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Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!
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well if she took advantage of you then yes. i know you still love her but you need to go with the most responsible..
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I know u want to live with your aunt barbara, but shes usinng you anf getting mad at you for something thats not your fault. The truth is, if you want to live with her you have to stand up for your self and tell her how you feel. You also should try to work out your differences with your aunt lissa. Hope I helped!
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i think u did the right thing... if anybody takes advantage of u itz not good to keep on letting them take advantage. it can lead ^ to abuse etc. i kno it soundz weird right now but i think u really did the right thing. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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You did exactly the right thing. Life must be real tough for you. But you need clothes for school and your aunt barbara did not respect that. It wasn't her money to be taking for her house. She obviously didn't love you enough if she was ready to go ahead and let you go to school without some new clothes and materials needed. It sounds like your Aunt Lissa is the one who cares for you more, and I'm so sorry you have to be in that situation. Don't have regrets, you did exactly what you should've.
If you have more questions as this situation takes its course, please feel free to ask me anything you like.
XoOXooO Blue Eyes
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Yes i think thats that was a good decsion. It sound like your aunt lissa really cares about you if she did that. she seems really careing and stuff maybe yall should try doing stuff so yall can be closer.
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awe im sorry.. thats a bad position to be in.. thats wrong of your aunt barbara though and if i were you i wouldn't worry about it! it sounds like your aunt lissa that your living with now is a great person and she really cares about you.. so just have fun and don't worry about your aunt she'll come to her senses soon, if she hasn't already.. in the mean time you should probably get your aunt to help you find her a job so she wont have financial bills much longer!!--hope this helped!
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Don't add 'I'll rate you' at the end, I hate that so much. It doesn't get you more answers, if anything it gets you less. Nothing personal.
Since living with your Aunt Lissa is the best thing for you, you have to tell your Aunt Barbara that you love her and you don't want her to be angry with you but that you think its better for you to be with your other Aunt. As a nice gesture, you might want to add that you might (if you live close to your other aunt) be able to still come by and babysit, just no all the time. Don't be afraid to say no to her babysitting requests if you don't really want to go. As for her financial problems, it really isn't your problem. That seems harsh but its true. You aren't necessarily a huge burden on her life that you need to help with her financing, thats her personal situation and not yours. You shouldn't have to worry about that. Her taking your money was wrong because that money was supposed to go specifically to you. You are pulling your own weight by babysitting.
Just tell her that you care about her but that its best that you stay with your other aunt. SHe might be hurt temporarily, but I'm sure she'll get over it soon enough.
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just talk to her about it all and tell her not to take it persoanlly just ler her know why you think its better for you to live at the other aunts house and just let her know that you will come around and still be there to talk and to also babysit-trix
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