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Boyfriend's dad considers me unattractive?
Hello all,
To put it shortly: I am very close to the family of my boyfriend (we've been together for more than two and a half years) and I am also friends with his dad on Facebook.
With this "latest" newsfeed you also see pictures that people like and whatnot and I see his dad liking the pictures of a page called "Startup needs lubricant" (Translated from German) Which doesn't really bother me. But this group uploads pictures of young women mostly showing off their breasts and asses in lingerie, etc, or just covering their nipples with the bare minimum.
I get it, they are sexy, provocative pictures, men are men, etc.
It just bothers me that I see his dad liking most of them. These are all skinny beautiful women with the perfect bum and perfect boobs. Firstly, I'm just bothered by knowing him so well and then seeing him like all this pictures.
Secondly, I feel very inadequate as the girlfriend now, although my boyfriend loves me as I am, he says I have the perfect boobs, legs and ass for him, it is not as if I am this skinny model type person.
I'm not sure why it bothers me, but I feel as if his dad considers me to be unattractive...
Is there any explanation to this?
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Why would you care? Seems to me that you're attracted to his father, and you feel jealous that he's liking all these women which aren't you.
I just don't understand why you'd care if his dad thinks you're unattractive? If your BOYFRIEND thinks you perfect the way you are, than whats the problem? Obviously, you have some issues going on within for you to care THAT much about your boyfriends father liking women who are pretty & sexy.
All in all, you need to figure out why it bothers you so much and why it makes you feel that way. No one on here can answer your questions because we aren't 100% sure as to why;
If my advice I posted above offends you, I'm sorry in advance. Thats just how I see it, and it may not be the case, but girl, you need to thinka bout why you feel that way;
Its really not normal.
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First off. it should not matter how his dad thinks of you.. you are with you son.. not the father. It would be wierd if the dad did think of you as attractive.
Are you attracted to the dad because you are so close??
You should think of yourself as in attractive to your boyfriend def not the dad. Just because the dad likes these pictures and stuff. should not have any level as to you being adequate in a girlfriend. you are not dating the dad. You are dating the son.
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