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I'm Jack/Jamie.

I'm 28 years old. I graduated from Michigan State University with my Bachelor of Science in Chemistry. GO GREEN! Now I'm a high school chemistry teacher in New York City living with my husband in a small studio apartment we pay way too much money for.

I've been on this site for 14 years as of March 23, 2020.
You may have seen me as CuxMiBeckNow7, but I've since shortened my name.


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--Jack

advice

Which one of these would be more efficient to remove ace in numrous numbers and quickly too?

-put on my acne medication and than work out

- or put it on afterwards?

I sweat a lot while working out so maybe it'll wash out the medicine or clog it more form sweat? But I'm thinking, if i put on my medicine b4 i work out.. I'd have the medicine on my face longer so it'll heal more pimples.

You should never put any acne medication before you know that you'll sweat. Having the medication on longer won't do anything compared to having it be sweated off.

So you should put it on afterwards.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I feel stupid for askign thsi but im 13 and just got my first acne treatment from a doctor and i'm wondering, how do you put the cream on?

Do you like rub it in or just dab it on?

Did you read the directions?

Most require you to rub it in, but you should go by what the container says.

--Jack
(15/m)

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ok, so i have to do a project that is teaching a child who's between the ages of 2 & 6. the youngest child that i know is 2..but i can't think of anything that i could teach her..any suggestions??

If you're teaching a 2 year old- you could teach the alphabet.
You could teach numbers [English and Spanish].
You could teach nursery rhymes.
http://www.zelo.com/FAMILY/NURSERY/

Kids love those.

Sorry if I copy anyone on accident- I stepped away from my computer for awhile and haven't looked at what other people have said.

--Jack
(15/m)

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16/f. So I have this friend Liz. She is dating Jake. And a few times during the summer when Liz was gone I hooked up with Jake for a few times. She doesn't know but she found some messages of us flirting and things are kinda awkward with us now. School's started now and I have a few classes with her. I apologized to her today for things being off with us and that I hope we can just put this behind us and be friends again. We're ok now but I still like Jake. I don't feel guilty, and I really want to see him. Help?

Let me ask you a simple question: Is Liz still dating Jake? If yes, you need to back off. Jake doesn't like you. Sorry- but its true. And if you think that- I'm sorry that you do. He was lonely- and wanted to be with someone. So when you two were flirting or whatever and Liz found out- she had EVERY right to be mad. If you want things to stay how they are now with you two alright- then you will know to back off from Jake. If you do decide to pursue Jake, well, then say goodbye to your friendship with Liz. She doesn't deserve to have her friend hooking up with her boyfriend.

--Jack
(15/m)

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13/f Michigan There's this boy..let's call him Nate.And Nate hasn't been talking to me at all lately..and I'm just wondering if he's getting sick of me..or what.I mean it's been about a week now, and he hasn't said a thing.It's all different.And then I met this other kid, let's call him Eric.And Eric likes to RP, as in role play on Aim, and he's very..sexual with everything that he says.AND HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND.Who cyber sexes with someone when they're in a relationship? I didn't, my friend did.But still.The point is, is that he's confusing.What do I do....?

Just a few things I want to clear up.

One, we don't need to know you're from Michigan [although I think its cool- because I'm from Michigan]. Its like telling us how tall you are in a question about what a blow job is- it isn't necessary.

Two, you're asking two separate questions. Next time, please ask them separately. I figure you're new here, so I'll be nice and try to answer both.


I, being a guy, know that guys are confusing people. They do things that you can't really explain and its hard to follow them sometimes. Its just a part of being a teenager. If you really want to know why Nate is ignoring you or not talking to you- you should just ask him. We aren't going to magically know. Only he knows- so you're the only one who can ask him and find out. I'm sure there is a good reason that he's not talking to you. Maybe something serious is up.

Eric is a complex, hormonal teenage guy. He has a girlfriend- but maybe he doesn't want to have sex with her- maybe cybering is his way of not having sex with her. I don't know. If you really want to know why he's doing it- you should ask. And if you don't want to ask- well then I guess you're never going to know.

Does that help?

--Jack
(15/m)

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No sleepovers. No boyfriends. No hanging out with boys. Yadda yadda yadda. My mom is strict and it's really annoying. I live in NY, and I was telling my mom how I wanted to go to Michigan University when I'm older and going into college. My mom got mad at me and told me that I'm not, and that I would go to a college that was close to home so I wouldn't have to stay in a dorm. How crazy is that? I'll be 18, and she cannot tell me what college I'm going to. She told me that even if I got a full scholarship to Michigan, she wouldn't let me go. It made me furious. I don't want to stay home for another four years of my life. I don't want to go to college near home. I want to be able to have fun without my mom breathing down my neck. My dad told me that any college was fine because he actually RESPECTS my opinion. I just don't know how to handle my mom. She's more overprotective than most. She can't control my life when I'm 18! It sickens me that I can't do anything that she doesn't approve of. How do I handle this?

Honestly, this kind of pisses me off. The University of Michigan is probably one of the best universities in the entire country. I actually plan on attending U of M- and why a mother would deny a child such an opportunity is beyond me. You actually are a legal adult, and you can make your own decisions when you're 18. That's legally, of course, but as long as you're living in your parent's home- they still have some control over you.

I think the best thing to do is to sit down with your mom and ask her in a mature way why she doesn't want you to go to a college out-of-state. Maybe she just doesn't want to see you leave home yet. Some mothers can get like this and it may seem like they want to keep you at home forever. She might not be able to accept you're growing up. I think that talking to her in a serious matter [where you don't yell or raise your voice] might bring out the truth as to why she wants you to attend college locally. You might even be able to convince her to let you attend- though it is ultimately YOUR choice.

http://www.umich.edu/ Maybe this might have some Pride Points or something that might help you convince your mother how GREAT this university is.

--Jack
(15/m)

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someone asked me if i squirt? ha what's that mean exactly?

My guess would be that squirt=masturbate. So if you do that- then I assume you "squirt".

Then again- who understands teen lingo these days?

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=squirt

Try that.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I have just begun my freshman year of college. I have 8 years of school ahead of me, four of which will be at med school, considering I can get in.

At my college, they pair you up with a roommate with some of the same interests. Both my roommate and I had plans to be veterinarians. Yesterday, my roommate decided she didn't feel like going to school for 8 years and is going to be just a veterinary technician instead. It shocked me because she is smart, gets wonderful grades, and has an awesome scholarship, only for her to drop out and go to community college! (Nothing against community college, of course.)

I don't really care what my roommate does, it's her life and I hardly know her anyway. Her decision just made me think. I, myself have always been ambitious. If I start something, I'm going to finish, all the way. And I guess I can't understand why other people wouldn't feel that way. Why would someone want to take the easy way out? Why settle for anything less, especially if you are so smart and successful to being with?

I just wanted to get some other opinions on the subject.

Hello! I am only still in High School- but I, too have many years of college ahead of me. I'm wanting to go into the medical field- and I've always thought of myself as an ambitious person. I currently have a 4.0 and I'm trying to become my class Valedictorian. I, like you, finish something when I start it.

Some people I guess figure that its too much work, whether they know they can do it or not. I am not sure, really, because I'm just as baffled as you. I guess that when your like me and you- its hard to just "give up" on something you've got the potential to succeed in. Maybe her dream changed? Maybe talk to her if you really want to know- but I guess the real reason that I'm answering this is because I'm just letting you know that you're not alone- and that you should continue to go all the way and keep chasing your dream =D.

--Jack
(15/m)

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last year, i liked this guy who i had to stop liking because he was with my best friend even though i liked him first and she liked him secretly and i had to find out myself through someone else that she liked him. is it right that she's with him even though i don't like him now but i used to? and now i hate him, not really hate, but i dont talk to him a lot, not like i used to. is it right for her to still like him even though i hate him? is it right for my best friend to like him even though he was really mean to me, and she knew it? if its not right, what should i tell her? so here are my questions:
1. is it right that my best friend is with someone i like first?
2. is it right for her to like him even though he was mean to me and she knew it?
3. if its not right, what and how should i tell her? p.s she's sensitive

Alright. This may not be what you want to hear. That never means good...

So you would agree with me in that you are your own person and you should be able to make your own decisions and it shouldn't matter how anyone else thinks, right? Well if you do- the same can apply to your friend.

She is her own person and she can make her own decisions.

1. Sure, she's your best friend, but just because you liked this guy first- doesn't mean its WRONG for her to be with him. Having a friend like someone doesn't and shouldn't make that person off-limits to the other person.

2. Yes, it is. She can like who she likes and how she wants. Its really none of her business how he treated you or whatever, and so her liking him isn't wrong JUST because you don't like him or whatever. She is her own person, as I've said- so she can do what she wants.

3. Your friend is perfectly justified with her actions- so there is nothing to tell her. And getting mad at her isn't going to solve anything.

--Jack
(15/m)

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my new bf is perfect, but my ex is too. and i love him and think i could one day love my new bf. but my ex is my first love, and still wants me. and i want him still. i don't want to break my new bfs heart cuz he says he loves me, so i'm worried. i want to give me bf a letter i wrote, but it may be harsh. it says that i don't want to be serious until i know what exactly i want. and i think that i will want to be with my ex, but no one else wants that and i dont' want to get hurt. but his hold and love is all that can keep me real and happy. i havent felt right since i broke up with my ex. even though i have a good time with my new bf. What the hell should i do?

Well there is a reason you broke up with your ex, right? Then you found a new boyfriend. Think if you were your boyfriend in this situation. How would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you and went out with her ex? Crappy, right? Well I don't think its fair to dump your boyfriend because you think you like your ex again. So let's say you do- alright.. you go back to him- and he does whatever he did to you that made you and him break up. People are known to repeat their actions. So you want out of the relationshiop- and you want to find someone better. Who is there? Oh, right your boyfriend. Well he doesn't want you back because you broke up with him for another guy. Sorry to sound rude, but this is what could very well happen if you break up with your boyfriend and date your ex. So my point is- stay with your current boyfriend- and if it doesn't work out naturally- then fine. But don't go looking for excuses to break up with him and in turn break his heart, though having an infatuation with your ex might have already done that.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I am entering high school next year and I am scared. My brother is a sophomore this year and he said it was extremely hard to find his classes the first year. I am also scared I will be made fun of for being late or just the way I am. Please help...thanks.

Hey! I have answered questions like this a lot, so I'm just going to give you the answer I always give:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=504785

[[I was a freshman last year- and I have to say.. it was one of the most scary things I've EVER experienced! I was thrown in the trash can on the first day and it was horrible. Some kid even had to go to the emergency room! It was the WORST first day of school of my entire life! I almost didn't go back!

Haha- so hopefully you didn't take that seriously- because it really wasn't like that at all. I always play that trick on people who ask this question. C'mon- I gotta have a little fun! High school is NOT scary. It actually is a lot more fun. You have more freedoms than middle school and you can take REALLY awesome classes. If you have to chance to take a Speech class- DO IT! You think it will be the dumbest class ever and you'll be really bored- but you get the chance to get really good at speeches- and you'll learn really awesome things! When you get to be a Junior/Senior- take AP and Honors classes- these will impress colleges and they will want you to go to their college if you do well enough on them.

People may tell you that Freshmen year doesn't count for anything- so slacking off won't matter until you're an upperclassmen. This is wrong. Colleges will look at your cumulative GPA- and that includes your freshmen year. Don't slack off; you'll regret it later.

Just to debunk the rumor- There is NOT a "Freshmen Friday". Sure, this used to exist back in the 60s and 70s, but it doesn't anymore. Any school that actually still does it will probably end up getting sued by a bunch of parents. So most don't do it. Chances are, your high school won't do it.

Here is my list of DOs and DON'Ts:

Do:
-Do all of your homework.
-Make new friends [some old ones will naturally just fade away] and do this by just starting up simple conversations with people- and it will eventually lead to a great friendship. Ask someone you may want to get to know for a pencil in class.. that's a classic. Sit with new people at lunch.
-Ask the teacher for help if you need it.

Don't:
-Don't talk to seniors.. they most likely DON'T like you. The won't give you any respect.
-Don't wear revealing clothing- seniors will automatically hate you.

All in all- if you just be yourself- you'll be fine. If you have upperclassmen in any classes- you'll get to know them over the course of the year- and you may end up meeting some really great people. I know that some of my best friends I met at school last year- and most of them were 10th grade or older. Not all seniors hate you- some will be welcoming- but just assume the worst in them, at first. After awhile- you'll know who to avoid and who to warm up to. You'll be fine. Don't worry.


Oh- and don't stress about finding classes- everyone who is a freshmen is just as lost as you. Once you get the hang of things- you'll know exactly where you are, and you won't get lost. Don't carry a map around. You'll be pegged as a freshmen right away and upperclassmen will probably laugh at you.

Teachers are always lenient when it comes to being late the first few days. If you have a serious problem with being late everyday- talk to your teacher- they will most likely understand.

--Jack
(15/m/Sophomore)

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Hi, I'm 13 and I have alot of pets. I have 2 dogs, a turtle, and 2 birds. I love all of my pets too. This morning one of my birds died. It was really sad for me. Now, I feel even worse for the other bird because it lost its only friend. I think it will die of loneliness. I am really sad and if anyone could help me out thank you very much.

First off- I want to say that I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a pet is never easy- and I know exactly how you feel. Don't be afraid to cry. Don't be ashamed. It's fine =D.

Alright- maybe spend some extra time with your bird. Pets do get lonely if you don't spend time with them- and when they have another pet with them- its even harder for them when their friend dies.

So this isn't really elaborate or anything- but just spend some more time with your bird and let him/her out of their cage more and just have fun with them. Don't take any pet for granted- because you never know when you could lose them.

Again- I'm sorry for your loss- and I hope you feel better =D.
--Jack
(15/m)

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okay so I'm sure you have in your life have found someone you really like but you're too slow to make a move and ask. WEll I really like this guy but I'm only a freshmen and he's a junior so there's a BIG age diff. there. Anyways I really like him but I dont think it will ever work out even if he does like me back. I just want to find true love. And I also want him to like me but i'm too scared to know. I mean if he doesnt like me then I'll be in a depressive stage for a long time. And if he does how will it work out? He would never get to see me not unless he picks me up. I live like forever away. He lives in a diff county thats an hour away. Plus we go to diff schools. My 1st question is should I ask him if he really likes me? Because my mom always told me that guys chase after you, you dont run for them. BuT i'm really sick of wondering if he wants me. Its a horrible thing. My 2nd question is if I do fall in love does this mean things like seeing each other will happen naturally or is that a lie. Because If he likes me and we start going out then I'm gonna have to see him. Thats the way it is. I'm not real sure abou him he might break my heart. so idk.

Alright- first you're making a few assumptions that I just want to clear up for the sake of answering.

1. Two years apart is NOTHING. Its not a big age difference 15 and 17 aren't far apart compared to 15 and 30. That is a big age difference.

2. Just because you're going out with someone doesn't mean you have to see them. Sure, its nice, but if you live too far away, then you don't have to see each other all the time, which is what you make it sound like. There aren't any rules for relationships set in stone. You don't HAVE to do anything. Go by your own plan =D.

Alright- so I think that any time that you like someone and you think they may like you back or whatever the case- I think you should tell them. So they don't like you back- well that could happen- but what if everyone was this afraid to tell other people that they like them? Well first off- most of us wouldn't be alive, and the world would be less crowded. You have to take chances when it comes to relationships. Think of it this way- if no one took a chance ever, we would all be in our houses, with the lights turned off, in the corner, with the blinds down- hiding from the rest of the world. We obviously aren't doing that- so you should take a chance and tell him, no matter his age.
Well- you live an hour away. Sure, it might be tough to see each other a lot, but relationships can still last no matter how far apart you live. My sister's boyfriend just moved back to Tennessee [I live in Michigan- so that's about 10 hours] for college- and they won't see each other for 2 months. They have been dating for over a year now, and even with him in college in another state, they have kept their relationship intact. It just takes effort from both parties. If both of you are willing- it is defintely worth the shot. After a few weeks or months of not seeing each other- when you finally do see each other- its all the more better =D.

Oh- and about the true love thing. You're young. You're only 14/15 and you're wanting true love? Trust me, if this relationship doesn't work out- many more will be thrown at you- and one day you will find that special person you really care about. Remember: Don't go looking for love- let love go looking for you.

That's my words of wisdom, and I'm sticking to them.
--Jack
(15/m)

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ok well im in 9th grade.! and it seems like alot of my friends have done some/more sexual things than i have done!!.... all i have done it make out and stuff.. but i refuse to give head b.c i think its dirty.!! 1st am i the only not doing it??/ and 2nd i wouldnt mind going a little farther but not sex how do i make it known that i want to do that with out sounding like a slut!!???????????? plz help me..!!!!

Hey-

I might not have much more to add- but I really feel like I want to answer this- so that people see how many people AREN'T just thinking about losing their virginity.

You're a virgin. Be PROUD! C'mon- its something special that you only lose once. And you should make sure you lose it to someone you are least going to talk to for the rest of your life- preferably someone you've married as a virgin.

1. NO YOU ARE NOT ALONE! I am just like you. I am not having sex with everyone in sight. I'm going to be a sophomore and I'm still a virgin. Trust me, there are other like us out there. Sure, it seems like you're the only one who isn't off giving blow jobs to everyone- and I sometimes feel like I'm the only one not having sex in my town- but I know that there are some of us out there =D.

2. Just be honest with whoever you are with. If you're honest- you're not a slut. Sluts are people who go around and just have sex with everyone. The real meaning of slut has been lost with immature people thinking it means you've had sex once with one person. True- you're pretty pathetic if you do, but you're certainly not a slut. But you shouldn't just go out and go farther just for the heck of it. That's why most people are doing it- you should be different and maybe when you get a boyfriend who cares about you and who you care about [don't go looking- it never works out], then maybe you can go a little farther. If they don't want to- you should respect that.

Like I said, that probably didn't add much, but I just had to answer =D.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I'm a 9th grade girl and I'm going out with a 7th grade boy- and he's really nice, cute, whatever asker thinks will change the answer. Is it weird that I'm dating a 7th grader?

Age is just a number. Think about it. What are your parents ages? Chances are that they are about 2 or 3 years different. My mom is 45 and my dad is 46- they're close- but let's pretend my dad is a 9th grader- well my mom would be an 8th grader. Is it weird that they're married? No. So does the situation change because they're younger? No. And if someone or anyone thinks that- they are just a bubbling idiot and they deserve to be smacked across the face. Only kidding. =D. But seriously, it isn't weird. If both of you are fine with it- then who CARES what the heck other people think? I certainly don't care that you're dating a 7th grader- age is just a number, again, and its only odd if you're a 9th grader dating a 45 year old man. =D.

--Jack
(15/m)

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Okay well im going into 9th grade and my boyfriend is going into 7th. And hes just not like a little kid. Hes so mature and so sweet, and i really like him, and hes always there for me, but i was wondering does anybody think that its weird that im dating a 7th grader?

Sorry if this sounds a little angered- this question is on here a lot. In fact, I'm adding it to my FAQ after this. Thank you for giving me the idea =D.


Anyway- age is just a number. Think about it. What are your parents ages? Chances are that they are about 2 or 3 years different. My mom is 45 and my dad is 46- they're close- but lets pretend my dad is a 9th grader- well my mom would be an 8th grader. Is it weird that they're married? No. So does the situation change because they're younger? No. And if someone or anyone thinks that- they are just a bubbling idiot and they deserve to be smacked across the face. Only kidding. =D. But seriously, it isn't weird. If both of you are fine with it- then who CARES what the heck other people think? I certainly don't care that you're dating a 7th grader- age is just a number, again, and its only odd if you're a 9th grader dating a 45 year old man. =D.

--Jack
(15/m)

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I really like this guy, we met at camp in june and we live in the same town. onyl we went to diffrent middle schools so we didnt know each other. well this year we will be going to the same high school. we both have teh same school activity that happens during and after school. so i'll be seeing him about3 hrs a school day. well this summer we've had practices for our activity and the groups about 100 ppl.

well i've gotten a chance to talk to him alot and he's really nice and can always make me laugh, we talk on myspace...& aim. but i cant help but think could he like me? at camp i thought he liked me and i liked him but it turned out he liked my friend. I've been tlaking to my friend about this guy and i told her that i thought that he knew i liked him so he was just leading me on to believe that he likes me...would a guy actually do this?? or am i thinking aobut this too hard. its weird though becuase the other day he told me he wanted to meet my parents...and now im all confused. i really like this boy.

Usually I would give a long answer- but I'm just not up for that. I hope that this short answer helps you =D.

[[I've been tlaking to my friend about this guy and i told her that i thought that he knew i liked him so he was just leading me on to believe that he likes me...would a guy actually do this??]]

Yes- and guys are known for this- because they are embarrassed to admit something like that to a girl sometimes and that was probably his first thought to say that he liked someone else. Guys are just confusing like that. Just have him meet your parents- and just hang out a little more. Maybe a relationship is in your future?

--Jack
(15/m)

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You answered one of my questions yesterday I think. Long story about me and a guy.

Anyways.

The same guy says ''love you Anna(my name'' when I go off msn, we end a phone call or finish texting each other for the day.

Should I do something..or just wait and see if he makes a move?
I am confused. Sorry if I sound stupid or whatever, but I like the guy, and I don't want to ruin our friend ship. He has been there for me when my best friend(girl) has been a bitch.

Well really its your choice. Haha- obviously, but I honestly can say that I don't know what you should do. Maybe waiting is the best thing to do so that you don't rush into anything. Like you said, you don't want to ruin your friendship- and I've been there, done that- and it sucks so I don't blame you.

Does this help?
--Jack
(15/m)

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okay will this is mainly a question for guys but girls can answer to
i have 2 quests
1. what attracts guys? ex. do they like innocent, or crazy? what kind of girls do skaterdudes like?
2.how do you know if a guys likes you?
thankss:)

Hello.

This is a question answered a lot, so I'm just going to give you two reference questions that may help:

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=505520

From there:
First- I'm going to tell you that relationships aren't all they are cracked up to be. Sure- they are fun having someone to share things with and be with. But they involve a huge commitment and if you end up with someone who is clingy- they'll want to be with you every minute of every day- and you might not have time for friends or anything else you want to do. I say this because my ex-girlfriend was sort of like that- and got mad if I was busy with other plans.. and it was just really retarded. I haven't had a girlfriend since then [last December, I believe].

Anyway- the best way to attract a guy is to be yourself. If you try to change yourself just to get a boyfriend [especially at your age]- you'll just end up with someone who only likes you for what you've become- not who you are. If you be yourself- and don't change- you'll attract more guys who actually care about your personality rather than just your looks.

I myself like any type of girl. I honestly don't judge looks as much as I do personality. If a girl is absolutely stunningly beautiful, but she's a bitch- why would I like her? What would our relationship be? What would we talk about? Her latest hair extensions? Yeah- that would be REALLY nice *Sarcasm: Party of one!*...
If a girl has a really nice personality- and she's really outgoing and sweet and nice and smart- and she's not necessarily the best looking girl- but she's not super unattractive- then I'll most likely want to date her over the beautiful bitch.

Do you get what I'm saying? If you let guys see your personality more than your looks- you'll end up with someone great. Trust me- most guys prefer personality over looks- they just don't know it yet =].



AND http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=506340

From there:
I'm going to give you a list of what guys tend to do when they like girls:

1. They don't call you "sexy". They call you "beautiful", "gorgeous", "amazing", etc.

2. They make an effort to hug you. They might high-5 instead, but it really depends on the guy in question.

3. They DO find any reason to touch you in some way. Mostly it ISN'T in a sexual way. Its more of just an excuse to remember what you feel like, I guess. Its hard to explain...

4. He is always smiling around you. If you're feeling bad and he's around- he'll be smiling because he knows that he's there to help you- and that's like brownie points for a guy if they can help a girl out. That, like the above, is hard to explain.

5. He'll tell you things about himself that he normally wouldn't tell everyone. He opens up to you. Guys don't get a chance to do that when pressured to "be manly".

6. If you have a feeling that a guy likes you- you're probably right. Guys aren't the best at hiding it- and girls are even better at figuring these type of things out.

If you like this guy- and he does all or most of those things- my best bet is that he does like you. That means one and only one thing: Ask him to make sure, and then try the relationship out. Who knows- it could be great!

--Jack
(15/m)

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can I get preggers if a boy cums in my hair? my friend said I could... but she's only 11.


13/f

Well, let's analyze this for just a second:

1. Your friend is 11. What the heck does she know about sex? She's freaking 11. She hasn't even taken sex ed and she thinks she knows everything, probably.

2. Well, since "preggers" isn't a word- you can't get preggers if it doesn't exist. There is this nice word I know called "pregnant". So shut up and just spell things out for once.

3. You can only get PREGNANT from sperm getting in your vagina- not your butt, mouth, stomach, or hair, for that matter.


GOSH!
--Jack
(15/m)

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