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hey. my name is christina. cool people call me X. so can you. kelly is my best friend. you can see her column on KELLY ELIZABETH i absolutely love basketball, shopping, and friends. stupid question=stupid answer. go ahead, ask me anything! dont be shy!

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I'll try to make this short and simple. I dated this guy (adam) over a year ago, it didnt work out. The other night I went bowling with some friends and he was there with his best friend (kyle). it was awkawrd, and kyle and I never really talked even when I dated adam, but he wanted to help me talk to adam so we could atleast be freinds. I got home that night and I talked to kyle online. We found out we have ALOT in common, and we already know alot about eachother , and eacothers relationships. So we talked ALL night till 4 am, and found out we had a connecton. so Kyle asked adam how he would feel if he (kyle) and I would date,, Adam got furious and said he wouldnt talk to kyle nemore. So we are torn between, dating and hiding it from him and seeing if it works out and then tel him. or not dating because kyle could lose his best friend hes had forever.. So i dunt know what We should do.. ne suggestions?

hey. i dont think that you should worry about what adam says. if him and you didnt have a connection then so what, he cant help that. and if you and kyle like eachother too then adam cant do anything about it. it seems stupid for him to try to control who you go out with even if you guys arent together anymore. if adam doesnt want too be friends with kyle anymore then he should relize that he can make his own decisions. if you like kyle, then you should do whatever makes you the happiest. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Im Graduating on the 6th of June and i need help to figure out a song. What song should it be? I want something about saying goodbye and probably upbeat but slow is cool.

hey. some good songs for graduation is Greenday, "good riddance" and Vitamin C, "friends forever". they are both amazing. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

Another turning point a fork stuck in the road
Time grabs you by the wrist directs you where to go
So make the best of this test and don't ask why
It's not a question but a lesson learned in time

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

So take the photographs and still frames in your mind
Hang it on a shelf in good health and good time
Tattoos of memories and dead skin on trial
For what it's worth it was worth all the while

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life

It's something unpredictable
But in the end is right
I hope you had the time of your life
....................................

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down

These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of the night in June
I didn't know much of love, but it came too soon
And there was me and you, and then it got real blue
Stay at home talkin' on the telephone and
We would get so excited, we'd get so scared
Laughing at our selves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels

Chorus:
As we go on, we remember
All the times we had together
And as our lives change,
Come whatever
We will still be, friends forever

So if we get the big jobs and we make the big money
When we look back now, will that joke still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels

Repeat chorus

La, la, la la; yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la, we will still be friends forever

Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there? Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us 'round?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, I keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly

Repeat chorus 3x


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A boy is going to ask me to a school dance. I dont want to go with him. what should i tell him to let him down gently?

I'll rate 5's.

hey. you should just say... although i am so happy that you wanted to go with me, i said that i would go with my fiends, and i really didnt want a date. or you could maybe hook up the guy with one of your friends. but dont be afraid to put your foot down. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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So, I have this friend, and a lot of people call her X, right? And she is NEVER on aim anymore, and I don't know why! Why could this be?
Love,
Gabby.

hey. wow, this person named X is ALWAYS online. i dont know if you know her new sn is xmarksthespot43 and she is always on that one. you should consider it. ♥

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ok my school is having a dance this friday i'm going....but i have no idea what to wear, my friend and i are going to the mall on thursday (the day before the dance)and i want to buy somthing cute but cheap.
any ideas,pictures,links or advice please gime em' to me thx

hey. i was just introduced to this great store called forever 21. they have a GREAT selection of dresses that have awesome prices. they are so cute. also, you can check marshall fields or express. BEBE, gap and banana republic also may have some stuff, but their prices may be a little higher. have fun at the dance and hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Ok,well today,i took a bath,shampoo'd and conditioned my hair,then put this serum that stops split ends.but recently (every once in a while) i've noticed my hair has been falling out.a couple of mintues ago,after my hair was dry (by the air) i put it to the side and combed through it with my fingers.i got about 10 strands of hair! i was so scared!!! my sister's hair fell out,but thats probably only because she dyed it so much.no one else in this family has had this happen!should i worry and go to the doctor,or is this normal?!

hey. i would ask your parent about this. just explain what has happened. well, do you dye your hair as much as your sister? i think it may sound gross, but i would not come your hair for about a day and see if this continues. if it does then i suggest you go to a doctor and have it checked out. i bet its not that serious. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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does anyone know what this song is called and who its by ?



A singer in a smokey room
A smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile they can share the night
It goes on and on and on and on

hey. its called "dont stop believing" by journey.

Just a small town girl
Livin' in a lonely world
She took the midnight train going anywhere
Just a city boy
Born and raised in South Detroit
He took the midnight train going anywhere

A singer in a smoky room
The smell of wine and cheap perfume
For a smile they can share the night
It goes on and on and on and on

(Chorus)
Strangers waiting
Up and down the boulevard
Their shadows searching in the night
Streetlights people
Living just to find emotion
Hiding somewhere in the night

Working hard to get my fill
Everybody wants a thrill
Payin' anything to roll the dice
Just one more time

Some will win, some will lose
Some were born to sing the blues
Oh, the movie never ends
It goes on and on and on and on

(Chorus)
Don't stop believin'
Hold on to that feelin'
Streetlight people
woahhh, woahhhh

Don't stop believin'
Hold on...
Streetlight people
Ohhh, woahhhh
Don't stop believin'
Hold on to that feelin'
Street light people

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ok well i have this problem....well everytiem i go to soccer pratice i always feel left out and like i have no really close friends on the team and i never talk..i may say 2 words..like i dont really feel comforatble around them...but with my school friends im like the loudest person you may ever meet...so im basically asking how can i get more social at soccer...i mean ive tried before but they just like ignore me and go off with there other friends....becuz everytime i go to soccer i get depressed now..so plzzz help me so i can become more social like give me tips or watever please!!

hey. i know it may be hard or embarassing, but the best thing to do know is to just start going up to your team mates and talking to them. you can maybe ask them to help you with play or you can help them with some skill. you could maybe also have a soccer party. that would be a great way to get closer with them. always have a extra waterbottle so if anyone needs one, everyone will think that you are so nice because you have an extra. also, it may just take time. how long have you been on the team? it might take a few months or so for them to warm up to you. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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I'm entering my school's talent show. It's coming up very soon. I'm gonna to sing. I'd prefer to do a country song sung by a female. I play guitar if that helps. Please give suggestions =)

Thanks so much in advanced!

hey. you could play a faith hill song. all of them are great. martina mcbrides songs are amazing. reba mcintire has some good hits too. i dont want to give you any song names because i dont know how advanced you are, but you can always go on the internet to check out some songs. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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um..... this may be a wierd question but i'll ask it. when is about the age girls start shaving their legs?

hey. haha its not that weird of a question. girls start shaving their legs around 11-13. if you want to start it out, just remember that the hair grows back thicker and darker. you could ask a parent to take you to the store to pick up some razors and shaving cream. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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My mom never wants me to pluck my eyebrows on my own, so she takes away the tweesers. (I don't think I do that bad of a job) But usually, I find the tweesers and fix up my eyebrows.

But I can't find them, and my eyebrows are really growing back. All I have are these big tweesers that open real wide and are really hard to use.

I should get them professionally done, but I'm embarrassed to ask my mom. help asap?

hey. dont be embarassed to ask. if she doesnt want you to do them yourself then she should at least get them done by a pro. its is good to get them done because they can shape then and then you only have to pluck the ones that grow back. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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in the morning I usually cleanse with facial wash, exfoliate, use astringent, put on moisturizing sunblock and then put on foundation & other makeup. Is this okay for my skin? Is there anything that I should add, take away or change? I will rate high.

hey. i think that it would be okay for you skin. do you have acne, it sounds like you dont. i would say that maybe you dont have to wash your face with facial wash, maybe just with water. but the good thing is that you exfoliate and use moisturizing sunblock, that is VERY good! :) i would say just make sure you wash your face before you go to bed to get all the makeup off. it seems like you are doing a good job so far! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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alright so my boyfriend comes over here like everyday and i love it because i get to see him everyyyy dayy and thats just fine with me but sometimes when hes over here and im in the shower i get out come to my room and hes on myspace writing someone or reading someones message to him but once i really get in the room he closes out of it really quick and this has happen twice. idk what to do because if hes hiding something i need to know but im scared to ask him because i dont want us to start an arguement. what should i do?????

hey. if you are really worried about him going on your computer, then i would suggest setting a password on it. dont be afraid to ask him what he is doing... you can say it in a polite way and not make it sound like you are demanding. he may just be talking to his friends, you never know, so dont be afraid to bring it up. if he tells you, even if it is not what you want to hear, then thank him for being honest. i hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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my skin gets dry pretty easily. so after washing my face at night and putting an acne medication on, i will wake up in the morning and simply put makeup on without washing my face first. is there any harm in this?

hey. a while ago my face was so dry and cracked, it hurt. i have a few hints that will help your face heal. when you wash your face. dont scrub because that will irritate your skin and make acne worse. what i found that works is Aveeno Positively Radiant daily moisturizer. right before you go to bed put a thin layer of it on and then when you wake up, dont wash your face, just moisturize it more. then wash your face before you to to bed. also, to make your face not as dry, try not to get exposed to too much sun until your skin is the way you want it to be. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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does anyone have a foundation/concealer they would recommend? i need to get a good foundation because the ones i use dont work good and is just.. not good.. and also what are some good mascaras that make eyelashes look longer and thicker? if you can answer one of them ill giveyou a 5! thanks!

hey. i have experimented with many different kinds of makup, and these are my favorite picks. dream matte moouse foundation {amazing) and also for bronzer i use Physicians Formula {make sure it is dark enough}. i have gotten compliments on how long my eyelashes look with Mayballine Great Lash Mascara in brownish-black {wonderful}. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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all i want to know is how do you apply eyeliner so it actually looks GOOD. mine always turns out lookinf gothic and i need this for a play tonight. the teacher said that the girls dont really need stage makeup they need just regular. so please someone tell me how to do it well. no websites please unless its a really good site

hey. what i found that works the best is if you apply the eyeliner on your bottom eyelid... where the little hole by your eye is. dont put it all the way around. start from the center and move towards the back. it also depends what color you use. if you have blonde hair or light brown hair, you want to use a brown or a blue, that will make it so you dont look goth. if you have dark hair you can go ahead and use brownish black or black. you can also blot it with a Q-Tip to make it look more natural and not as severe. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

here is one website that i think will help:

http://www.ehow.com/how_157_apply-eyeliner.html

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what are some websites that have pictures that show some good ides of how i can get my hair done for prom?

hey here are some sites:

http://www.2promhairstyles.com/

http://www.prom-hairstyles.org/

http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/prom_hairstyles.html

hope these help and have fun at prom!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Why is sex a sin? I know that its not a sin if your jewish, so why is it when your cathlic?

hey. i dont think that sex is a sin, i mean, the world would end without sex! it is a sin to abuse the privilage and abuse your power or if you use it for something wrong. hope this helps!!:) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok ive liked this girl for ever and shes like stoped talking to me then she started again but the i started likeing her like alot alot and you told her then she started acting alot defferent armour you like stoped talking and stuff liek that.I still like her alot and dont know what i should do like make myself stop likeing her or what?

ty and P.s i know you lol

didnt you already ask me this question?? who are you by the way... you know me but i dont know who you are.

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okay i have this x- friend. we were friends for about a year and then all of a sudden she started getting weird. like she said she was bi and then said she was joking, but i dont think she was. and shes really creepy to be around, like she got a weird haircut, but i dont wanna talk to her. am i wrong?

hey. i hope you arent talking about me because my nickname is X. hah ;) i am NOT bi though. your friend is probally going through a stage in her life. this may be strange for her too. you dont have to be friends with her if you dont want to, no one is forcing you to. if you dont feel comfortable around her, then dont be around her. hope everything turns out okay! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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