like im never good enough. i feel like im bein push away fromt hose i use to b close to but the ones i am still close to says its just me.. i dont know why im always like this, im think im about to turn physco ova here. i know its not rly a question but.. yeah.sorrie.

Just talk to someone you know who you could always talk to and if you dont got much of anyone then im here if you need sorry to hear of it-trix

Q: heyy im sara and i have this friend that is like my all time best friend but idk if i can trust her cus i want he to met my boyfriend but she stole my bf once from me and idk if she will do it again but ik she didnt mean to steel him i think abd she told me she was so0o sorry (( but idk if i can trust her i cant take my heart gettin hurt again what shold i do:-/??

please help??

well its not just all her.. its your bf to.. if hes trusting then let them meet-trix

Q: i really like this guy but when ever i tell him how im feelin about something he gets really mad (like he friends were tellin me all i said to the guy i like is its getin to my head its like messin with me and he blow up in my face and said so u beleive them not me and got pissed i dont know what 2 do i try to tell him how i feel and he just gets mad what should i do???

female/13 almost 14
he is 15 almost 16 (( male lol))

Keep telling but if i were you i would give up-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"