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Popping my cherry :)
Is it possible for me to pop my cherry while i was riding a horse? i mean my pussy bled and stuff but could this have popped my cherry? My boyfriend will rape me if he finds out that my cherry is popped so i really need to know! i might just kill myself.
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Yes it is possible to have broken your hymen... But, that doesn't mean you are not a virgin. Many athletic girls's hymen breaks before they have intercourse. And I suggest you stop seeing this boyfriend of yours. He can not just go around making threats like that! And do not kill yourself! There is no reason to get depressed about this. You are still in fact a virgin, you have not had sex. And if your boyfriend tries to rape you or does contact the authorities! Also... Tell a trusted adult he is making these threats. He has no right going around saying things like that. Rape is a serious matter.
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First popping your cherry as you call it; or losing your virginity are two different things. Popping your Cherry is generally considered to be losing your virginity which for most girls also means they breaking their Hymen.
The operative word here is MOST. Girls like you who are athletic or go horseback riding or are avid cyclist will most likely break their Hyman while participating in these types of activities. they and you are still virgins.
It matters not weather your Hyman is intact or not as to the status of your virginity. By today's definition if you have not had vaginal intercourse you are a virgin. Your boyfriends threats to rape you is a crime, in some cases that crime may raise to the level of a felony. Depending on his age he could be charged as an adult and do adult jail time for this crime should you or your parents report him.
If your boyfriend is threatening to rape you what type of person is he really. I don't think he truly loves you for if he did he would not be threatening to hurt you in such a hateful and demeaning manner. In fact I think your boyfriend is typical of most teenage boys in that he has confused lust with love and wants sex anyway he can get it. If it takes raping some girl to get it. He may be capable of doing so.
My advice is to stop seeing him. He does not love you in the manner you love him. Tell your parents he has threatened to rape you. Let them decide if this should be a Police matter. Since I am old enough to be your grandfather I would advise that it be made a police matter. If for no other reason that he learns he can't go around making those types of threats.
The police may or may not charge him with a crime. That will be a decision they will have to make. At the very least their investigation should scare him into understanding that he cannot use bravado, be it false or otherwise, to get a what he wants from someone. That is coercion also a crime.
So please stop seeing him now, and please, please tell your parents. It is for your own good as well as his.
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First off, No person should ever threaten you for any reason. Especially one that you are dating. That is a serious problem. I would definetly talk to and adult that you trust or look upto about this situation. Because it is not okay for you to feel scared or threatened.
Second of all. Popping your cherry. is just a saying for the breaking of your hymen.
The Hymen is which is a thin layer of skin that covers the entrance to the vagina. If you have your period and you use tampons, or if you are into sports such as gymnastics, dancing or horse riding, chances are that your hymen is already "broken".
Losing your virginity can be called popping your cherry because there is sometimes a popping feeling when the hymen is broken (it can be a little painful) and there is sometimes blood present afterwards. This doesn't happen for everyone though. Girls/women have different experiences if and when they have penetrative sex for the first time (lose their virginity).
Remember, you only lose your virginity once so you want it to be special and with the right person. You should never feel pressured into having sex. If you do decide to have sex, remember to protect yourself from STIs and unplanned pregnancy by making your partner wear a condom.
Now if there isn't an adult that you trust there is a phone number you can call that is helpful.
Call the Kids Helpline
Hope this helps:)
Xo.Jasmine*
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What the hell are you doing with a guy who threatens to rape you for any reason? That's NUTS. You need to tell an adult about this threat and get as far away from him as possible. That's not a sane thing for anyone to remark.
The fact is tampon usage, masturbation, sports inclusive of horse back riding can do it. It doesn't mean you aren't a virgin. You are one until intercourse takes place. Believe me you're with one scary SOB and your family needs to deal with this.
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