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I went on other sites and the say to older people that the period smelling weird like the oder is sex and tampons I don't use tampons and I haven't had sex yet eathermy period smeel like decayed meat and the blood is dark (link)
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I would check it out with your doctor. This might be a sign of an infection or something.
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We are currently living together. We both have full time jobs, and I go to school fulltime for Nursing. Well, I work 10 hours a day, and he works the typical 8 hours.
The problem is my fiance is so lazy!
WE've been living together for almost 10 months and he never cleans. If he does I have to ask him to do things, for example:
I have a dry erase board on our wall in our bedroom, and I'll leave him messages before I go to work telling him what needs to be done when I get home.
(I work 8am-6pm && he works 8pm-5am && he sleeps ti'll about 2:30pm---He works at a factory and I work at a daycare with toddlers)
Well when I get home, NONE OF IT IS DONE. So I end up doing it. I've got to the point to where I'll clean up after myself, but not him; and it kills me because it'll be weeks before he even touches it. Matter of fact, there is laundry that has been in the hamper for almost a month!!!
It's driving me insane. I told him how I feel like we both should be putting in effort equally, and I'm not his mother, so he shouldn't rely for me to pick up after him; but he still doesn't!
He is an adult, and yet he is so messy! When I get home from work he is on his video game, and when I ask 'how come you didn't pick up the house' his reply is, 'idk, i forgot'.
Ugh! I shouldn't have to ask him to do any of this; if its messy, he should just pick it up. Like dishes, he leaves them in the sink- I, on the otherhand, I do them as I mess them up; he never does his dishes!
what do I do? (link)
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You need to inforce how you feel about it. agreed you are not his mother. and it is normal to leave stuff for a while. but leaving dishes and dirty laundry for a month is discusting. tell him. if you two are going to get married this has to change. you are not his mother nor will you be. Tell him you have talked to him. let him be. but make it clear to him. you will not allow this to continue. It's either the mess or you. Don't worry he will pickyou
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So I Was In The Store Yesterday And This Boy That Used To Talk To My Cousin Started Hugging And Touching Me. I Pushed Him Away And Asked Did He Still Talk To My Cousiin And He Acted Like He Didnt Know Her. When He Was Leaving He Wanted Me To Text Him And he Asked To Come Over My House. My Question Is Would It Be Right To Start Talking To Him If They Have Stopped Talking (They were friends with benefits) But Would It Still Be Right..?? (link)
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Find out why they stopped talking. Did one form feelings for the other? was there a pregnancy involved. Also. You have to consider your cousin's feelings in this. or it could have been worse such as forced actions onto her. or him?
Also consider that, this guy, from being fwb (friends with benefits) with your cousin, might think that you will be just as willingly easy to do the same things your cousin and him did because your family.
I would definetly suggest not going to his house and not hanging out with him. as this is clearly not a good situation to put yourself in.
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hi last year i tried to use a tampon. i got it in but then i couldnt get it out. i spent all night tryingto get it out. eventually at 5 in the morning i was half asleep (this may sound gross) and my mom pulled it out. it was the worst night of my life. this year i tried it again and it went in easier. its still not coming out. i tried everything. What should i do? is this normal? will i ever be able to use tampons?
thanx
im 13 btw (link)
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First of this could have happened because you used the wrong size of tampons. you could have used a tooo big size which then stuck. I would suggest figuring out what size you are first off. it should be easier as you are growing up.
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I lied to my boyfriend about a certain thing. During our conversation, he asked me about my ex and I told him that I broke up with him on a certain day at a particular place.. Meanwhile on that day at that place I was with someone else not my ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriend I broke up with him a week before that day... Now my current boyfriend found out I was lying, and also found out about the guy I had a fling with and he called me a fucking retard I told him the truth but he still calls me names and he doesn't wanna talk to me... Pls help me what should I do I don't want to loose him... (link)
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to be honest. i'm not so sure you can get him back. To some people lieing is a MAJOR deal breaker. and the fact that you lied to him straight out with out thinking it is definetly hard for you. He feels that if you lied about this. what else have you lied about. and he feels he can not trust you.
The best advice i can give you. Is to learn from this. Lieing is not something to be taken lightly especially in a relationship.
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Hello all,
To put it shortly: I am very close to the family of my boyfriend (we've been together for more than two and a half years) and I am also friends with his dad on Facebook.
With this "latest" newsfeed you also see pictures that people like and whatnot and I see his dad liking the pictures of a page called "Startup needs lubricant" (Translated from German) Which doesn't really bother me. But this group uploads pictures of young women mostly showing off their breasts and asses in lingerie, etc, or just covering their nipples with the bare minimum.
I get it, they are sexy, provocative pictures, men are men, etc.
It just bothers me that I see his dad liking most of them. These are all skinny beautiful women with the perfect bum and perfect boobs. Firstly, I'm just bothered by knowing him so well and then seeing him like all this pictures.
Secondly, I feel very inadequate as the girlfriend now, although my boyfriend loves me as I am, he says I have the perfect boobs, legs and ass for him, it is not as if I am this skinny model type person.
I'm not sure why it bothers me, but I feel as if his dad considers me to be unattractive...
Is there any explanation to this? (link)
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First off. it should not matter how his dad thinks of you.. you are with you son.. not the father. It would be wierd if the dad did think of you as attractive.
Are you attracted to the dad because you are so close??
You should think of yourself as in attractive to your boyfriend def not the dad. Just because the dad likes these pictures and stuff. should not have any level as to you being adequate in a girlfriend. you are not dating the dad. You are dating the son.
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What does the saying "are you wet" mean???
I'm asking this because last week I was watching 2 broke girls and this guy came up to this girl asked her if she was feeling was feeling wet...my dad started laughingg...I don't understand why...:-( (link)
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Feeling wet means if your lady parts are stimulated they will feel wet. like doing it. wet means they are turned on or/and horny
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Hello,
I live in Mississippi. My two sons live in Illinois. They have both recently been married. One is expecting a baby. Should I sell my home down south and move up north to be closer to my children or should I stay where I am? It is much cheaper for me to live down south, however, a grandchild is on the way. I just don't know what I should do. Please advise.
Thank you (link)
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This is gonna have to take you alot of thought. and you have to be able to say yes to this move for you. not JUST for your children. Yes it would be nice to see them grow up and see the grandchildren. But it is a choice entirely up to you.
I would also talk to your children. and see their opinions. on it.
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Hi everybody,
I have decided to start eating healthier and also it would be nice to lose some weight, so I bought myself a smoothie maker.
I thought it would be the best breakfast option to make smoothies, as I they fill me nicely but are v. healthy. Alongside, for both lunch and dinner (although as a university student I generally go for a lunch-dinner anyway) I would make salads with various things, mostly with minimal dressing/sauces.
Would this enable some weight loss along side walking at least 40 minutes a day, if not more? :) I am honestly too busy for proper work outs currently, but later I would like to work in a regular pattern of at-home exercises.
What do you guys think? (link)
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try going for runs for 40 mins. that will help you lose alot more weight then walking.
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i do sex with my gf but during sex after 5 mins i got tired. And my legs and stomach strating pains.
So what i do..?
Suggest me plz (link)
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maybe you need to gain some body strength. and depending on how many times you have done it you might have a low endurence. so might have to grow your endurance strength
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My boyfriend wants me to move in with him. But I'm nervous. Other than the fact that culturally, many people won't accept a girl and a boy moving in together until they are married, there's:
- bathroom issues. Like after I go, I'm not gonna lie. It smells really bad. And also, I have a retainer. Sure its alright not to wear it for one night but I can't stop wearing it once I move in!
- I'm a virgin. Now I don't plan to like wait until marriage but really if I'm going to lose it then it will most likely be when we are living together. Not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing but we are still in school so I don't want it to be like a sex fest 24/7!
- What if I fart or say something embarrassing, etc when I sleep?!
- And there were so many more inquiries/issues that I had thought about but I can't remember it right now.
What is your take on this and please explain your experiences on living with your loved one. Obviously farting is natural and by the time married couples have kids its like nothing but i just don't know! (link)
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Moving in with some one is a huge change and a huge commitment. Make sure you are fully ready for the responsibilities you are about to sign up for.
As far as bathroom issues. You can get a glade spray.here are a few products you can look into:
http://well.ca/products/glade-ultra-rainshower_49895.html
I've tried this one and other scentes. def helps alot! 2 sprays max!
http://www.glade.ca/en/Glade_FamilyProduct.aspx
Try some researching the glade products.
as far as you being a virgin. Wait till your ready. Just because you're living together. does not mean that you have to automatically sleep together. You two may or may not. but only when you both are physically ready. Living with a bf does test your strength of being together.
as far as farting when sleeping again use glade.
But most importantly. you need to talk about some of this stuff with your future room mate.
Hope this helps at least a little bit.
Xo.Jasmine*
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I really need to tone my thighs in 20 days. I am going to be in a swimwear fashion show so this is crucial! I specially need to target my inner thighs and right under my butt! Please help! (link)
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I agree with tone it up.. also running. lots and lots of running helps to lose weight.
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ugh okay so i am sooo annoyed with liking my best friend.
im almost convinced with myself that im in love with him. but a huge problem. hes dating someone. they just got together recently and since im his bestfriend im stuck hearing about it all the time. like today when i find out shes on birth control so theyre gonna start having sex now..ugh it just kills me so much. i want to get over him but i just dont know how. i cant seperate myself from him, because we're best friends. and i want us to be friends for as long as we possibly can...pleaseee hellppp (link)
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Althought you might like him. You have think of it this way. Do you want him to be happy. Yes obviously right. Well. He does seem happy and he is able to trust you if he is talking to you about his girlfriend.
Also would you really want to confess your feelings when a. He is in a relationship. B. He is your best friend. c. It could cause major drama and breakage in your relationship. D. It could end very badly.
The way i look at it is. Would you really want to risk a fight with your bestfriend and possible ending of friendship.. Orr. would you want him in your life. even as just your friend because you know that it's better to have him in your life as your friend than to not have him in your life at all.
Hope this helps.
Xo.Jasmine*
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Ok so I'm 23 and when I was about 18 I basically descided to kill myself 4 months ago when I was on the edge of killing myself I met a woman that I fall in love and she gave me a reason to live she made me think of the future she made me think of building the future with her but then the relationship ended The day it ended 4 days ago i tried to commit suicside on overdosing pills and I failed now I'm still determine to kill myself one day the thing or the issue in my head is why even bother trying to help myself or bother living i feel like its not worth the time I feel like no one would even wanna be with me of try knew that I'm suicidal because who wants to be with someone that could just suicside one day .... (link)
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It's really goot that this person opened you up to what you can feel. Now just because that relationship ended. does not mean you're not ever gonna feel that way again. It will definetly take time.
What you must know is I am not a doctor when i say this. You sound clincaly depressed. I would definetly suggest going to see someone like a doctor, for anti-depressants.
and a therapist for advice to getting throught this dark time in your life.
Now i know what you might say. "Therapists don't work. They all say the same thing. They don't help me"
I used to think this way also. I have been to probably 4-6 different therapists. Not a single one helped me. Untill the last one.
For therapists. it's about which ones work for you. Each one has a different view of how to work through things.
You are very young still. and you do have your whole life ahead of you. Don't throw it away., You are an amazing beautiful talented person. And i believe in you. You deserve better :)
Hope this helps.
Xo.Jasmine*
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Is it possible for me to pop my cherry while i was riding a horse? i mean my pussy bled and stuff but could this have popped my cherry? My boyfriend will rape me if he finds out that my cherry is popped so i really need to know! i might just kill myself. (link)
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First off, No person should ever threaten you for any reason. Especially one that you are dating. That is a serious problem. I would definetly talk to and adult that you trust or look upto about this situation. Because it is not okay for you to feel scared or threatened.
Second of all. Popping your cherry. is just a saying for the breaking of your hymen.
The Hymen is which is a thin layer of skin that covers the entrance to the vagina. If you have your period and you use tampons, or if you are into sports such as gymnastics, dancing or horse riding, chances are that your hymen is already "broken".
Losing your virginity can be called popping your cherry because there is sometimes a popping feeling when the hymen is broken (it can be a little painful) and there is sometimes blood present afterwards. This doesn't happen for everyone though. Girls/women have different experiences if and when they have penetrative sex for the first time (lose their virginity).
Remember, you only lose your virginity once so you want it to be special and with the right person. You should never feel pressured into having sex. If you do decide to have sex, remember to protect yourself from STIs and unplanned pregnancy by making your partner wear a condom.
Now if there isn't an adult that you trust there is a phone number you can call that is helpful.
Call the Kids Helpline
Hope this helps:)
Xo.Jasmine*
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Hi guys, I'm 16 years old and I am female. I have been dating this guy for a little over 2 months and I am always In the mood to have sex with him but I am soo very self conscience about myself. I'm technically not a virgin but it was like 2 years ago. And he is double my size... Literally and I have to go on top cuz he will squish me. He's told me this, that when it happens I go on top. But how do I make myself feel more comfortable? Please please help me!! Thankyou so much! (link)
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I believe that you are self conscious because of a few different reasons.
First off. Because you have only been dating this boy for two months. I personally think two months is not enough time to get to know someone to be with them physically.
When you give your self and your body to someone you should be in love with them. And have been with them for a while longer than 2 months. It's an emotional connection between the two of you.
also i believe that you are not fully ready to be with him in the emotional level needed to be comfortable to giving yourself to him.
You need to accept yourself for who you are. (not saying you dont accept yourself)
And when you are ready. you will feel alot more comfortable in being with him in a physical and emotional level.
Hope this helps:)
Xo.Jasmine~
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What should I do for the talent show? (link)
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It depends on so many things. Because we don't physically know you we can't exactly say do this. or do that.
What i would suggest though, Is writing up a list of things that you are good at or possibilities for a talent that you possess.
If you are unsure about which talents you think you have you can always ask your friends and family members for what they think you are talented at.
You might be suprised at to what they tell you.
Hope this helps.
Xo.Jasmine~
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So, I used to hate myself when I was younger and then I gave up caring.
But I just saw a bunch of photos of myself and I feel terrible again, and I just want some advice. I'm 19, 20 in September.
It's not wrinkles or anything like that that upsets me it's the shape of my face, my chin, my smile, I can't stand it any more!
Can someone just give me an idea of if there is anything they can actually change about me? and if so what prices am I looking at? I'll save the money...
at the moment I'm a psychology student in England, but I'd give anything to just change enough to be pretty... (link)
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I can tell you. I know how you feel. I'm 21. And i am just not starting to accept my self for who i really am. It is hard to grow up and be accepting of one's self in the surroundings that we are put in.
Now i do want to say. That with out seeing you. I know for a fact you are pretty. Every single person is pretty. But their prettiness shines in different ways. Wheither it be your smile, your eyes. Or the way you talk about poetry.
If you were to cosmetically change yourself. It would definetly change you perminently for the rest of your life.
So you definetly need to think about the pro's con's and if this is truly truly what you would like to do.
Now if it is. I would suggest looking up. And researching. ALOT. You don't want to pick just any surgion. and end up looking like the grinch or something.
I strongly dont believe in cosmetic surgery. But if it's what you choose just make sure that you research it to the fullest extent. and know every bit of information that you can. to make the right decision.
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I am a 17 year old female, I have an 18 year old male best friend. We've been best friends since the 3rd grade, so when we were 5 ish, I believe. I'm told on a daily basis that everybody knows we like each other except for us and that our friendship resembles, to a tee, Billy and Jane of the tv show Jane by Design. We would do anything for each other, he helps me with any problem I may encounter and I would help him with any problem as well. I was the one who helped him through his first and only heart break and I'll never forget the one time he stayed up til 3 in the morning and talked to me when I was crying my eyes out because my parents were fighting. Lately, things have been kinda awkward, we still talk and everything but he's been kinda quiet, he speaks in a quieter voice, he doesn't laugh loudly. Everyday he goes to his best guy friend's locker which is right across from mine, when his friend is done they walk to mine, when I'm done, we all walk to his then walk out to the parking lot together where my best friend will drive me home and his friend will go to his car and head home. Today, my friend and his friend went to his locker without me so I thought that maybe he was busy, so I decided to walk home. He calls me halfway to my house and asks where I am, I told him I'm walking and that it's okay and he said he was so so sorry that he walked to his locker without me, he had to call in to work and ask off. I told him that him making me walk for one day won't make him a bad friend, and he said that it makes him a terrible friend because he didn't tell me he was calling in and that he made me feel like I wasn't wanted. I told him that it wasn't a big deal, he said it is a big deal because it's cold and he's lonely and he's so used to me being in his passenger seat next to him that he hates being alone in his car now. Next thing I know, after we hang up, he's driving up behind me opening the door of his car for me to get in. I told my best friend and she said that not just a regular best friend would do that and that he cares about me. What do you think? Thanks! (link)
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Your best friend is right. That is definetly not normal best friend behaviour. I would say he does like you. and to take a chance on him. He seems like a very nice lad. and If he is that upset about you just walking.. then he difinetly cares about you.
and i think by the fact he stated he likes you in his passenger seat beside him. states that he likes being near you. which is definetly a good sign.
Xo.Jasmine~
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Ok so when me and my ex boyfriend were still together, he Skyped me one time and he had a friend over named Clark so I kind of met him. Well today we had a dance thing and my friend wanted to talk to this guy named Micheal so I went over to talk to Micheal and this guy says "Hey, I know you" and I was like "do I know you?" and so he explains he's Clark and I met him for the first time in person. He's pretty cool actually. So the next slow song came and I went over to my one friend and said I was gonna ask Clark to dance so I went over to Clark and said, "Would you like to dance because your the only guy in this place I dont wanna kill". He laughed then said sure. We danced and talked a bit and Im kind of thankful that my ex didnt show up because him and Clark are really good friends. The dance was almost over and the last slow song played, I went over and asked Clark to dance again and he said yes and we got a bit closer this time and we talked and stuff. The dance ended and I said goodbye to him and I kind of wanted to give him a hug but I just met him for the first time today so I didnt. I think Im falling for him, I really like him. Im not sure if he likes me. He doesnt go to my school, we're both 13 and in grade 8. We're going to the same high school next year. I really want to know if he likes me or not, but I dont want to ask him. I got a friend in his school that said she'll ask him if he likes me. Alot of people thought we looked cute when we danced together. Well do you think he likes me? Opinions? I think Im falling for him and I dont wanna be disappointed if he doesnt like me.. (link)
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Instead of going to the friend root. you should ask your friend to get his number for you. That way you can start talking to him more. via texting
The more you talk to him. the more you will get to know him. And that way you can ask him to hang out. and see how it goes from there.
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