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uhh hmm..idk lol sorry but like i dont think you can get rid of leg muscles. all people look differently. soo yeah i dont think you can fix it.

-hope that helped!♥

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I am 13 years old, and my five year old brother has just started kindgergarten. I am afraid there is something terribly wrong. In just a week and a half, he's gotten a dozen reports from his teacher saying he was being bad. my brother is not a bad kid, and the allegations are (in my opinion) completely bogus. Just yesterday, my family and I recieved a call that my brother had been fighting on the playgroung. So we went over, and found out that it was just a few hits--nothing serious, but his teacher got together with the assistant principal, and they want to suspend him for "fighting" Is this teacher stepping over the line? I had bad experiences with teachers when I was at this school, and I'm afraid that because we have the same last name (and darker skin tone), he is being discriminated against.

teachers can be difficult. since your brother isn't a bad kid at home er anything, it is difficult to see how he can get into trouble at school. sometimes its juss phases, because that's how kids are, especially boys. maybe the teacher is juss over exaggerating about it. i hope she doesn't have a problem with you er the darker skin tone, because that's juss wrong. talk to him about it, and it keeps happening as he grows up, with other classmates, teachers etc. then it really is him and you guys should talk about it.

good luck!♥

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hi, I am a girl who is 13. I always act mature for my age, and have friend's who are always older than me. Is this normal?

yeah very normal. you're actually lucky, because not many people at age 13 are mature. haha so its good =) older friends can teach you a lot too.

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Does anyone know if the song My Humps by black eyed peas have a music video for it yet?

nope, no video yet, but it should be coming out soon. well that's what i heard. you can get some other BEP ones here

-www.videocodes4u.com

-hope that helped!♥

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i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do

-to hate or not to hate-

13/f

talk to her about it. im sure if the situation was reversed, you'd want her to talk about it with you. since you guys are friends, it should all work out. juss sit down and explain to her how you feel.

good luck!♥

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i was wondering if anyone knows how tp put pics. on myspace not like under view pictures like on the main page?? i'll rate high thanks a bunch!

ok! i juss figured it out not that long ago haha =)

the easiest way is to get an account at photobucket. so go to www.photobucket.com & get an account, it's free. you might wanna use your myspace name er s/n er something to remember it. soo w/e you pic you want, right click and click 'save as' and name it whatever. then when you get your photobucket account you click -browse- and click the pic you want and then submit. it'll load & your picture will show up with 3 links underneath. img, tag, and something else. well copy and paste the tag link into the section of your myspace you want it in.

example- if you have a picture of your fav band, put the tag in your 'music' section on what kinda music you listen to!

need anymore help? leave feedback

-hope that helped!♥

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i am a 13/m and i just cant seem to loose wieght i am 5,4 and wieght between 120-125 and i skateboard and am very active and sweat alot but i just cant seem to loose my baby fat and my gut i have a six pack but it doesnt show that much and when me and my friends skate to impress the girls i want to keep my shirt on so how can i loose wieght faster then i have been
P.S. i have lost about 10 pounds in the last 6-8 months

everyone says how you need to 'cut out' fatty foods when you don't. you really juss have to eat all 3 meals and stuff. here's a faster plan.

-sleep 9-10 hours every night
-eat all 3 meals
-eat a good sized breakfast [if you don't you actually gain weight er keep the same weight, because your body is going into starvation mode and you aren't burning calories]
-eat 3 snacks inbetween 3 meals, so basically eat every 3 hours [to help your metabolism] there's a catch to that one! don't eat like cookies and chips. you have to eat fruits, veggies, crackers, etc.
-exercise. run, jog, walk, play basketball, swim, skateboardings good.

here's a website for exercises-
http://exercise.about.com/od/abs/ss/abexercises.htm

good luck!♥

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Okay, right now, my hairstyle is kind of plain and I want to change it to a hairstyle I just got recently, although I can't style it that way without the proper hair products. My bangs right now, are about 1 1/2" long as well as the top of my head, the hair on the sides can cover my ears and the hair on the back reaches to the middle of my neck. The hairstyle I had recently was called "The Wispy Look". I basically wanted the back of my hair spiked up and out, then the sides would be covering my ears, and then the front(bangs) would just be off my forehead in whatever direction I want. I tried to described this new look in the best way I can, but I'm just wondering if it'd look good. I'm a guy, by the way. Oh! I'm also a brunette and my hair is straight, not curly whatsoever.

it'd look juss fine. i'm glad you said you're a guy though because i was starting to wonder =) i know this really cool spiking gel if you wanna try it out-

http://www.zuckermanpharmacy.com/product.cfm/hurl/Personal/HAIRCARE/StylingAidsMousseGelsSpritz/631747.html

-hope that helped!♥

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Hello I am an 18 year old female with a rather embarrassing question. My vagina has this weird..... almost like a hanging flap of skin on one side. And only one side. It is pretty long, over two inches when pulled up. I am afriad to date or anything because I dont want him to think I am freaking looking down there. I havn't seen barly any vaginas in my life- is this normal?? PLease help!

that's completely normal. idk everyone is different. if you feel weird about it, you can always go to the gyn. plus, why not date? i mean a guy would love you for who you are, not what..that looks like right?

-hope that helped!♥

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(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??

please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!

sorry, it was long...

thanks!!

hmm..that doesn't seem too bad, because i know a lot of girls that get it heavy sometimes. if your WHOLE period, like all the days you have it is heavy, and then next time you get it, its STILL heavy, go see a doctor. you juss wanna be careful, but i think you're fine. tampons are good for when its heavy. it might be annoying, but if it does get on your underwear try a tampon, and then a pad juss to be safe. especially since school is starting er already did. i'm pretty sure it's normal, but it doesn't hurt to get it checked out =)

-hope that helped!♥

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does anyone know a good hair straightner?

thanks

yes! my hair is completely curly, like in rings of curls and this is the straightner i use-

http://www.thebuzzelectronics.com/item.asp?item_id=113858&refid=1015

the trick is the ceramic plates =) also its cheap

-hope that helped!♥

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i wrote...i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant?
but i would like to add...
this is really scaring me now still no period... 15 days late and today i've been geting this clear odorless liquid even when its dry its still clear not like dischanrge! i keep feeling a bit sick normally around the morning/lunch time and i kinda fainted the other day like i was sitting on the chair then i found myself on the floor :|

sorry to hear that! don't stress too much. juss wait till 20 days, then yes, you did skip your period which can be a sign of pregnancy, but not always. a lot of girls skip their period on and off, but since you did have sex, being pregnant is obviously a big possibility. idk much about the "pull out" method, but since you felt faint have discharge, and have been going to the bathroom a lot, etc. you should get checked out, er get a pregnancy test. here's a website-

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/pregnancy/a/pregnancysigns_2.htm

try that, if the signs make sense, and if you don't get your period, take a prenancy test er go to the doctor.

-hope that helped!♥

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Ok, first off if you are reading this and you know your just going to put something everyones going to say, please stop. I really truely need help! Ok, my best friend, lets call her 'Kristina' and me are going out with these 2 guys, lets call them Drew and West....ok well i go out with 'Drew' and 'Kristina' is going out with West! wellll....are relationshiphs with them are very....serious! i mean we love them to death buttt....me and 'west' have been talking online and becoming really good friends! and now...i find myself thinking about him sometimes and thinking about if i was with him and ive also had like 2 dreams about us making out or being together or something like that! andd everytime i think about this i cry and get upset because i dont want this to happen....but i think it is! i really dont have a clue what to do....somebody seriously needs to help me! like please dont send a smart remark please please try and see things from my point of view! act like you were me! ....thanks so much!

hmm..it seems like you might have a little feeling for 'west' but i wouldn't worry too much about it. maybe you juss think he's attractive er a good friend ya know? try getting your feelings straight first. if you really do think you're starting to like him, you need to talk to 'kristina'. i know that sounds difficult since you don't want to hurt her, but i think if you were in her position you'd wanna know too. if you don't plan on doing anything with 'west' er having a relationship with him, then don't worry about telling anyone and fight through it. if it's a different case then you should be honest with 'kristina' first. it could be completely innocent. really though, the dreams aren't your fault. you can't control what you dream, unless you daydream, but then again that's different. you juss need to straighten out your feelings, and then go from there.

good luck!♥

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My boyfriend sits by like all girls in most of his classes, and he always seems to be flirtin with them. It also doesnt help that they're prettier than me. I was wondering if it's normal to feel jealous about this, and if so what should i do? I already tried talking to him about it, and he just kind of blew the subject off saying 'o no we werent flirting', evne though it looked like him and the girls were. Help please!

totally normal to be jealous. hmm..idk guys do that sometimes. it really depends on what hes like though. since you already tried talking to him and he blew off the subject, it might be a sign that he really was flirting, sorry to say. if i were you, try bringing it up one more time saying you don't really appreciate how he acts with other girls. it might be harmless to him, but probably not to you. maybe you should ask the girls? i think your friends can help you on this one, er maybe his. if he doesn't seem to talk about it much, er pushes it aside, you need to try and see it his way, and maybe express how you feel by telling him you don't like it and you really think it is flirting. if all that fails, then maybe you need to break it off. if he wants to be with you though, he'll explain it. i wouldn't worry.

good luck!♥

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Hey
I was wondering..today i ran the mile in 8:47 minutes today. Do u think that is goos, bad or average? just wonderin because our coach didnt tell us. thanks! xoxo

i think that's pretty good, er average. it really depends on your athletic ability. my average for the mile is around 9.02[yet i talk to people the whole entire time] and i'm like in the middle. it definately isn't bad though. bad would be like 10-12. it really depends on like what your coach is looking for, but it's pretty good.

-hope that helped!♥

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okay this is gonna sound gross but i need help. a few days ago i had a sore throat and my stomach hurt (like cramps) yesterday the sore throat was gone but my stomach was worse, like cramps and dizziness sorta. lastnight i kept waking up with diarrhea. i know its gross and all. but like whenever i started to wipe there was a little blood. now this morning i went to the bathroom (just number one) but there was blood. and now in my underwear there is a little blood. am i starting my period or is it because i was sick??? thanks in advance for anyone who tries to help. just only answer if you think you REALLY know. THANKS.

it sounds to me like it's both. actually, for some people diarrhea is a symptom of your period. i think it was juss a cold/period in one. sometimes that happens. if you see that the bleeding keeps up, obviously it's your period. if it's been 7 days and you still feel weird, er uncomfortable about it go see a doctor. i know a few people that have those symptoms when they get their period. go talk to your mom, friend, er even a doctor about it. the only thing that can really help you is tylenol er advil. ask your parents which one is for you. midol really helps with cramps though. about the diarrhea thing, i think it's basically common, but i'm sure that doctors can do something about it. medicine er anything like that. i think the sore throat thing was juss a coincidence. if you get your period again, and you have another sore throat, then i'd go get it checked out.

http://womenshealth.about.com/cs/crampsmenstrual/a/cramps.htm
-thats ways to reduce cramps. it should help you a bit.

obviously i'm not a doctor, but if the bleeding keeps up, then yes it's your period. it wouldn't be a bad idea to get it checked out.

-hope that helped!♥

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ME and my best friend used to never get in fights but lately she is like causing so much drama and like gettin pissed at me for nuthin and i dunno if there is anything i can do to change this.. should i baQ off for a lil while n let her get her issues strait.. or wut?!? please help!!

hmm..i'd talk to her about it first. if she seems annoyed er mad juss let it go for a bit. tell her you'll be there for her when she needs you, but you don't want to make her mad by bothering her if she's in a bad mood. fights and drama arent, and sometimes girls go through stages. juss talk to her about it and tell her how you'll feel. she'll listen. if it gets worse, then back off for a bit and see where things go.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so i have a boyfriend who i met online. he(20years old) lives in england and i(18) live in spring grove, pa,so as you can tell there is a distance problem. can a long distance relationship work?
thanks for any help,
jami

yes! of course it can. it really depends on how strong you guys feel for eachother. me and my bf live about 2 hours away, but our 2 year anniversary was this month, August. England is pretty far from PA, but since he's 20 and you're 18, you both are adults, so why not try meeting on vacations er weekends er even during the summer. you guys can plan trips and stuff, but try finding out as much information before you guys meet since you did meet him online. he probably is a good guy, but sometimes there's weirdos. distance shouldn't be an issue if you guys love eachother. try talking to him about it.

good luck!♥

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every morning, i have the sniffles. like i constantly blow my nose & sneeze & everything. last year, i couldn't concentrate in my 1st period class bc i had the sniffles! ugh it's so annoying! and it only happens when i wake up early, not when i wake up whenever. school starts soon & i don't want to be humuliated in my class. how can i get rid of them?? thanks and yeah i'll rate lol

it sounds like allergies to me. i have bad sinus's and i wake up with a stuffy nose and stuff. if it really is every morning, go to the doctor about it. there's a pill called singular and it really works. it could also be a form of asthma, which i also have. try these websites-

http://allergies.about.com/cs/season/a/aa032700a.htm

http://www.personalbest.com/yourhealth/library/sniffle_solutions.html

-hope that helped!♥

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I really, really like this guy.Earlier this year, I think he sort of liked me because he was kind of flirting, but at the time, I was so involved with my own issues and I was going through a "Goth" phase that I didn't notice. And I think he doesn't like me anymore, I heard he has this new girlfriend (let's name her "Chloe") and I hate her to death. I now wish I gave him that chance earlier this year. What can I do? I'm thirteen and I know this kind of problem seems minor compared to someone who's like 18, but this is an advice site, so I thought maybe someone here could help me???

i'd talk to him about it. i know, he has a gf, but you should let him know how you feel without coming on to him since he does have a gf, even if you hate her. maybe he still likes you, but juss wanted a gf, because he didn't think you'd like him. he might be really flattered and reconsider going out with you. juss let him know how you feel. maybe you guys can build more of a friend relationship first to see how things go. you know, hang out and stuff.

good luck!♥

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