Hey, I'm 13, and I'm a female. I don't know what to do in this situation. Okay, here it is. My best friend has liked this guy for a year or so. But then I came to the school she goes too, and I am like in love with this guy. No one knows I like him, infact, I have a boyfriend, and I feel bad about that. The guy who my best friend likes, likes me. The one I like too, I mean. Should I say no to him and break his heart, or say yes and maybe lose my best friend and break my boyfriend's heart?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rockstarxlove answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 6:50 pm: wow. omg, tough situation! lol but well i dont think you should do that to your best friend. But i dont think you should be with your boyfriend if you like/think about another guy. well i know you cant control who you like. it's a really hard when your best friend likes the same guy. You should probably tell your friend the truth. I know it's tough and she'll probably be mad. But i think it's the best thing to do. I don't really know if you should go out with him though, unless she says its okay with her. Best friends are more important than guys however, keep that in mind. There will be more guys in the future. So dont ruin your friendship over him. You could always say to the guy, "i really like you but i cant hurt my best friend like that." or something.
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