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social skills
ok well i have this problem....well everytiem i go to soccer pratice i always feel left out and like i have no really close friends on the team and i never talk..i may say 2 words..like i dont really feel comforatble around them...but with my school friends im like the loudest person you may ever meet...so im basically asking how can i get more social at soccer...i mean ive tried before but they just like ignore me and go off with there other friends....becuz everytime i go to soccer i get depressed now..so plzzz help me so i can become more social like give me tips or watever please!!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you have already tried the obvious solutions, like being nice and friendly and striking up conversations and it still isn't getting you anywhere...then maybe you just don't "click" with these people. It really sucks to feel left out, especially when the whole point of the sport is to work as a team. I wouldn't be able to continue very long if nobody was friendly to me.
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hey. i know it may be hard or embarassing, but the best thing to do know is to just start going up to your team mates and talking to them. you can maybe ask them to help you with play or you can help them with some skill. you could maybe also have a soccer party. that would be a great way to get closer with them. always have a extra waterbottle so if anyone needs one, everyone will think that you are so nice because you have an extra. also, it may just take time. how long have you been on the team? it might take a few months or so for them to warm up to you. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥
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aww i'm sorrrry!
Okay, try complimenting them on a good goal, or a good practice or something, it takes people a little time to warm up to othres.
Just show them that you are nice, and that you care :]
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