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Best friends
ugh okay so i am sooo annoyed with liking my best friend.
im almost convinced with myself that im in love with him. but a huge problem. hes dating someone. they just got together recently and since im his bestfriend im stuck hearing about it all the time. like today when i find out shes on birth control so theyre gonna start having sex now..ugh it just kills me so much. i want to get over him but i just dont know how. i cant seperate myself from him, because we're best friends. and i want us to be friends for as long as we possibly can...pleaseee hellppp</3
i'm 17/f
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Althought you might like him. You have think of it this way. Do you want him to be happy. Yes obviously right. Well. He does seem happy and he is able to trust you if he is talking to you about his girlfriend.
Also would you really want to confess your feelings when a. He is in a relationship. B. He is your best friend. c. It could cause major drama and breakage in your relationship. D. It could end very badly.
The way i look at it is. Would you really want to risk a fight with your bestfriend and possible ending of friendship.. Orr. would you want him in your life. even as just your friend because you know that it's better to have him in your life as your friend than to not have him in your life at all.
Hope this helps.
Xo.Jasmine*
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first of all, ask yourself if you are willing to sacrifice your friendship to be in a relationship with him. would you rather there be a chance of you and him being together, or being friends for the rest of your lives? so that's something to think about. if you are willing to risk your friendship and still are willing to after about a month or so, talk to him about it. you will never know if you don't speak up. there is no easy way to be completely honest with someone about how you feel,but it is the right thing to do and will help you out in the long run. remember that everything happens for a reason, and to take your time deciding if you want his friendship or to possibly be in a relationship with him.
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