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Im broken-hearted by a stupid guy and I cant get over him.
I was in love with a guy. He told me he loved me. I thought everything was perfect. But one day, he just stopped talking to me. Then he told my brother that I was annoying and that he hated me. It broke my heart enough that he stopped talking to me, but when my brother told me what he said, it just stabbed me in the heart. I've cried countless tears over him. My friends all say i deserve better. No one has ever liked him and no one has ever approved of him for me. But somehow I cant get over him. Its slowly killing me, I really really want and need to forget him.. But I cant. Please help me.
Female, 14.
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Ohh, that's horrible.
He's an ass for doing that.
I don't actually think it is true. I think he's trying to stay away from his emotions. I know guys who get, well, bitchy when they don't ''approve'' of their own emotions.
Take a break from him. Hang around with your friends, go to parties, have sleepovers. Don't think about it. I know it will be hard, but after a week it will get easier.
I believe that you deserve better, and you should too. Feel confident in yourself, and remind yourself that it's all him. You haven't done anything. It's not your fault that he's an ass.
He may start talking to you again if he realizes what he was like. If not, after a few months ask him ''Is there any particular reason why I 'annoyed' you?'' he may find it easier to talk about it then.
Now you just need a break. See if there are any other cute guys around, or try to make new guy friends (I'm not telling you to whore around though :P )
Smile, you're not worth him! :)
Good luck!
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