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Hey! Im Nicole. This is my second advice column. I really ♥ to give advice. I am rated pretty high here too, even though ive only answered about 260 questions. I have pretty much answered every type of question && i can certainly give you some advice. It may not always be what you want to hear, but i'll give you wat you need to hear. Also if your having trouble with finding something on the net, i am really good at that! haha. well please feel free to ask me anything! id be really glad to help you!

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Hey, I'm 13, and I'm a female. I don't know what to do in this situation. Okay, here it is. My best friend has liked this guy for a year or so. But then I came to the school she goes too, and I am like in love with this guy. No one knows I like him, infact, I have a boyfriend, and I feel bad about that. The guy who my best friend likes, likes me. The one I like too, I mean. Should I say no to him and break his heart, or say yes and maybe lose my best friend and break my boyfriend's heart?

wow. omg, tough situation! lol but well i dont think you should do that to your best friend. But i dont think you should be with your boyfriend if you like/think about another guy. well i know you cant control who you like. it's a really hard when your best friend likes the same guy. You should probably tell your friend the truth. I know it's tough and she'll probably be mad. But i think it's the best thing to do. I don't really know if you should go out with him though, unless she says its okay with her. Best friends are more important than guys however, keep that in mind. There will be more guys in the future. So dont ruin your friendship over him. You could always say to the guy, "i really like you but i cant hurt my best friend like that." or something.

Hope it helped.

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well fist i want to say this is my first time on this site and it's pretty good.
i need advice on school. School is hard not the work (straight A's) but the people. i have people that stare at me for no reason. see i going to start 10th grade and snice 6th grade people has been staring at me. i don't know y, but its annoy. it's mostly girls and some guys. i am scared to get classes with these people because they might do more than stare. how do i stop this thing? (school is on aug 15th) Pleassse help.

babygrrl

well either..

a. they are jealous
b. they all are weird lol
c. checking you out
d. your different? unique?

lol. well just ignore them. stare back, or ask why they are staring at you. its not that big of a deal kay? just completely ignore them. your better than them anyways im sure.

♥ nicole

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does anyone know where i can find a simple plan t-shirt?

http://www.rerock4ever.com/simpleplan/t-shirtsandmerchandise.html

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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do?

if you love him, you'll respect his decision.

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Hey! I need some help! My boyfriend can express his feelings to me, no matter what. But, when I really want to tell him how much I love him etc. I tell him in a letter or an email. I just can never seem to get it out. Any suggestions. I NEED HELP! RATE HIGH

That's normal. Ive seen in shows things like this and all that. Either your too shy or nervous about it. Or maybe you dont really love him. Maybe your scared? Who knows. But im thinkin you just need to give it time. If you really love him, eventually you should be able to tell him so. But let him know you do care about him. And SHOW that you love him. That's the most important thing.

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How do u ask a guy out? i really like him, and i kno he likes me, but hez really shy, so i kno he won't ask me out, and boyz alwayz ask me out, so i don't kno how 2 do it myself

well, you could always call/write/IM him and tell him. but i think the best way is to just talk with him awhile and then say "i really like you, would you maybe wanna go out sometime?" simple as that. =) good luck!

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I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?

usually with prank fone calls people just call any random number. so chances are you dont know the person. but i believe its *69

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

yes, you are almost starving yourself. just start to eat a little more, and not just snacks. Whole meals. and tell your friends not to worry and you dont mean to eat too little or whatever. BTW- eating breakfast is good for you. your friends really care for you, you should listen to them. Eat more. good luck & stay healthy!

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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.

Dont do it. She dumped you and you just need to move on. It's not a good idea if you ask someone out again, when they dumped you. yeah know? so get over her and find the next girl.

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me and my boyfriend love eachother ALOT nd hes comin to see me for the first time whut can i get him? he likes rap nd he raps

a cd of his favorite rapper? one he doesnt have?

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their is this gurl that i met on the internet and i think i rlly love her im 13 and she 25 but she thinks im 21 she says she really loves me but we are supose to meet in a few days n i duno what 2 do if she rlly loves me it shouldnt matter that im like 13 right? plz help me.

well first of all, you lied to her. that def does matter. yes age matters at this point. especially since your 13. sorry but you defenetly should tell her now. good luck.
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ok im 13 and i have only had 2 bfs and they both only lasted for like 2 days they say im really pretty but then y dont they still wanna go out the one i really liked said he wasnt comfortable around me and he had his friend break up with me for him!! and now that he broke up with me i try to talk to him but he never listens!!

just to tell you, looks arent everything. so just because they think your pretty doesnt mean everything. dont worry about them, more guys will come. && that guy sounds like an imature weirdo anyways. he was probably just nerveous & stuff. poor kid, lol. well hope i helped, ummm a tiny bit. well good luck and dont worry your perfect guy will come soon, your only 13!

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my guy friend that i like a lot and he likes me back. the problem is that he got a girlfriend and i got a boyfriend(well had not anymore) but i know he likes me because he is always askin me to hang out and i think like i lost my chance because when he was single i didnt ask him out but it was only because i just meet him. do guyes think i lsot my chance. but he keeps telling me he dont care what his gf says bc what she doesnt noe wont hurt her. what should i do? i am confussed.

hmm, he needs to tell his girlfriend. because thats not right. its like cheating, basically. well just because he asks you to hang out doesnt mean he "likes" you like that. even though, im sure he does. well i dont think its right for you to do anything just yet. but tell him that if he likes you, he needs to be straight with the other girl. && if he does that, go for it. but back off for awhile && give it some time until they are over.

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ok, well, im a christian. and i look at the horoscopes ALL of the time and im starting to think that there true. but my mom says its bad and i dont know how they r bad. how r they bad and is it really gonna affect my relationship with god?

well i dont really get it. its perfectly fine to look at horoscopes. i guess just dont think it will all come true. && dont live your life by it. God will love you no matter what, && personally i dont get what she means. but maybe ask her why she said that. but dont worry it wont affect your relationship with God!

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how do i add a picture to my collumn every time i try to add a pic it says its bigger than 15kb or whatever and all mine are like 200! how do i make my pics smaller so they can go on my collumn

well if you have a photo program on your computer & you click crop. it usually resizes the picture. worked for me. you can also download a picture program too. but if that doesnt work go to photobucket.com. upload your picture. check the white little box by the name of your picture & click edit on top of the picture. then it will have a thing that says resize picture. then click what % you want to reduce it to, or whatever. hope it works! good luck!!

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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false?

yea its bad for you. just find some other things beside water to drink. and if your on a diet, you def wanna stay away from soda. but just find some other things to drink. apple juice, orange juice, etc. but i think water tastes pretty good with ice. haha, well i hope i helped a tad.

good luck with your diet*

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Ok, well there is a dude at my church. He is so sweet, funny and hott. I wish he would like me. I mean I do not know if he doesnot. But one time I asked him out and he said maybe. SoOo, how do I get him to like me?Or get him to hang with me.

ask him to go with a group to the movies or something. and try to talk to him & get to know him as best you can. maybe flirt a little too. and then maybe if that goes well, ask him out. =)

hope i helped.

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i don't know what to do because my boyfriend got grounded and he says he's going to sneak out to see me but last time he did that he got caught and got grounded for even longer. I've been trying to talk him out of it but its not working. what things can i say to him to try to talk him out of it because if he gets caught then we won't be able to see eachother for even longer.

lol, the first answer to this question made me laugh. great idea. but MY advice is.. that you should tell him what you said right here "if he gets caught, he wont be able to see you for even longer" && that you wont go along with it, because you dont want him to get caught. if that doesnt work, say your busy anyway, && for him to call when hes not grounded anymore. && dont see him till then! =) hope i helped!

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Well my family is a family with 5 kids. We are running sort of low on money. How couild I help them out. I mean my mom could nopt even buy shampoo the other day!

well be creative with this.

you could
-have a garage sale.
-watch dogs
-babysit
-wash cars
-make stuff, and sell it
-lemondade stand

just a few ideas for you, but like i said, be creative, im sure you can think of some good ways to make money. good luck! =)

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im 14 years old. My mom isnt working right now so we dont have alot of money. The clothes i wear are american eagle, aeropostale, hollister, and abercrombie mostly. Well for school my mom said i cant get alot of clothes unless i buy them with my own money. i was wondering if anyone knew a way i could make money for some clothes. The place that i live at there arent that many kids, so i cant baby sit around here. Does anyone have any ideas?

well, if not in your neighborhood, you could find some kids of the people your parents work with or know. that maybe arent right in your neighborhood, but you could maybe find some other kids to babysit? well besides that, you could.. do a lemonade stand, dog sit, water gardens, and stuff like that. also, aeropostale isnt that expensive, so you should be able to get clothes from there for no problem! i love that store! well good luck!

♥ nicole

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