God gave us two ears and one mouth
so we could listen twice and speak once.

Hello Sunshine!
My name's Jamie..call me what you prefer.
I'm not here to judge, just to help people with their problems.
I love helping people out, it's one of the most satisfying feelings.
When you rate me, I'd prefer if you put a reasoning behind the rating, just so I know how I'm doing/how I can improve.

Feel free to leave me questions!

>> PS. If you plan on asking me a question, please, type grammatically correct and put punctuation marks where necessary...instead of like this: "muh boyfran lefff meh nD eye dunno waddado. halp?" (haha okay maybe that's a little exaggerated.. but you get my point!)


im getting the lg env 2 in maroon in september and i was wondering if any one here had it and how they liked it

I just got it last Saturday, (same color and everything), and I absolutely love it. It's such a nice size, the keyboard is easy to type on, it's very durable and doesn't break easily (which is important for me in a phone lol)...it has everything you can every want in a phone.

If you have any more questions about it, let me know!


a few months ago, i got an eye stye on my right eye near my tearduct.

yesterday, i felt severe pain on my left eye and i found i had gotten another stye on my left eye! IT'S SO SMALL but it hurts SO MUCH. i'm putting some ointment on it so it should heal within the next few days.

i have a few questions about eye styes
1.) i seem to be getting them more frequently (i know it's only the second time, but i've never had an eye stye before my first one!). i do use both eyeliner and mascara. what should i do to be more sanitary about it? i know you're supposed to throw away mascara every three months, but i use it until it's finished. i don't actually count how many months i've been using it. should i start? and i sharpen my eyeliner often so that the bateria is removed, so why do i keep getting styes? i'm assuming it's from my make-up cause i don't have diabetes, etc.

2.) in addition to what steps i can take to avoid getting styes in the first place, are they contagious? like if i touch my eye and then touch someone's hand and they touch their eye, can they get one or is the likelihood very small? i know it's caused from a certain type of bacteria so ...

3.) should i avoid certain things? is it okay to touch my eye when i put on the medication or should i use a qtip?

4.) because the stye is RIGHT under my upperlashline, almost on the pink part, i end up getting some of the ointment (just normal drugstore eye stye medicine) into my eye. if i want the stye to go away, i have to use the medicine, but it gets in my eye and the box says "for external use only." what should i do? should i try using less medicine or... ?

OUCH! Eye sties are really annoying..and they hurt a lot.

1) Sties are caused by the staphylococcal bacteria that normally live harmlessly on the skin of our eyelids, but when those germs become trapped inside an eyelash follicle or a tear duct, a painful, pimple-like infection result.
-I would throw away the mascara and eyeliner that you've been using RIGHT AWAY. You don't want to infect the eye any more. And yes, do start to count how any months you've been using both the mascara and eyeliner..you're better safe than sorry. You probably got the second sty from using infected makeup or from rubbing your eyes, poor hand washing, etc.

2) It's not very contagious, and I'm pretty sure that if you touch your eye and then touch a person's hand, they probably won't get it. Just don't share eye makeup, for this is also a cause of some sties.

3) I would probably use q-tips when trying to apply the medication. Like I said, it's better to be safe than sorry! :)

4) Using the Q-Tip would probably help rid you of this problem. It shouldn't harm you much if the ointment gets in your eye, because it is for use around the eye, so I'm sure it shouldn't be that big of a deal if it does end up getting in the eye. :) However, if it does cause irritation, I would call the doctor's, or ask someone for help.

Hope this helps, and hope the sty goes away soon!: )


what is "g" spot?

"The Gräfenberg spot, or G-spot, is a female erogenous zone which when stimulated leads to high levels of sexual arousal and powerful orgasms."



Does anyone know of some free music websites. not including...Itunes, Bearshare, or Limewire???



if you need any extra help, let me know.


Ok I have taken all 3 of the gardasil vacs. Now I hear that it can cause all these sideaffects. I was just wondering if anyone can find a really good article about what they are talking about. Or if you took it and had troubles will you tell me what happened.

I'm pretty sure this is what you're talking about:


have YOU tried the wish of happiness, and wish of peace, and wish of love,?

if so, please order them from best to least/ thanks =]


I like Make me smile the best,
Fire me Up the second best
and Make me Wonder the least best.


have you tried them perfume?

Yes I have. I like them because they stay on all day. :)


I go days without pooping. Sorry to be gross.. but it's definitely not healthy.

Any suggestions on regulating my digestive system?

Activia works really well!

My sister had the same problem as you for years, and once she tried Activia, her digestive system was regulated within a week.

But it may make your stomach feel not-so-good for the first couple days..just a warning! :)



please order these fragrances in order of best to okay one to three




im going to buy and i dont know which to get

also if there are more great AVON fragrances you girls like or boys please, TELL ME THE NAME OF IT AND DESCRIPTION SO I CAN BUY IT ALSO.

thanks. =]

I say first, third, and then second (In order from best to least best.)


where can a buy a beige/skin colored lipstick? preferably at a drugstore?

CVS, I'm sure. I think L'Oreal or Revlon has a beige lipstick.


Hey! So tomorrow is the 1st day of school and I'm going to be a sophomore. Now, I know I shouldn't be that scared because last year was the 1st year of high school. Trust me I was freaking out last year also. I'm going to the same school and all, but every year since 7th grade(middle school) I have freaked out about school. And it's basically about the classes. I get soooooo scared about how hard the classes are going to be, because some of my friends took them last year and they say the teachers are mean, and the homework and class is hard. And now every year, like I said since middle school, I have been freaking out. I'm a super perfectionest(??). Everything with me has to be "perfect" or else I freak out. I worry that if I don't get All A's and B's that I won't get into college, and my GPA won't be high enough. I'm not the smartest person ever, but I do get A's and B's. I suck at taking tests. Seriously. I get mainly F's and D's on tests, but what keeps my grades up is the homework, which I don't always do so hot on eaither. I just don't know what to do. I've tried telling myself that everything will be ok, and everyone goes though this and has to go through high school, but for some reason I just keep worring. I get sooo stresed out about things, and sometimes when I think about it too much I tend to get really hot. It's weird. Do I have a problem? And what should I do about school? I know, and I tell myself, that I was super scared last year and I did fine. But I just don't know what to do!!!! Is something wrong with me? I don't know what to do about homework, grades, and teachers eaither! Pleasee help me! Sorry this was so long! Thanks!

There is DEFINITELY not something wrong with you. There are a lot of people the way you are. You just want to do well, and that's a good thing..you have ambition.

-As for test taking, that's one of my weaknesses as well. If you don't understand something, stay after school, or ask a friend to tutor you. I know you probably would dread staying after school, but it most definitely helps out (a lot)! Don't begin to study the night before the test. Study a little bit every night leading up to the test. This will help you remember better. Also, I've found that studying for 20 minutes, then stopping, then studying again for another 20 minutes, (and repeating this cycle as many times that you feel you need to do) helps me remember things well. Make sure you keep your notes nice and neat, so that when you go back and look at them you don't get confused. Probably the most important rule: don't get too stressed out! Stress causes your body to release a chemical called cortisol, which can block your brain's ability to recall facts and memories. So, the most important thing is to stay calm and relaxed. Remember that if you don't do well on this test, it's not the end of the world. (For more test-taking tips check out this website: http://www.wikihow.com/Ace-a-Test)

-Make sure (especially in math) that if you don't understand the concept right away, stay after that day. You don't want to slip, because things like math are accumulative (meaning they build up), and if you don't get one thing, you'll end up falling behind...trust me, NOT a good idea! lol

-Go over your notes every night for at least 15 minutes. It sounds like something you won't want to do, but it's really a good idea so that you comprehend everything and don't fall behind.

You'll do great.

hope this helps, and if you have any other questions, feel free to leave something in my inbox.



ok im wanting to dye my hair a chocolate brown color, and my natural hair color is a redish brown... and it costs alot to get it done at a beauty salon like $60!
how much does it cost for the dye it yourself kits you can buy at stores?
and how often would i have to re-dye it?
and does it even work????

-It costs about $10-$15.
-The person under me is correct; you do have to wait about 3 months. But,to make the hair color last longer, rinse your hair with a lemon based solution right after you dye it. Doing this will make the hair color stronger.
-I'm sure it'll work!, especially because dying your hair darker is a lot easier than going lighter, so you should be fine :)


Whats a really good deodorant for sweaty armpits?
Please tell me if you've tried it before.

I find that Secret Clinical Strength works really well. I've only been using it for a week but today, I even went outside in the 85 degree heat and went for a run, my underarms were completely dry :) The rest of me was sweating but my underarms remained dry and fresh and clean smelling which, for me, is a miracle! :) The directions say to wear it at night but I've been putting it on after my morning shower too. I am not sure how it would work otherwise because my shower washes the deodorant off and I don't want to go without it.


I was just wondering if it's possible to use crest white strips if you have braces?


Like the person said below me, it would make your teeth different colors when you get your braces off. Additionally, it might harm the actual braces. So my advice is to just wait until you get your braces off. :)


does anyone know how to color your clothing like this? step by step instructions would be wonderful thank you =]] and what materials would be necessary for this? and what do you use to make good torn jeans?


and on this following website, how would i make a skirt or jeans like that... scroll down about half way down the page =]]


thanks =]]

Well..I don't know how to color them but I do know how to make them torn and distressed looking.

(Although this is a very time consuming way of doing it, I find that it works the best):

1) Place a block of wood (or some other solid surface that you don't mind possibly damaging) within the pant leg or denim region you want to distress.

2) Get a nail file. Rub horizontally against the area of the jean that you want to distress. Rub vigorously if you want to create visible distress (which i'm sure you want to do) You will begin to see that the jean is getting weaker and more 'distressed'. At this time, pull the jean apart from top of the distressed part and at the bottom to create that stringy look. Do this in as many spots that you want.

--Now for the bleach part, (if desired):
1) Get a plastic cup and pour bleach in it (I prefer Clorox)
2) Get a Q-Tip
3) Put your jeans on the clothes line.
4) Dip the Q-Tip in the bleach and splash the jeans wherever you want bleach to appear. You need to do this a few times to make it visible.

Again, I apologize that I do not know how to make them colored...but I do think this is a kick-arse alternative :)


other than itunes and limewire, what are other music downloading options?

Ares! My favorite:



My boyfriend said he likes girls who get physically aggressive about the little things...how do you interpret that? I know he wasn't talking about anything directly sex-related.

Hmm .. that's a good question. The best answer I could come up with is that the aggressiveness may show that the girl is "strong".

Or, it's also possible that he might just think it's cute. :)

Sorry if this doesn't help..it's the best I've got! lol


How do you get rid of anoying friends?

I agree with the person below me, though I will also try to help you as best I can.

I basically summed up what this website said:

-Hang out with the annoying friends a bit less and spend time with your other friends..preferably friends that the annoying friends don't like!

-Speak about stuff that they don't really care about or don't like, if you're lucky they might get rid of you instead. You will look like the idiot, but you will be rid of your annoying friends.

-Leave quickly when they appear. If they try to hang out with you just go away and say 'oh sorry I have to go' but don't say 'see you tomorrow' or 'catch you later' otherwise they will think you want to hang out.

-Try to get another friend to join you and bring up a topic that the friend you want to talk to knows about, but that the annoying friend doesn't know anything about so they feel left out of the conversation.

-When talking to them, just keep it simple...yes/no answers, etc.

But be careful! If you are mean to the annoying friends, your other friends may not want to hang out with you..


I am very against smoking. I have asthma and it bothers me. I'm also afraid of getting secondhand smoke. If I live with smokers, but they never smoke inside the building, can this affect my health in any way? Is it only dangerous if you're inhaling smoke? Thanks!!

I'm in the exact same situation!

--Basically, it'll only be harmful to you if you inhale. Just be careful, secondhand smoking is just as harmful as firsthand.


I just wanted to know wich hairstyle out of these three you like best




ive got it down to these three and i cant decide, so I want to know what you guys think.

personally, the first. :)


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