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God gave us two ears and one mouth so we could listen twice and speak once.
Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.
Feel free to leave me questions!
XOXO.
>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)
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can you bring them to the beach? like the tote bags? or will sand ruin them? is it like ok to bring them there? or does it not look right? opinion pleasee.
1) I don't think sand will ruin them, seeming their cloth.
2) & I think it looks fine to bring to the beach..all the more style! ;)
if you kill yourself will you go to hell? just wondering, im NOT going 2 kill myself.
thanx :)
Well, my mom, being a STRICT Catholic told me that you go to hell because you took your own life away. I don't know if this is true or not, since I've never killed myself, lol. :)
Dreadlocks - my latest 'craving', you could say. There's this girl in my uni who has it and it looks amazing on her.
I was just wondering how it's done...I know someone who'll do it and stuff but I wanna know how. Also, will I be able to wash my hair? And after how long will it start to get all loose and weird? And are there any negative consequences (like the 1.5 million different fleas found in Bob Marley's hair)?...
I admit I'm a hygiene freak (must wash my hair before 24 hours are over between each wash)and I just want to make sure I won't do something I will regret.
Thanks for your time.
=)
Eeek. I'm sorry, but dreadlocks are not for you if you want to stay clean. They're gross because you can't wash them.
http://www.howtodread.com/
For more info. =D
I wasn't really sure what to put this under, bu there is a dance this coming friday and I don't have anyone to go with and I''m not sure whether I should go or not. My friends are going just with friends, but I don't really look good in a dress and can't stand wearing high heels. It sounds like fun, but I don't want to look awkward in front of everyone. Plus I don't have a dress or shoes. What should I do?
Don't be so self-conscious! I'm sure there will be plenty of girls that look WORSE in a dress than you. Besides, you can also wear dressy pants (as the person below me said lol) Don't miss out on something that'll be fun just because of what you look like!
whats a myspace code i could use to hide my comments, but still have like a "comment box" or something s othat you could LEAVE comments, just not see the comments that have been left or how many comments i have?!
http://www.pimpwebpage.com/hidecomments.php
There's some other codes on there too. =]
i have very bad pain where my rib cages meets ( i think its called my sternum?) sometimes it feels like its swollen. any idea of what it is??? the odd time i will also feel like my throat is swollen and i cannot swallow
I know this may not be the answer you want to hear, but you NEED to see a doctor to be properly diagnosed. Good luck :)
Ok do you see girl's who have pony tails wear it get thinner and thinner as it goes down?
My hair is really fat and poofy so when my hair is in a poney tail it like flares out and instead of it being in like a tear drop shape, it's like a long rectangle hanging down.
I want to make it like normal girl's so what can I tell the hair cutter to do?
I don't know if this is right, but they probably have layers. :)
my friend got me an eyeshadow pallete from sephora for my birthday. i'm not make up savvy, and im scared to say, i have no idea how to use it.
please help me.
http://www.ehow.com/how_159_apply-eye-shadow.html
Happy birthday! :)
okay i like this guy A LOT! and im not like REAL popular but im not a total geek and he is a skater but is way more popular than me. anyway i talk to him and he talks to me but is there anyway i can get him to like me? like ill flirt with him and he'll i gues flirt back but i don't think he likes me
well thanks
Well, first off, I just want to get off my chest that you shouldn't classify people like you did-"popular", "geek", "skater", etc. Don't label people as if they were soup cans!
Anyways..
1. Be yourself - whether you're goofy, silly, crazy, or whatever. You've seen this advice before, and you'll see it again. Develop your identity as an individual and stick with it. There's no point in getting him to like someone you're not--you're only setting yourself up for disappointment (not to mention him!). Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives.
2. Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You've got to walk before you run, right?
3. Make conversation. Take an interest in who he is--what he likes, where he's coming from, where he wants to go--and show him who you are, too. While some guys don't like to talk that much, it's nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn't get to know you--unless he "likes" you for all the wrong reasons.
4. Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while.
5. Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he's ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
6. Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? Some guys might be intimidated, and they're too insecure to be worth your interest anyway. But it's only a matter of time before a guy who can like you for who you really are will come around and see that you're an awesome person to be around.
7. Have patience. These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don't be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes.
8. Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
( http://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Like-You )
It may seem weird, but I am like that. I write out a to-do list every night to plan my next day. Even with what time to do them. Sometimes, ESPECIALLY during after noon hours, like 2,3, or 4 pm, I just give-up my to-do list. I hate it, and don't know what to do, because I always get off track, and I start to get wild cravings. My whole rest of the day is ruined because I'm full and I wish I have never eaten what I just did, and I got off track with what I needed to do, and I just moze about the rest of the day thinking "oh screw it. I'll do those things tomorrow." HELP!
It's not weird, you're just organized. Super organized. Some people are like that-and it's a good thing.
When you say "oh screw it, I'll do those things tomorrow", you're messing up your schedule. STICK TO YOUR PLAN! You'll forgive yourself when you do. :)
Good luck.
I`m sick and out of school, but i got my homework, and in my math class, i don't know how to do these. Could someone PLEASE describe in GREAT detail on how to do it? Please?
Directions: identify the slope and y-intercept of the line with the given equation. Formula: y=mx + b. Problem: y=-1/3x + 6
Hey..we're doing this too, and I don't really get it much-but I do get it to the extent that I can answer your question.
Y=mx+b...So,
1/3 is the number IN FRONT OF the x.
So, it's M. M=slope.
6 is the y-intercept. It's the number at the end of the equation. [B=y-intercept]
If you still don't get it, feel free to IM me @ Viva La Jam Ox.
Good luck :]
Ok, so I have two best friends that I have known since about third grade. I love them both to death. The only problem is when we are together, I feel like I get picked on/made fun of. I try not to be sensitive and take it seriously, but sometimes they go too far. They have names for each other (call each other twins) and I feel so left out. But I feel like if I talk to them then I'll look stupid and jealous. I have talked to one of them and she understands how I feel and said that she is going to try and avoid that so I wouldn't feel that way. Also, when I am alone with one of them, it is so great, we could not be closer, its just when we are all together. Any suggestions on help? Don't say talk to them because I have and the situation only has changed a little bit.
Also, I feel like I'm what's keeping us together. One of my friends has other really close friends I feel like she likes more than us. And the other has a guy she really is into. Anyway, I feel like I'm the one always keeping the plans between us three. What happens when I don't take the responsibitlies and stop? Will we lose touch? Will it be my fault? I love these friends and I don't know what my life would be without them. Thanks
I've been through the same situation. It's pretty rough. =\
It seems like whenever there's 3 in a group, there's always one that gets left out. It may not mean to be that way, it isn't always the people in the relationship's fault, it's just the way things happen.
I know, you may not want to do this, but try to see what else is out there. You may have been too close to these people to realize that there are better and more trustworthy people out there that won't let you down and leave you out.
Try the silent treatment. You said you've talked to one of the friends, but the situation only changed slightly. It really works, at least in my situation. Pretend like you already have plans..and your friends will come crawling back to you. :)
I wish the best for you!
Let me know how everything goes. :)
are there any subsitutes for nail polish remover? i don't have any and i need to take off my nail polish.. i need answers quick!!
1. Rubbing Alcohol
2. Lighter fluids (I don't really suggest this, lol)
3. Scratch it off
OR-
Simply grab a bottle of clear or light colored nail polish and some cotton balls.
Next, paint the clear/light polish over your current polish. (Note: Do this one finger at a time)
Let it sit for about 15 seconds.
Wipe with the cotton ball and it should mostly come off.
You might have to repeat the process on each nail.
me and my boyfriend were together for about 6 months i went away and we both cheated he tryd to have sex with his x and it really hurt me so bad hes a compulsive liar to the point were he was goin to go to counceling now nothing is the same between us i love him so much i think im depressed when im not with him i sit at home waitin for him to call but he drinks to much im scared hel do it again. we fight about 3 times a day what am i sposed to do ! HELP
This guy's a total jerk. I know it sounds hard, but you have to move on. Just think about what he's done to you...
in april i am going to florida and i want to look a lot skinnier. im not fat but im not very skinny. i have a membership to a gym that i usually go to but im gunna try going 5 times a week and im also on a diet. im also trying to get abs by april but im not sure if thats possible. what do i have to do to make me look a lot skinnier and possible get abs by the end of april? also what are some excersies that you would remomend?
thank you so much
Have fun in FL!
Crunches.
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Or,
Okay, so I want to get a tatoo but how old do you have to be in COlORADO to get one?
Yeah, as everyone said, the legal age is 18.
There's a thing called Google-try it some time.
Hm well. My boyfriend & I have been going out for 8 months, and I love him more than anything. I know for sure I do. It's just sometimes I get really depressed, and when I'm listening to music alone or something like sad songs I just really upset with myself, and think I'm not good enough for him. He treats me amazing, and we're together constantly, everyday! It's just I don't know. I know he loves me, I do. I just have the lowest self asteem. I need it to be better. Hm. Is there anyway I can, cause like I don't really wanna tell him. Thanks.
Listen,
I know exactly what you're going through, for I've been through it as well-except without a boyfriend.
Anyways, when your boyfriend says that you're beautiful, LISTEN TO HIM. Don't just let it go in through one ear and out the other.
Your boyfriend loves you for WHO YOU ARE, or else he wouldn't have stayed with you for 8 whole months!
Some girls would KILL to look like you. I know, I've never seen you before, but trust me, it's true.
And, like the person below me said, list your good qualities. I bet there'll be more good than bad! ;o)
Remember-everyone gets sad sometimes. Just don't let it happen all the time..otherwise, you'll turn depressed.
Good luck hon!
Hope everything works out for you.
i have like anger mang. probs. i think. theres just so much to stress and freak about. and everyone if my family tries ON perpose to like.. get me to snap. im dead serouis. please help. thanks
Go to an anger management class .. they really help, I had the same problem as you.
Other solutions:
Get a punching bag & try not to let things bother you as much.
http://www.soundfeelings.com/free/anger.htm
For more help. Good luck.
Does anyone know any stores that sell t-shirts that say "Justin's _____" Like whatever the stores called? Like Justin's Boots, Justin's sports, something like that? I live in Austin, Texas, so it would help if the store was in that area!
Maybe from Justin's Sports Bar & Grill.
I dunno if that's it...sorry :]
okay..
i'm having one of those
"don't know what song i'm thinking of" moments
& i'm going insane :]
this isn't much, but maybe someone'll know..
it's a country song, probably from a year or two ago & it's a guy
and he's talking about when his kids were younger and they'd fight over the bathroom & all that
and i think the last verse talks about when his last daughter is getting married
& idk if that's good enough
but maybe someone knows. haha, it's driving me crazy! :]
thankyou.
Kenny Chesney-There Goes My Life
..I don't know if that's it?
Let me know if it is.