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My Friend And I
Hi there... Im a 17 yo Guy and i really like my best friend who is 16 and a girl. i just dont really know how to see if she likes me or not. but i dont want things to be awkward. Please give advice on what to say. Thanks
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Hello to you too :)
I've been in the same situation, except I liked my best guy friend.
First of all, if she has a boyfriend, don't try anything. That will make things awkward if she knows you like her, and she has a boyfriend.
If you're really close with her, and it seems like you are, just ask her if she has a crush on anybody. If she doesn't want to tell you, or says something like ''a guy'' or ''a friend'' then it's probably you.
Also watch her body language. Does she hug you a lot? Or is she quite touchy(as in she puts her hand on yours or whatever) and does she flirt with you.
If you're very open with each other, you could ask her ''Have you every considered us dating?'' This doesn't say that you want to go out with her, but it's more like a thought.
Be careful with this though. I liked my best guy friend for a long time, but we both didn't do anything about it. Months later when I had a boyfriend he told me that he'd liked me since we met. It was all awkward and horrible :
So, give hints or ask mutual friends to find out for you, but if you tell her straight ''I like you'' then it may be strange if she doesn't feel the same, and it will have to be something you both can overcome.
Good luck! I hope this helped. If you need anything else, ask.
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