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I just turned 16 and for my birthday I want to go away to a warm place that allows 16 year olds to drink. So basically, a beach that is very lenient with alcohol. Any tips for resorts would be great too! Thanks!
I'd suggest Biarritz in South of France, since the drinking age there is 16...but this isn't the right season. If you go during the summer, you will have a lot of fun there.
I love it, amazing weather and tons of nice people :)
Oh, and good hotels.
I was in love with a guy. He told me he loved me. I thought everything was perfect. But one day, he just stopped talking to me. Then he told my brother that I was annoying and that he hated me. It broke my heart enough that he stopped talking to me, but when my brother told me what he said, it just stabbed me in the heart. I've cried countless tears over him. My friends all say i deserve better. No one has ever liked him and no one has ever approved of him for me. But somehow I cant get over him. Its slowly killing me, I really really want and need to forget him.. But I cant. Please help me.
Female, 14.
Ohh, that's horrible.
He's an ass for doing that.
I don't actually think it is true. I think he's trying to stay away from his emotions. I know guys who get, well, bitchy when they don't ''approve'' of their own emotions.
Take a break from him. Hang around with your friends, go to parties, have sleepovers. Don't think about it. I know it will be hard, but after a week it will get easier.
I believe that you deserve better, and you should too. Feel confident in yourself, and remind yourself that it's all him. You haven't done anything. It's not your fault that he's an ass.
He may start talking to you again if he realizes what he was like. If not, after a few months ask him ''Is there any particular reason why I 'annoyed' you?'' he may find it easier to talk about it then.
Now you just need a break. See if there are any other cute guys around, or try to make new guy friends (I'm not telling you to whore around though :P )
Smile, you're not worth him! :)
Good luck!
I want to get somewhat of color in my skin. My family has a history of skin cancer, so I suppose tanning beds and laying out for hours wouldn't do me much good in the long run.
Any suggestions of some tanning products? I'm looking for more of a lotion with a tan tint in it rather than a tanning spray, etc. I've used Jergen's, but the smell is God awful and its to soupy to apply.
Any other suggestions?
Garnier Skin Naturals ''bodysummer''
It's amazing. I apply it after showering and it gives you a nice glow and a bit of colour without making you look orange. And it smells nice!
It looks like this:
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41OVZzdypIL._SL500_AA280_.jpg
Im looking for a thong with bananas on them.
Lol i know this is a kinda weird question,but does anyone know where i could get one?
If so,thank you so much,i really appreciate it:)
http://www.thefind.com/apparel/info-banana-thong
These had some.
Not a very common product. Although it should be :D
And Sillyrob's answer just made me laugh out loud.
He was just more blunt about it ;)
I want to make an AC/DC t-shirt but instead of AC/DC I want it to be MO/MO (my nick name) with the lighting bolt in the middle. I tryed to do it on cafe express or whatever you call it but when I uploaded a picture of the AC/DC I figure I would just earse the AC and DC so that the lightning bolt would still be in the middle but I couldnt. Does any know a site where I can make the shirt that has the lighting bolt in the middle? Thanks!
http://www.spreadshirt.com/us/US/Create-t-shirt/Designer-59/
In this site, on the left there's a box. Click on the 'design' tab and type ''lightning'' it came up with all sorts of bolts, to me, they seemed like the AC/DC one.
If you need something more specific, ask :)
This is just how I understood your question; you need the lighting bolt.
Good luck! (nice idea btw! :D )
So it was recently Christmas, and I had no idea what to get my boyfriend. I knew anything I got him would not be special enough, and I looked and looked and time just kind of slipped by and I didn't end up getting him anything. He got me something really nice. He was really hurt that I didn't get him anything. I regret it now, but I can't change that, so please don't bug me about it.
Question: What can I surprise him with that would make him really happy? (If any of you suggest sex I will rate you badly)
Maybe you could get him tickets to his favorite band or a sports game?
www.livenation.com is amazing for concerts :)
Or perhaps a limited edition of something he loves?
My closest guy friend is a HUUGUGGEEEEEEEE fan of Machine Head (band) and since he's been having some rough times, I got him a limited edition CD/DVD set and he was really surprised and happy.
I hope this helped!
I'm writing an essay in English concerning the different life styles of teenagers in high school. If you guys could answer a few questions just to give me a few ideas, I'd totally appreciate it. :)
1. What kind of things do you do? (Sports, clubs etc.)
2. Do you have 1 best friend that you spend a lot of time with or a group of friends you spend all your time with?
3. Does your school have lockers outside? Anything cool about your school-block schedule? Stuff like that.
4. Are drugs and drinking big concerns at your school?
5. Finally, is your high school life fun? Do you spend most of your time studying or hanging out with friends? Do you go out with friends every weekend? What kind of stuff do you do?
You can answer some or all of the questions, I'm just trying to get a few different ideas. Thanks!
Well, I live in Europe so my high school isn't the same as the one in the states, but I think I can answer these questions ;)
1. I snowboard and play Tennis a lot. I used to go to drama club.
2.I have a group of friends I spend my time with. Big groups.
3.My school has a lot of space outside where people can hang out. Also if you have a special pass, you can leave the school when you have no lessons or just borrow a guitar when you have no lessons.
4. Drugs and drinking. Well, teachers don't say anything about it...but a lot of people do drugs and drink. I personally don't do drugs, but it's a big problem for some people, and they have ruined friendships with people.
5. My school life is fun :D I love it. I have a balance between going out and studying. If I have tests coming up, I'll probably go out on a Friday night, but then I'll spend the rest of the weekend studying. I never neglect studying for tests and I rarely forget to do an homework. Because we have half day on Wednesdays in school, I generally go shopping, watch a movie or go eat someplace with friends. On Friday or Saturday nights, we usually go out to town (mostly to bars) but in an alcoholic way :P I also go to a lot of concerts with friends, which is fun.
Hmm, I wrote quite a lot, but I hope it helps a little. If it doesn't..f**k it :P
Hi there... Im a 17 yo Guy and i really like my best friend who is 16 and a girl. i just dont really know how to see if she likes me or not. but i dont want things to be awkward. Please give advice on what to say. Thanks
Hello to you too :)
I've been in the same situation, except I liked my best guy friend.
First of all, if she has a boyfriend, don't try anything. That will make things awkward if she knows you like her, and she has a boyfriend.
If you're really close with her, and it seems like you are, just ask her if she has a crush on anybody. If she doesn't want to tell you, or says something like ''a guy'' or ''a friend'' then it's probably you.
Also watch her body language. Does she hug you a lot? Or is she quite touchy(as in she puts her hand on yours or whatever) and does she flirt with you.
If you're very open with each other, you could ask her ''Have you every considered us dating?'' This doesn't say that you want to go out with her, but it's more like a thought.
Be careful with this though. I liked my best guy friend for a long time, but we both didn't do anything about it. Months later when I had a boyfriend he told me that he'd liked me since we met. It was all awkward and horrible :\
So, give hints or ask mutual friends to find out for you, but if you tell her straight ''I like you'' then it may be strange if she doesn't feel the same, and it will have to be something you both can overcome.
Good luck! I hope this helped. If you need anything else, ask.
ive never had sex with music before and i kinda want to. The thing is i cant find enough songs that would be good to put on a cd. me and my bf both like rock and rough sex so i'm looking for music that wouldl be good for that. I like songs like closer by nine inch nails and crazy bitch by buckcherry so maybe some other ones like that. The also dont have to be like explicitly sexual songs as long as they have a good beat for rough sex. Thanks :) oh and btw he's 23 if that makes a difference
Definitely Marilyn Manson, Wednesday 13 would be good. Also some AC/DC and Amon Amarth.
Cloud Connected by In Flames would be good aswell.
i'm burninig a CD by creating a playlist on iTunes. however, i want to randomize the songs on the playlist so it is in no particular order. how can you do this?
my iTunes library is already in artist order, and if i click "Name" it becomes name order. i'm concerned about this because i do not want an original song to play and then all the remixes to play (since i've also added remixes of the songs to the as well), nor do i want all the songs from one particular artist to play for 30 minutes straight.
or, if i cannot randomize it, how can i choose the order of the songs being burned?
You can either just drag the song in a random order. So let's say this is your playlist:
song 1
song 2
song 3
song 4
You can choose song 1, and drag it between song 3 and 4.
Or, when you have your songs ordered by name/artist, go to Controls > Shuffle > Shuffle by songs.
This should then put all the songs in a random order.
But shuffle has to be turned off first, if you have it on.
I hope this helped, let me know if you have any other problems :)
What does (y) mean?
I think it's a london/england/britain thing... but I don't know.
I see it on people's profiles / in people's comments from the u.k.
they have like:
hi (y)
and just (y) at the end of random things
and i have noooo idea what it means...
thankssss
Generally, it's the thumbs up from MSN, but some of my guy friends use it when they talk about ''hot females'' since to them it resembles a woman with crossed legs. Apparently.
Don't ask about that, my male friends are weird ;)
I'm trying to think of the name of a American sitcom I used to like, it's about a family that has Mum, dad, 2 youngish boys, a daughter with red hair called Lilly, the dads brother, and grandpa.
The kids went to a school run by nuns.
At the begining of the show you'd find out something has happend, (for instance, The dad crashes the car) then the dad tell his story to the mum and it works backwards through the show until you find out how it all began.
I hope that all makes sense :-)
Thank you x
Grounded For Life..
Ahh I love it :D
First off thank you for answering my question about transferring the music from my comp to my Matrix phone. Okay most of my music is from Limewire and when I try to get it from there it says the same thing about it being write protected. Is there anything else you know that might help me out. Thank you for reading this and thank you once again for answering my first question.
Ok, you said you have a MicroSD card?
http://gadgetstreet.co.uk/store/images/uploads/MicroSD_w_adapter_512MB_lowres.jpg
If it looks like something like this, notice the little switch on the left hand side.
Check if that's not on lock.
That could be the main problem.
It happened to me. My card adapter was on 'lock' and I couldn't copy anything on my card.
If that is not the case, I will have to think about it.
Hope this works though, good luck!
Okay I am trying to put my music on my Pantech Matrix phone using my MicroSD card. Okay when I try to transfer it a note pops up and says, "The disk is write protected,Remove the write protection or use another disk". What does that mean? The thing is it's not a disk I'm using it's actually my iTunes library page. Can anyone help me out please.
If it's music from the iTunes store, then it won't work. It's protected.
If it's songs off a CD or downloaded from elsewhere, it should work.
hello remember me? lol i dont think so well i asked you questions about tapers back then and i was at 14 and 12 and now im at 10 lol i know im taking it slow so it wont get infected so when i streched my ears to 14 to 12 there was no pain but when i streched 12 to 10 OUCH it hurts like the first time i streched my ear so my right ear is doing okay but my left ear red and kinda fat and its kinda warm when i touch it (i only touch it after i wash my hands) so is there anything wrong with my left ear?
Your left ear seems to be infected.
Clean it with seasalt solution for a few days, and make sure you keep it extra clean, if it doesn't improve, I suggest going to the doctors to get their advice.
I wouldn't want to give you medical advice seeing as I'm not a doctor ;)
I've had my piercings get infected too. If the swelling didn't go away after cleaning it with sea salt for at least three days, I've gone to the doctors.
So good luck!
OK, what excatly is a douche bag? my sister says it all the time and my friends and i even heard my sisters boys friend say it.
I have heard many, many defitions but which one is the right, acutal meaning?
thanks.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Douche+bag
i need names of german techno artists ( or maybe european techno) it's not rammstein, its another artist and i can't remember the name!
Was it Hanzel Und Gertyl?
http://www.myspace.com/hanzelundgretyl
And by the way, Rammstein isn't so much Techno :P
And if it's not Hanzel Und Gertyl, then use MySpace, you can search there.
so this guy asked me out like 2 months ago but i kindly said no because i didnt know him.i mean it was the first time i really talked to him ya know?
then i didnt seem him till about 2 weeks ago.he was flirting with me and stuff.well then when i walked by him he was like so whats up?and then when i replied he asked if i like him and i said well i dont know you really.so then he was like what you dont know me now?and i was like i never really got to know you but he didnt seem upset about it because he still flirted.well then i saw him last night and he was with some girl i believe was his girlfriend.and it kinda made me jealous i guess.it kinda made me think what if i really missed out ya know?now i dont know what i should do.i felt like i liked him last night when before i didnt feel it but between 2 weeks ago and last night i was thinkin like next time i see him if he asks me out again i was gonna say yes well know i feel im too late.am i just feeling this because he does have a girl now or what?i mean the only reason i turned him down was because i didnt know him all the well,he wasnt what i would date(appearence wise) and my friends opinion but when i thought about it he is a really great guy besides i never really see him but i was thinknin that would change if we dated ya knw?well i wanna thank you all before hand
Honestly? It just seems like the guy is a flirt and wants attention. I mean, he has a girlfriend but he still flirts...that doesn't show too much about him.
You should get to know him, but try to avoid the emotions that make you like like him.
You get a feeling of attraction towards him when he flirts and makes you feel wanted, I know this because it's happened to me as well.
Hang out with him, but let him know that you want to know him and you're not looking for a relationship with him.
If you did date him, he would most probably still flirt with other girls...since he's been flirting now whilst he has a girlfriend. Dating him wouldn't change much. You'd be better off knowing him really well...then considering a relationship.
Good luck!
14/f. on my right boob there is this yellow spot around the size of my pinkie nail. is this anything i should be worried about?? thanks
I would suggest going to the doctors, but it could be a bruise.
I was quite scared once since I had a yellowish spot just under my boob..but in fact it was a bruise :P
Good luck.
are nokin cameras good? specifically nikon coolpix?
whats better least to greates sony canon and nikon
thanks
if you know any more good please list..
Well, I didn't like my Nikon Coolpix.
You would be better off with a Sony or a Canon :)
I have the Sony Cybershot T20 and I love it.
It work amazingly, even at a metal festival, 90% of the pictures I took of bands(moving, and me being pushed around) aren't blurry.
My Nikon stopped focusing after two months..and all pictures with flash were still blurry.