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Okay I am crying as I write this but I am a Advicenator and I need advice...
My Ex Boyfriend Sam and I went out for 9 months and the relationship went fine and the break up was mutual but lately all we seem to do is fight and the fights are usuaally his doing...weather he talks about his new intrest (I know she is not his girlfriend because I have friends that know more than Sam does) or talk about things that he KNOWS that will upset me and provoke me to hang up on him or cry. Please help me to get to have a better friendship with him and I still like him like I did when we went out.
Age: 21
Gender: Female (link)
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why does it still make you cry if the breakup was mutual? sounds to me like you still have feeligns for him maybe thats what you should talk about. or just talk to him about your love intrsts but the fact that hes talking to you about it means hes fine with being your friend after a breakup, which is rare.
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I'm sorry if this is a little long...
There are three of us, me and my two friends that I'm going to call Keri and Amber.
The last few months Keri and Amber always are partners with each other for everything and leave me out, they never wait for me, and then always ignore me in many of the classes we have together. I took half an hour to tell Kari how I felt about it on the phone last night and today Amber came up to me and asked me why I was mad at them. I got really angry because I spent half an hour explaining why I was upset, and then she says to only remembers half of it, and I started yelling at her, because it doesn't seem like she cares about how I feel.
My question is what should I do about it, and am I overracting about it?
Thanks (link)
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it kidna seems like they judt dont really care about you, sorry. my advice is to find new friends if she doesnt care enough to lsiten to you when your pouring your heart out then forget about her
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Can you get pregnant from pre-cum? (link)
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yeah you can also get STDs from it.
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If you were a boy around a 14 or 15 what would be your dream christmas gift to get from your girlfriend? Im stuck on what do get my boyfriend so share what you would love to get from a girl and please... nothing grose! Thanks soo much!!! (link)
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well why dont you give him yourself, if you havent already? heh you could always try video games, halo2 if he doesnt already have it or grand theft auto san andreas.
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My friend and I hatw this teacher and as a joke we made this odd screen name and sent him e-mails. It was the worst dissoin of my life. I sent one that was like "I hate your class I am so glad I am in highschool now". But my friend HATES that teacher so she sent and e-mail like" teacher you hurt me so the hammer is coming down...have fun in hell" I didn't mean for it to go this far. Now the police are in his room for a long time like every day. Thankfully I deleted that screen name! They made an anousement on the intercom about it and ever since I have been shaking and I am so scared/screwd. If I get caught it wont be for the one I sent, it will be for the one my friend sent. I was thinking of sending an e-mail to my teach saying like sorry it was only a joke but I'm not sure... help! I am so scared but I know for sure I am not going to tell any one but I need to know what to do! (link)
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well if you do get caught rat your friend out, i know it sounds bad but why should you take the fall for something you both did? chances are they wont be able to track the email and yeah you wouldnt get in much trouble unless you sent death threats and such.
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I'm a 14 female. My ex boyfriend is 16. He broke up with me a little over a month now. We dated for 6 months. His reason was he wanted to concertrate on school and didn't want a girlfriend. I think it was just an excuse! After we broke up we still talked for another week and we were supossdely going to get back together but never did because one day I called him and he was a totall jerk to me and he started to ignore me for a whole week. Whenever we saw each other we would give hugs and say hey. He still knew I had feelings for him. The next day at school I found out that he made out with some other girl. He knew I found out and we haven't talked since. Even though what he did was totally wrong I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me and I'm not gonna go chase after him. I don't know if I should wait and find out if he has the same feelings about me as I do about him or should I just try to move on? Any advice?? Thanks! (link)
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yeah sorry i had the same thing happen to me, it is jsut an excuse. i suggest getting over him and miving on, it will be hard but you shouldnt waste your life on some jerk.
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So, i've been thinking about but not really knowing if... I mean it's not that I want to commit suicide... I guess i'm just depressed and no I don't want to go on medication cause it's not like my brain is screwed up... it's just that I dunno I feel ugly I feel bad and whenever I tell anyone it doesn't seem to be relevant to them... and yes I know by posting this there will be people (stupid) saying that "YA U SHOULD U WORTHLESS PEICE OF ****" and I really don't care cause I probably should... I know that you guys probably don't care whether I live or not cause I mean it'll just mean one less mouth to feed and one more room to fill...
Basically the reason why I am depressed is that cause I'm gay and i've told people but not everyone... and I just want to have someone to be able to love me back and someone to be able to cuddle with on winter's cold... I've tried online chatting (no not AIM) but actual sites that are serious and no respons... I guess it's cause I'm ugly... but I just feel... *sigh* (link)
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well my advice would be to move. seriously dude you live in a soutehr state dont you? probly texas or soemthing, really move to california people are alot more tolerant of gays and all minorities in general here. yeah being gay (or black or mexican or jewish) in a souther state is enough ot make anyone want to comit suicide.
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my cat is verry wild. she never comes when she is called .she always gets hurt and im scared shell get killed out in the woods behind my house.what should i do to keep her safe?
thanks, sk8r gurl 12 (link)
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cats cant really be trained unless theyve been with you since birth. i sugest getting an ivisible fence ( its a color that shocks your cat a little if it gets too far from the base). that will keep her out of the woods.
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i really want a bf and im super slender and pretty (well lots of people said tha to me) and everyone i know have a bf xcept me is there like anything i can do besides flirting and if not how should i flirt i dont wanna walk up to him and say omg cute shirt or smile at him something else
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im a shy person sometimes but im getting more flirtatious and outgoing (link)
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you could always try going up to a boy and saying hi i like you wana go out? taht works realy well lol.
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Say you like a girl and you know she likes you. You've hooked up once or twice and promised to call her so that you can arrange a proper date. How soon should you call/meet/talk to to arrange this date? (link)
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id say about 2 days.
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hello, ok I just got my Belly button pierced. and the guy told me to clean it once a day with sea salt, is that right? should i use anything else? (link)
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ok i havent exactly ever gotten my belly button pierced but for open wounds like that the best thing to use is warm salt water. you could always use hydrogen peroxide (diluted lol) itll hurt like hell but it cleans better.
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I've been having these visions in my sleep that it's going to become the end of the world by next Friday. I wake up in a cold sweat and see pink gay bunnys everywhere. Then all the sudden the damn rabbits start making out with my pillow. Then the frisky lil things take out bb guns and start shooting my TV. My house then catches on fire, causing the next house to burn up too (some how, i don't know how, though). ...and so on. Then the whole US is on fire. Our president, bush, thinks we're getting bombed by iraq so we go to another deadly war. Then china launches a gigantic nuclear fusion for the hell of it, and the world blows up.
But some how I manage to survive bc/ i can breathe in outter space. Then, I rule the universe! Muhahahaha
What should I do about these dreadful nightmares?
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step 1. stop taking acid
step 2. stop taking crack
step 3. stop taking PCP
step 4. stop smoking crack
step 5. stop smoking weed
theres ya go that should be about enough to stop these crazy visions. and the world isnt ending until i say so.
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what are some good teen websites, safe, where you can meet people in your local areas? thanks in advance (link)
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well if you want to chat online theyre all safe, if you wana meet IRL none of them are.
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i have a bad self esteem issue and i want to fix it. how do i convince myself that i am not fat and ugly? i really think i am, and i dont ever say anything about it, but my friends always call me pretty and stuff, i want to be confident in myslef. (link)
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you know i actualy did a study on this, all girls think they are fat and ugly. well 95/100 anyways or its some big number like that i dont remember the exact one. anyways best thing you can do is ask people if they say youre fat and ugly then youre fat and ugly if they say your hot then youre hot.
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ok heres my deal, i will be moving to fl from ca and i am shy and i want to know what is the best way to present myself in a friendly manner so that will able me to make friends...??
thank you so much! (link)
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dont worry everyone in florida is old anyways. nah jk um its jsut as sunny over there as it is over here so you dont really need to act any different
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I'm female, and i know that i'm going to have sex sometime soon, anyone got advice? (link)
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use a condom, make sure youre ready, um make sure no one will barge in on you.
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Does anybody know any good places to download music other than kazaa and limewire. I use to have limewire but my dad reformated my computer and it won't let me download it again. Any help is appreciated. (link)
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suprnova.org make sure you spell it like that, theres no e. you need to download a program called bittorrent but its totaly un noticeable then when you go theat site and click a music link (it wont work if you dont have it) it will download the song for you.
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ok i need help. my friend, lets same her name is ash, well she's an AMAZING singer. she's 15 and she can sing really reaaly good. she's in a bunch of choirs, and she's been acting in plays for over 7 years. she has a band, and i want her to get discovered. she plays at everything imaginable, she's almost always available. well how do i help to get her noticed?
thanks in advance! =)))))))`~)~ (link)
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im sorry youre under the impression that being a famous singer is about singing well *cough* britney spears *cough* hillary duff *cough* lindsay lohan *cough* christina aguilera *cough* *cough* *cough* *cough* *cough* oh man i should really get that cough checked out. anyways if your friend is hot then she needs to find an agent or something, if you arent living in LA its preatty hard to get discovered for anything. she can try out for the next american idol.
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Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me! (link)
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um find otehr friends your age? really if the age botehrs you that much then dont hang out with them or something it really isnt that big of a deal. or you could bring a friend your age to hang out with all of the m together.
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Darrel, this guy I like, likes me back. Except...he's black, and I'm white. And my mom has already told me that she wouldn't support me if I were to date a black guy. Not because she's racist, but because of the "problems" it causes, and everyone will look at you differently. But she isn't going to forbid me from doing it, because she knows that I have to do what's right for me, not for her. And anyway, I think that the things that go along with dating a black person kind of are problems - other black guys will look at you and think, oh, she's into black guys, and other white people will look at you differently, and if they don't know Darrel they won't know what a sweet, funny, smart guy he is, and how he wouldn't ever get mixed up in the wrong crowd. But I think I might really like him. And it's wrong not to date someone just because they're black - that's racism! I guess what I'm trying to say is, I need some comfort and someone telling me what the right thing to do is, lol! Sorry about the long story, but I rate! (Oh, and I'm 14/f, by the way.) (link)
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if you like him date him, race doesn't matter.
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