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this guy
theres this guy l like...i really like him
but i dont know how to get close with him!
hes very cute and kinda popular...
we ride the same school bus and live in the same apartment so i thought itd be easy to close with him..
we talk to on myspace but we barely talk in reallife..
when i textmessage him he text me back but writes it really really....short..
i dont think hes interested in girls..
cuz he only hangs out with guys..
i know i should try to talk to him more but im too shy to do it..
so how can i get close with him??
thanks
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If you've text messaged and talked online, why are you shy to talk in person? Do it! He won't bite! If you talk to him, chances are you'll get closer and closer. When you do talk, be yourself! Don't be a fake, no guys...or nobody for that matter...like fakes. Discuss things you both like & have in common. Just pretend that he's one of your best friends. (It works every time!)
Just be careful about being too clingy :)
Hope I helped!
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You can't get close with him if you don't talk. If he doesn't talk to you first, you should start a conversation with him in person, not just over myspace. When he sends you short text messages, don't take it personally. He could be busy or he might not know what to say because you guys don't really talk. Ask him to hang out with your friends and his friends,.. together. Maybe then you guys could get to know each other better. Just be yourself and be flirty. Just make sure that you're not clingy because guys don't like that. Take it slow & see what happens.
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hey, okay well this might sound harsh but are you sure hes not into girls? or he just not into you? find that out. if he just not into girls and you flirt with him a little bit that could give him two different messages. a) what is she doing? shes a freak. eww. or b) oooooowwee, maybe i like this girl stuff. so just flirt with him a little bit and see his reaction and take it from there. you dont have to flirt with him in person. you could do it on the phone or even on AIM. i would suggest AIM that way there will be no akward silences. if there is you can just say brb.
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well don't get clingy, because that will be a big turn off. start off small. talk to him a little on the bus. sit near him so you can have a converstaion without shouting over everyone. and when you are texting him, make sure what you are saying to him requires a response. like try asking him a question, this way he has to answer it. and make sure it isn't a yes or no answer, this way he has to put some thought into it.
good luck =]
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