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15/f. does anybody know of a store that has cute jeans in a 00? i already get all of my jeans from delias, but i own all of the pairs there and i need new jeans =]

thanks! nothing too expensive..i guess i'll pay up to about $40.

and if it helps i live in PA =]

well you can try pacsun. they have adorable jeans in small sizes.

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ok well i'm skinny...i weigh like 100 pounds but anywayss my friend said i had cankles...not to be rude but isnt that what overweight people have? I dont get how i can have cankles if im not overweight...do you have to be overweight to have cankles (sp)

no you don't have to be overweight to have cankles. it just means that your ankles aren't as toned as some peoples.

no cankle:
http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:Qhe6R0hYnKcvrM:http://www.natehibma.com/gallery2/cankle1.jpg

cankle:
http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:SBwr0-8be6X0cM:http://www.natehibma.com/gallery2/cankle2.jpg

but don't worry, its not a bad thing and most people don't even notice someone's ankles. don't let it bother you =]

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hey u said to us tunethis.com to put ringtones on my cell. i was wondering if itunes worked on it because i cant seem to get it to work.

hmm...i've never used itunes with it. so i'm not sure if it will work. I know that the music file has to be a MP3 or WAV file.

read this:

http://www.tonethis.com/index.php?page=tutorial2

i hope i've helped you some :]

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i got a lg phone and i tried to find a good site for free downloading on ringtones. but i cant find one. i was wondering if anyone knew a good web site for FREE ringtones.

http://www.tonethis.com/

you have to have the song on your computer already and then you can upload it to your phoen using this site.

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im planning on taking a hiphop class (it starts tomorrow) but i dont know what to wear and im pretty sure theres some type of dress code of sorts you have to follow for hiphop... but any suggestions on what exactly im suppose to wear? tight fitting shirt or loose? baggy/cargo pants or not? tennis shoes or something else? please and thank you!

ok i take dance class so i know. wear tight form fitting pants and a tigh tank top. then in most classes they require you to buy hiphop shoes, but i wouldn't buy them until you know for sure what kind you need to buy. so for now just wear nice running shoes or tennis shoes.

here are some examples:

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

or you could wear something like this:

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

that is SUPER cute. it is a sweater wrap with a fun colored leotard under it with matching leg warmers.

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html


and this is normally the kind of shoes that a hip hop class wears:

http://www.discountdance.com/frame_set.php3?mf=/dancewear/page_TB_p1.html

good luck and i hoped the links are useful =]

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my younger sister doesnt have her period but she is wearing pads what do i tell her?

maybe she has some discharge but just doesn't tell you about that. is there any way that she might be mistaking discharge for her actual period?

talk to her and tell her that your concerned. if she is just doing it to feel grown up. then make a deal with her and say that she is then only allowed to wear them once a week every month (like having a real period).

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does anyone have a suggestion for a really good romance young-adult novel? any suggestions- authors, titles, etc. would be great. thanks [=

any Nicholas Sparks novel. I especially liked reading the Notebook which was written by Nicholas Sparks.

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how do people do this:
they're laying on their back, and then they use their legs and arms to push them up, standing up. You don't roll over your back. its just like popping up. i don't know how to explain it, but if you know thanks!

umm do you mean when they are laying down on their backs...and then your kind of "jump" up?

if that is what your talking about then what you can do is start laying down on your back. and then you should bend and swing your legs really hard from up in the air down so that your back and butt gets lifted up by the momentum. i'm sorry if this is confusing but just try it and you should see what i mean.

good luck =]

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is there something you can do so that people cant see all your friends on myspace?... like when you hit view all of ...'s friends... is there a way to disable that? thanks!

if you use the code on this website for hiding your top friends it usually takes away the "view all of _____'s friends" link:

http://www.whateverlife.com/hiding.php

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I am in need of a monologue that would require a New York accent for an audition. Do any of you know of one?

try anything from the play "Guys and Dolls". almost everybody in that play has a New York accent.

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i noticed in someone elses questions that you pee and bleed out of a different hole. Im guessing when you have sex its not the blood hole its the pee hole is there anyway it could accidently go in the blood hole.

i'm guessing your really young because most health classes in school have covered this already. i learned this in 6th grade lol. but anyways your wrong, when you have sex it goes in the "blood hole". but there is no way that it could go in the wrong hole because the "pee hole" is soooo small.

you'll learn all about this in health class, trust me =]

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that you have no classes with, barley see, and how do you make a girl laugh? and please dont say tell a story or something it doesn't work.

girls like compliments =] they make them happy and usually get them to smile and notice you. but don't come off as creepy and DO NOT tell her that she looks hot. that definitly falls under the creepy category unless you are dating. most girls would much rather you complement their outfit or hair or something like that.

or you could try saying suttle things to her that get her attention. like i thought it was so cute when i was at play practice and i was kind of just saying outloud that i was cold and the guy next to me said that if he had his sweatshirt with him he'd let me wear it. to me that was very sweet and it definitly made me notice him =]

just be yourself and be casual!

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does proactiv really work? i saw a commercial for this other stuff called murad or something and its like proactiv but i heard it works better then proactiv. i want to buy one of them but i dont know which one really works.any advice?

personally i use proactiv and i'm happy with it but it hasn't made my acne disappear completely.

i used to have really bad acne and proactiv has helped to keep it under control. that doesn't mean that i never get zits, i do. proactiv isn't a miralce worker. but it is worth a try.

and don't give up on it quickly. it takes a couple weeks to start working, plus it doesn't get rid of the acne that most people get during their period. i still break out more during my period, but when i don't have my period my acne is very minor. plus proactiv reduces the redness caused my acne and it smooths your skin making it easy to apply concealer to any zits that you might still have.

but it is definitly worth a try =]

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everyone says cardio is the way to lose weight.
well is ddr considered cardio?
cos i like playing it, but like i dont like running.
so could i play ddr and still be doing cardio then do like squats and crunches on the ablounge to tone the muscles?

please help.
other cardio ideas [not running] would be appricated.
thankss

YES! actually DDR is a great (and fun) way to exercise =]

i don't know about your versio of DDR, but my version has a workout mode on it where i can choose a calorie goal and dance until i reach it.

Just do DDR for a while, and then do about 50 crunches and 50 squats and then stretch! and your good to go =]

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hey!

okay so i'm on a diet.
and i want to loose 20-30 pounds by april or so.


but do you have any work out ideas that will work really good also?
and do you think i could loose about 11 pounds every 2 weeks if i eat well and work out?

thank you so much!!

and how do i rate?

first off no, you can not loose 11 pounds every 2 weeks. because then you would be losing about 5 pounds per week. at first you might be able to loose 5 pounds for about the first 2 weeks. but after that you will only be able to loose about 2-3 pounds safely a week.

for foods. just watch your calories. just eat what you already are in moderation. avoid junk foods, SODA (thats a big one, if you drink a lot of soda already, just cutting that alone will make you loose weight), and drinks LOTS of water (about 8 glasses a day). also avoid bad snacks. when you do eat a snack eat fruit and vegetables. here is a hint: apples and celery are NEGATIVE calories. yes thats right negative calories. it takes you more calories to eat and digest them then they actually contain =]

for exercise try running or do some form of cardio. they will be the most effective. if you want to slim down your stomach try doing crunch and bicycles.

good luck =]

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13 female.

I have at least six guys that are in love with me. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I'm like in over my head. They all always ask me out and call me and ask me to come over and stuff.
What to I do to slow it down!?
please help!

first off your 13, so they can't be in love with you. maybe you are leading them on? do you have a flirty attitude when you are around them? do you flirt by accident with them? maybe the only reason they are calling you and they like you is because they think that you like them.

if not then you need to let them know that you don't see them as boyfriends and maybe just as friends. don't go over their houses unless you want to.

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Hey everbody!! Well, I am 14/f and I really am wanting some really cool clothes and jewelry. I'm tired of wearing what everyone else wears.. Aeropostale and Hollister. Thats where pretty much ALL of my clothes are,and everyones clothes in school are. I want something cute, fun and flirty, and not just all labels. I also want something that no one else really has. something original and uniqe (sp?). Also, nothing too expensive, I'm not rich or anything. haha! but, anyways, if anyone knows where I can find some cute clothes please let me know. If this helps- I like all different colors, but I have dark brown hair, so something that looks good with my hair color. Also, I usually wear a Large or XL for shirts. I'm not really looking for jeans, just tops. And I also am looking for cool and pretty jewlry. But remember!- not too expensive!! Thanks!!!!!!!

i know this isn't really advice. i'm just doubling what the girl said below me. DEFINITELY go to forever21. it has ADORABLE clothes at amazing prices. it also has really cheap, cute jewelry =]

i also LOVE delias. it is my favorite store =] but it can be expensive sometimes.

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Hey!
I am in despreate need of a new screen name!
here are somethings that might help.
-name:Jackie or Jaxx
-i like stuff like xo or oh ex
-i am hyper
-i love soccer though i don't want soccer in my screen name
-My favorite color is blue
-and i like the number 12

help as soon as possible
-Jaxx

what is your last name or middle name?

i use my initials in my screen name. like if you last name starts with a k try this

jay xo kay
do you get it? jay=J and kay=k?? haha weird i know, but i think it is cute

also a lot of people are using their middle names. say your middle name is lauren:

xojackie lauren

the good thing about AIM (i'm assuming your talking about an AIM screenname) is that you can use spaces. so spice up your screen name by adding spaces.

xo j a c k i e

jackie x12

jah xo key
jah xo kee

theycallmejackie

x12x jackie

j a x x 12

the possibilities are ENDLESS! =]

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i want to do palaties or yoga i'm not sure which one is best for me though. i'm a soccer player 15/f and i wanna becaome more flexible and i'm hoping one of them will help me shed a few pounds in my stomach and thigh area. which one woul dyou suggest..and i'll probably just go to best buy and buy a dvd workout thingy

i would go with palaties because yoga is more stretching but palaties is actually exercising and moving around.

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theres this guy l like...i really like him
but i dont know how to get close with him!
hes very cute and kinda popular...
we ride the same school bus and live in the same apartment so i thought itd be easy to close with him..
we talk to on myspace but we barely talk in reallife..
when i textmessage him he text me back but writes it really really....short..
i dont think hes interested in girls..
cuz he only hangs out with guys..
i know i should try to talk to him more but im too shy to do it..

so how can i get close with him??
thanks

well don't get clingy, because that will be a big turn off. start off small. talk to him a little on the bus. sit near him so you can have a converstaion without shouting over everyone. and when you are texting him, make sure what you are saying to him requires a response. like try asking him a question, this way he has to answer it. and make sure it isn't a yes or no answer, this way he has to put some thought into it.

good luck =]

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