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telling him how i really feel
my new bf is perfect, but my ex is too. and i love him and think i could one day love my new bf. but my ex is my first love, and still wants me. and i want him still. i don't want to break my new bfs heart cuz he says he loves me, so i'm worried. i want to give me bf a letter i wrote, but it may be harsh. it says that i don't want to be serious until i know what exactly i want. and i think that i will want to be with my ex, but no one else wants that and i dont' want to get hurt. but his hold and love is all that can keep me real and happy. i havent felt right since i broke up with my ex. even though i have a good time with my new bf. What the hell should i do?
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If you are still thinking of your ex like that and are thinking that you still want to be with him, chances are you don't love your current boyfriend. I was in a similar situation a while ago. I think you should take some time off of both guys, and think about what you want, even though it may hurt your current boyfriend, wouldn't you feel more comfortable knowing exactly what you want? You have to keep in mind though why you and your ex boyfriend broke up in the first place. If you havn't felt right since you've broken up with your ex, and if you keep thinking of him and what could have been, your relationship with your current boyfriend isn't going to work out very well, because you'll always feel a little uneasy about it. So, take some time and think about exactly what you want. Hope I helped and if you need anything else, just ask. :]
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Whatever problems you had with your ex will resurface. It's best to move on. Everybody has a first love and very very very few end up with that person. Don't drag it out longer than you have to. You'll just cause more pain for yourself in the long run. Use what you learned from your relationship with your ex to help you in your new relationship. If you're going to break up with your current boyfriend do it because of a problem with him, not an issue within yourself. In other words, give him a fair chance. He deserves that from you. Good luck.
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Well there is a reason you broke up with your ex, right? Then you found a new boyfriend. Think if you were your boyfriend in this situation. How would you feel if your girlfriend dumped you and went out with her ex? Crappy, right? Well I don't think its fair to dump your boyfriend because you think you like your ex again. So let's say you do- alright.. you go back to him- and he does whatever he did to you that made you and him break up. People are known to repeat their actions. So you want out of the relationshiop- and you want to find someone better. Who is there? Oh, right your boyfriend. Well he doesn't want you back because you broke up with him for another guy. Sorry to sound rude, but this is what could very well happen if you break up with your boyfriend and date your ex. So my point is- stay with your current boyfriend- and if it doesn't work out naturally- then fine. But don't go looking for excuses to break up with him and in turn break his heart, though having an infatuation with your ex might have already done that.
--Jack
(15/m)
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