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Alright, I know that this is probably illegal but can you download the sims 2 on something like limewire, kazaa, etc? I have the game but my friend has the CD you need to put in to play. I heard you type in The sims 2 cd crack but i tried that and it was in french. any ideas? (link)
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Yes, it is illegal, but you can download it on those types of sites.
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how old do i have to be to get a piercing without parental permission....is it 16 or 18? or is it different in every state? (link)
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Yes, it's depending on the state, but it's usually between sixteen and eighteen.
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I love my boyfriend. He is the greatest! We talk all the time like on the phone and in school. We both never really talk about like holding hand and kissing and stuff like that. We've been going out for 8 months and we've never kissed, held hands, hugged! I'm in 8th grade and he is repeating 7th. I think we're afraid to do that stuff because he is my 1st bf and i'm his 1st gf. If we kissed, it'd be both our first. I really want to but he's afraid to, and that's why i haven't kissed him yet. Why are we both so afraid to? We both want to, but we just can't! Wht???? (link)
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It's completely normal to be scared about your first kiss. Simply, because it is your first kiss and it always will be so it can be a very scary thing.
When the time is right, it will happen. It does come naturally, by the way. I know -- everyone says that, but it is true. I know from experience, in fact, I was almost in the same position as you are. The only difference is my ex was older, and he had already had his first kiss, but I hadn't so I was scared. But when the time was right, it happened and it was great.
So just try not to rush things too fast, and good luck!
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I'm 14, and hate the hair I have "down there"
The other day I took the sissors and trimmed it some, I'm thinking about shaving it.
Can someone give me the pros and cons of shaving? (link)
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I think if you really want it gone, then you should wax. Because with shaving, you can very easily cut yourself down there. It will hurt much worse by shaving. Plus, you get those awful bumps stubs too.
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well my boyfriend is a great guy. He loves his lady friends, they outnumber guys by far. Lately Ive been mad at him for being too friendly, now he is depressed and avoiding me. I am jealous because he has met them secretly or talked to them on the phone.He lied to me about it now it is hard to trust him. He said I shouldnt try to change the person he is and it is pushing him away. Should I just allow these phone calls and meetings to save us?What is he really thinking? (link)
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I personally, do not see a problem with him having friends who are girls. Like, I have lots of guy friends and it would be weird for my boyfriend to be mad at me for that.
He may have secretely done things, because he knew that you were going to be mad about it if he were to tell you. I think you should try to be more trusting, because without trust in a relationship -- you have nothing.
Good Luck!
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there was this guy that is a little scary that goes to my school. i found out that he liked me from a guy at school and that he was going to ask me out soon. during a volleyball practice he was waiting for me after i changed and i avoided him. for the next two days i avoided him. he ended up asking me out at lunch and i freaked and turned him down really harsh. it was awkward for about a month, but now he'S talking to me and i feel really bad about what i did. what should i say to him??? (link)
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I think you should apologize to him, for being so harsh when you turned him down. Explain to him that you only want to be friends, and nothing more.
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do you have to exercise every day to keep off the weight?? i want to eat what i want [only 3 meals], and exercise 4-5 days a week. would that be good doing that?? (link)
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Well, healthy-wise it's good to excerise everyday. Walking, jogging, running... things like that.
I'll give you a tip -- you really can eat what you want and maintain a healthy weight. Just eat small portions, and that's all you have to do. With the excerise, of course.
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hey. i didn't get to see the aftershow of laguna beach on thursday. and i was wondering if anyone did and if they can just tell me what happened? and my main question, is Rocky and Alex still together? (link)
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To answer your main questions -- yes, Rocky and Alex are still together.
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i heard that dogs can tell when you are on your period....is this true? (link)
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Yes, it's true. It's just the same as they can female dogs, etc.
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Do guys dig chicks with glasses? I need to get glasses I think, and I'm already short, fat, and kind of ugly. Now I need glasses. Now will the boys think I am uglier than before? (link)
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Aww, don't think of yourself that way. You are beautiful, no matter what shape, size, color, glasses-or-no-glasses.
I personally, do not wear glasses, except for my reading glasses. They do have some really nice and fashionable ones too. They're really not that bad, I'm sure.
Good luck, and don't worry about guys. If they really like you, it won't matter if you have glasses or not.
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HI
Im 13 years old and have never had a bf. All my friends have and they have all had their first kiss i still havent . Im worried ill never get a boyfriend when i talked 2 my mate she said to try flirting more but i dont know how
please help
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Believe me, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you not having a boyfriend. It doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you. Some people don't have boyfriends until they're sixteen or older, and there isn't anything wrong with either.
Plus, you're only thirteen. You have your whole life ahead of you, and plenty of time for boyfriends. Just take your time, and don't rush into anything too fast. You will have your moment, and it will come when the time is right.
Flirting is fun, and if you do want to know ways to flirt, you can go here: http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html
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Theres some guy who likes me and i only want to be friends. he asked for my number and I didn't want to be rude so i did and he texts me everyday and it kinda annoying since i don't like him. and he told me that he wished for me and yeah its sweet but I don't have those feeling for him.
Any advice? (link)
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I think you need to talk to him, explain to him you like him very much... but only as a friend. I'm sure he will understand, although, you should know that there is no way of escaping him getting at least a little hurt.
Good Luck!
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my myspace wont let people add me unless they know my last name/email. theres this thing in privacy settings that says "know last name" or something like that. i dont have it checked, but it still asks for it! how do i guess this so people dont have to type in my last name/email to add me? (link)
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I know depending on age, that sometimes you have to have the "Know Last Name." It could be just an error, actually, that happened to me once, but it was an error and fixed within a couple of days.
Also, some people have their accounts set where someone who is adding them must know their last name/email.
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I'm with Cingular, but I really want a T-Mobile Sidekick. I was wondering if there was any way I could get a sidekick, but still use my Cingular account(like maybe use my Cingular SIM card on the Sidekick?). (link)
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No, you have to have a T-Mobile account for it to work. Sorry!
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how do i report someone on myspace? and also, is it anonymous?
-thanks.
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Of course, log into Myspace. Then, click on Help/FAQ. Scroll down, until you see "Reporting Abuse." Once you have found this, click on the abuse report that pertains to you.
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Does anyone know how to delete history on computers so people can't see what websites your going on? because my mom looks at mine and i dont' want her to see myspace. thanks (link)
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Sure, all you have to do is go to "Tools" then click on "Internet Options." You should see "Delete History" or at least something pertaining to that, just click on it and you history is history.
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when ever i close a pop up my browser closers to. Any idea to fix this? ive tryed to delete the thing that causes them but it didnt do anyrhing (link)
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Sometimes, a certain pop-up has to be there, for the site to run on your computer. So that may be why, your browser closes as well.
If it is just random pop-ups, I would consider getting a different blocker.
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okkk so we have this assignment for this weird english class that im taking.
earlier we had to write a poem about how we are feeling right now. and well. i wrote it about how, ive realized ive made mistakes in the past and yeah they are my fault. and then also that i keep getting all these chances, but then people change their minds and it seems like i cant do anything right. BUT here my question. we have to find a real song to relate to our poem. so know any songs like that? (link)
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"Angel" by Sarah McLachlan has something to do with your poem.
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Okay I'm not sure whether I'm a B cup or a C cup.
I'm used to my bras being tight (B cup)
And I have a C cup bra.. and it's.. like I can breathe.I fill up the cups so it's not loose.
So does that mean I'm a C cup? (link)
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It's actually really hard to tell that way, being as there are many factors that could play into this, such as fabrics, types, etc.
I suggest going to your local Victoria's Secret and getting a *free* bra fitting. Then, you'll know your exact size.
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Does anyone know where I can get a good hair straightener that works really good on fairly thick hair. My price range is 50$ and below. -
thankss =] (link)
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Conair is the best brand for straighteners. I suggest a ceramic one, the plastic do not work well at all. You can get them at Wal-Mart and/or CVS (or any other local drugstore). They cost around $20.
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