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i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do
-to hate or not to hate-
13/f
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U should talk to her. And try to fight alot . Me and my best friend do the same until I talk to her.And like now we stoped.Try to do the same and maybe u and her will stop fighting.
with love,
Miss Thang
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You should not hate. What you need to do is try not to have so many arguments. Talk to her as calm as possible. You need to tell her straight up saying "ya know what we really got to stop fighting or else our friendship will get father and father apart and I don't want that to happen"
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Sit down and talk to her tell her how you feel. and if she doesint listen then you diserve a better friend!
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All friends fight every once and a while. Its like a test. If you guys get thru it and move on it means your ment to be friends. If you guys can`t seem to get over it, maybe its time to move on.
Hope I Could Help.
♥ Kymmie.
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Dont let the things that make you mad get you so mad.
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Well it just sounds like you have that love hate friendship... i would say take a break from her... & try to meet sum new people...
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What you could do is have a long discussion about this telling her you don't want to get into fights anymore,and friends should be able to communicate without fighting any why you too.Whenever you're about to have an arguement in which you know will lead to a fight you must tell her that you don't want to argue you just want to be normal friends and what does she think about getting along well with you?I'm sure she feels to want to stop this whole thing but remember you too must cooperate to solve this because if just one wants to then it will just fail so keep that in mind.
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Read Harry Potter Book Two. It says "It is our choices, Harry, that shows who we truely are, far more than our abilities." If you need a translation of how that applies to you, I'll show you.
You want to be friends with her. You chose that you want to be friends with her. Your abilities say that you aren't supposed to be friends with her, as you are not able to live without getting into fights. Yet, you have stayed together this long. Because choices are more than abilities.
Stay with her as long as you want to be her friend, not as long as you are supposed to be her friend.
Hope this helped!
-Steven
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talk to her about it. im sure if the situation was reversed, you'd want her to talk about it with you. since you guys are friends, it should all work out. juss sit down and explain to her how you feel.
good luck!♥
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im kind of in the same situation right now i have this friend me and him fight all the time but i really want to be friends with him
anyways what i did was let it go we hardly talk anymore because of all the fighting so whats the point of being friends with him right?
so just let it go i know you may love your friend to death but if you guys fight alot then what kind of friendship is that
give it some time and in a few weeks try to talk to her again
i hope this helps if you need anything else dont hesitate to drop one in my inbox ♥
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maybe you should tell her how you feel and find out what the fights about maybe there is your answer .
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