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I lied to my boyfriend and had sex with someone else! Now he found out and I don't wanna lose him what should I do?
I lied to my boyfriend about a certain thing. During our conversation, he asked me about my ex and I told him that I broke up with him on a certain day at a particular place.. Meanwhile on that day at that place I was with someone else not my ex boyfriend and my ex boyfriend I broke up with him a week before that day... Now my current boyfriend found out I was lying, and also found out about the guy I had a fling with and he called me a fucking retard I told him the truth but he still calls me names and he doesn't wanna talk to me... Pls help me what should I do I don't want to loose him...
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to be honest. i'm not so sure you can get him back. To some people lieing is a MAJOR deal breaker. and the fact that you lied to him straight out with out thinking it is definetly hard for you. He feels that if you lied about this. what else have you lied about. and he feels he can not trust you.
The best advice i can give you. Is to learn from this. Lieing is not something to be taken lightly especially in a relationship.
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Hey there,
Okay to be brutally honest I think it's gone past the point of salvageable. It may not be what you want to hear but its the truth. You broke his trust and hurt him really bad.
Whether or not he decides to give you another chance is up to him. You lied and cheated. You made a mistake but now its time to learn from it and never do it again in the future.
Think about how you would feel if the roles were reversed? Talk to him and let him say everything he is feeling. Tell him how deeply sorry you are and that you made a mistake,and if he is willing you promise to spend the rest of your relationship making it up to him and gaining his trust back. Its a long shot but you can at least try.
The fact is if you really loved him you would have never have done what you did. The consequences of those decisions you made you're going to have to live with. If that means losing your boyfriend.
The ball is in his court. You hurt him so don't expect too much. Try and move on and learn from this.
Good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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