Hey my names Chrissabelle and I love giving advice. I always have. Most of my friends call me Chrissie but really like to be called anything. Well... :p I really would like to be a psycologist when I get older. I love listening to other people, I've always been a good listener and I love to help people to the best of my abilities. I love being with family, hanging out with friends, ice skating, and tennis. I also love to laugh and have fun. Who doesn't? Honestly I just am a really happy person although I can come off really serious to people who don't know me which really sucks. I haven't been answering advice for a few weeks because of numerous reasons but now I'm back and so glad to be able to help everyone again. I really hope I can guys =) That's about it so ask me anything, anytime you need advice and I'll try to help you as best I can!
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ok, so im designing a website, and im short on inspiration. i need some people to give me random ideas (they can be like a list of random words or actual ideas) to help me come up with the website design. thank you sooo much! (link)
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Hey. I would just talk about you. Your favorite colors, food, animals, about your family, maybe make a page for each of your friends with pictures of you guys. Each of your family members too. You can put a ton of surveys on your website or quizzes like that. On each of your friends pages you can talk about the times you've had together and inside jokes and such. You can put your favorite music on it and make a slide show of pictures too. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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hey people, i bought 3 frames to put pictures of me and my best friend in them for her bday (tomorrow) but i cant get ANY pictures of us! Not here, not at her place, no where! So the question is, WHAT CAN I DO WITH THREE FRAMES when there's no picture? (link)
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I think it would be great if you made her something to put in the frame. Maybe a picture or a note saying what a great friend she is. Put this in the first one. Then maybe another with another cute saying, and the last saying now let's have some fun and take pictures. When I usually give my friend a frame for their b-day or Christmas I leave it blank and tell them that I figured we can take some pictures of ourselves that day. Or at the next big event you're going to. Maybe if you feel wierd giving three empty frames keep one for yourself so you'll both have the same. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I'm 14 and I met a guy last summer when we worked together. We only saw each other a couple of days but we really hit it off and have been texting each other for six months now. Finally, last week we had our first real date. It has taken awhile because our parents have felt like we weren't right for each other because of age. We went to the movies. We did kiss, but that was all I was willing to do. He tried to do more and he was real nice about it when I said no. Everything seemed fine. I talked to him the next few days, but now it has been four days and he hasn't been in touch. I don't know what to think cause he kept saying, next time this, next time, Does this guy care or was he just wanting to get together to see what I would do? What should I do? (link)
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A lot of times older guys really want one thing from a girl. I'm assuming you know what that is =). If he was trying things on the first date that's probably true. I'm sure he still really liked you but he wanted more and it's completely great that you were so responsible. I would ask him about it just to be sure since 6 months is a really long time. He may just be really busy too or needs some time to figure things out. I would definitely just text him and ask him about it. I really hope I helped and good luck! =)
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I really want to become a nurse when I grow up. I am very fascinated with the field, and what they do. I know so much about medicine, human anatomy, and other things. But I am doing so horribly in my Chemistry and Biology classes. I don't get a lot of it, and I know I would need to learn it in order to become a nurse.
I know Biology is partly on human anatomy but that's not what I am doing horribly on. Just generally on other stuff. And chemistry, I don't get anything in that class, and it frustrates me.
Does anyone have any tips to excel in these areas so I can better my chance of being a nurse? (link)
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Hey. If you're really interested in the medical field than you have a great chance of becoming a nurse no matter what. Although, you're right, Chemistry and Biology are important so I would try talking to the teacher about getting extra help if you really want to make this career happen. I'm currently taking Bio and I know how confusing it can get! But it's like anything. Once someone explains these things to you you'll have a better understanding and it will better your career. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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15/f
sophomore.
Next year, I will have an opportunity to go to a college! I know I will have 2 teacher reccomendations and such, most likely everyone gets accepted.
I really need to go in order to graduate.
But...
Would a mute be able to go to college?
Uhm, a selective mute in that matter or is that just a "NO. you're disabled!1 you can't go."
I do all my work.. just obviously not presentations. :/
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Hey. You definitely can go to a college. Some colleges make presentations pretty important but most will understand if you talk to them about it. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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Theres something wrong with my camera, & I can't seem to figure it out. I'm not intirely sure what kinda of camera I have, but it says Kodak on the front? So, I guess its a kodak camera? Anyways, I turn it on, & like it starts green & then turns red. I put new batteries in.. also the little like lense thing our out. Like you know when you turn it on, they come out. or whatever.. well mine already is out. & I don't know what to do!
Help! (link)
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Hey. Actually this happened to my camera and the problem was the batteries. I had them in the wrong place :/ lol. With the lense though, I would definitely go to a camera store where they can help you with it and maybe you can also check about the batteries and the camera going from green to red. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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what are some drinks, food, ANYTHING that helps speed up your metabolism? i'm not talking about excerise, cuz i'm well aware that does help. but for example, is it true adding pepper to your food speeds up your metabolism?
thanks in advance ! :) (link)
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I actually looked this up on http://www.eufic.org/page/en/page/FAQ/faqid/do-foods-speed-up-metabolism-burn-calories-faster/ and it says that foods like chilles, ginger, coffee, and cola may speed up your metabolism very slightly but not enough to loose much weight. It says that some people even argue that coffee or cola just make you more alert when exercising and you'll do a better job. I hope this helped! =)
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please read.. isn't as long as it looks..
I'm going to another school [i've posted like a million questions about this stuff, lol.. but this ones different.
I'm having second thoughts.
Like, what I'm making a bad decision?
& my mom keeps saying, really think about this hayley..& i mean up to this moment ive felt like i most deff. should go.
I mean, if you lost your friends, because your not going to the same highschool as them, & they decide your not good enough.. well you'd leave too.. right?
[i go to a private school, & there gonna go to a private school, but im going to the public.. (they think public schools are full of juveniles with purple hair, & pyscho people)]
Anyways, I tried hanging out with other people. But, like I fit perfectlyyy with the people I hung out with. like If it was a puzzle, & I was a piece, then like.. i'd be perfect in that puzzle.
That was queer? but it was an analogy.. or whatevs.
Anyways, I just think itd be best for me.. i'd be prepared for highshool too. like.. i'd make new friends.. get used too it.. & stuff. & i have friends there..
& i can't stand looking at my old friends anymore. it like makes me upset. like i'm always on the verge of tears. & there is like what.. 4 months or something left of school..
should i stay? & have no friends & be on the verge of tears everyday? or should i switch schools.. with the risk of not having many friends, but not having to worry about seeing the old ones?
oh, & if you go to public, & when you get a new kid.. they make friends pretty quick, right?
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Hey, well right now you obviously feel very torn in between two worlds. Those old friends of yours are definitely not good friends if they're making fun of you for going to a public school. I've went to public school my whole life up until this year (for high school) and I love my new school. But, there's really not too much difference and not everyone has purple hair and everything. It sounds like they have a bad idea of what public school is like. I mean yeah there are the occasional people like that but they could turn out to be incredibly nice. They're kids just like you no matter what. I would try the new public school where you might meet a lot of friends. I kind of did the opposite and it worked great, I've met so many nice people that are like the best friend I met in public school. This may happen to you and you'll be so busy with new friends you won't have to see those old ones at all. I bet you'll meet a lot of new people at your own public school rather than having to transfer far away and leave your town because of those jerks. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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okay, so theres this guy, lets call him.. well, lets just call him boy. so last year, by friend really liked boy, and i thought he was adorable as well, cuz well, he`s the cutest thing ever, but i didnt know him. he was in high school, and me and my friend that liked him were in middle school. so my friend moved about half an hour away, so she goes to a different high school and doesnt talk to him. at the beginning of this year, we started talking and we hung out a bit. then he snuck me out, just the two of us, and he kissed me. but at this time, he liked another girl. like, really really liked this other girl, but that other girl went to a different school, so they didnt talk much besides online. the next day, after the kiss, i asked him what it was all about. he said it was just spur of the moment and stuff, but i really liked him. after that we kinda stopped talking. now hes trying to get over the other girl, and were talking again and stuff. today, when we were walking, he grabbed my hand and now im so confused and i dont know what to do. (link)
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Hey. He probably really did like this other girl but he may be over it now and realize how much he does like you. He was probably confused and needed time to sort out what he's done with the two of you. By grabbing your hand it was probably his way of telling you, that he likes you and so I would go for it. Tell him your feelings for him and he may tell you he feels the same way. If he turns you down don't be hurt because he may also be one of those guys that likes a lot of different girls. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =)
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ok so one of my best friends is jamie. jamie and alex(who is a boy) like each other but they're not going out because jamie doesnt like him that much. she still likes him though. well alex and i talk and flirt alot and i think i'm starting to really like him. i can't do anything because of jamie though and i dont know why this is happenign! i feel like such a bad person. what do i do? (link)
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Hey. You're not a bad person for liking Alex! Just talk to your friend about how you feel. She should be understanding and supportive like you were with her. You said she really doesn't like him that much either and if you really do then you should definitely go out with him. I'm sure she will understand once you talk to her. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I dont know what to do. Music has taken over my life. Its basically taken over any kind of life I have. I really dont want to see my boyfriend or friends anymore because I want to play my guitar. And another thing, everyone makes fun of the music I listen to because its mostly old stuff. I cant help it! Thats just what I like. What do I do? (link)
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Hey. It's completely ok that you really enjoy music. That's how many great musicians got famous. A lot of people thought they were crazy but look who got the last laugh =). I think that's wonderful you love music and I wish I was good at it. A habit takes 30 days to develope so you've probably gotten into the habbit of really loving music lately, just like anything else. Just try to get in another habit of setting some time aside for your friends and your boyfriends, for you'll need them for support with your music. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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I am almost 14 and I've never had my period before. I have a few questions that I really need answered.
1.) I heard that you gain weight during your period/puberty. I'm definitely in puberty right now, but I'm afraid that when I get my period, I'll gain alot of weight. Is this true?
2.) Does it feel uncomfortable to exercise when you have your period? I would really like to keep biking (about 60 min) daily. But I'm afraid it will feel uncomfortable if I have my period when exercising.
3.) Do tampons hurt to put in the first few times? I am probably going to have to wear them when exercising. But can you put them in wrong or can they get stuck? Also, which brand of tampons do you like the best? (link)
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Hey. I'm 14 too and I just recently got my period about 6 months ago. Nope I haven't really gained any weight, I stayed the same. You'll still be able to exercise but it might be a little uncomfortable the first 3 days maybe 4 or 2 depending on your body. That's when the cramps happen but they won't last all day. You can find a time in the day when they die down a bit and the exercising will keep your mind off it. After the first two, three, or four days tops though the cramps go away and you'll be able to exercise and it won't be very uncomfortable. As for tampons I have no idea I've never used them. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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OKay, basicly I lie about the stupidest things that aren't true. But everyonce in a while I'll say this HUGE lie that I didn't realise I was thinking of or saying until it's already out polluting the air. It really scares me and I don't know how to handle it. I've never told anyone about this... I'm just so confused and I'm really scared that I'm going to get myself into trouble...
PS> if you have any idea what causes this please help... (link)
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Hey. I had a friend who did the exact same things. People stopped beleiving anything she said even when it was true. It takes 30 days to develope a habit and that's exactly what lying is. A habit. Just try to get out of it (as you know). Think about what you're about to say if it's a lie and how it will hurt you more. You probably feel as if lies are more interesting but instead of telling them to people why not try writing them down? In the book "A Tree Grows in Brooklyn" the teacher tells the girl to write down what you really wanted to tell people and make a story out of it. Who knows? You may become a creative writer =). I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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“You can change your environment, but if you do not change yourself, the environmental changes are not effective”
I have an idea.. but I'll like to hear about what others view it as.
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Hey. It's like saying that no matter what happens in your enviornment won't matter if you don't change yourself for the better too. Like if you want your surroundings to be better you have to think positively too and everything will work out. I really hope this helped! =)
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13/f. when i babysit in the evening from like 6 to 12 or so i get really nervous when it turns dark after i put all of the kids to bed. even though the people i abysit for arre right across the street from my house i still get nervous. im parenoid that a burgular is going to come or something. im scared that i want be able to defend myself. how can i get not so parenoid? (link)
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Hey. This is completely normal! It happens to me too lol. What I do is lock all of the doors and watch a funny movie. Then I call my friends which makes me feel more secure since I'm actually talking to someone and not all alone. As long as the phones near you, some ice cream, and a funny movie, you'll be fine. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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wat trends are in style now? Also, how do you pull of the belt on the waist? I dont kno how to do it... (link)
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Hey. Jeans with boots are back in, like uggs. Also, flats are now back in. Big beaded necklaces, cute thick headbands with stripes or polka dots. Long shirts with cool designs and leggings too. As for the belt, don't put it too far up (heheh, as you probably know) but put it near your rib cage. Although, the bigs belts are hard to pull off but I'm sure you can do it =). I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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omg i love how some people pose on their pictures on myspace like some people only have half their face on the picture and some people like pose looking up like they were holding the camera above their head and they take a whole body picture that shows their shoes. They're really cute pics and i was wondering how some people do that. One of my friends on myspace has a picture of her hugging her legs or something like that and she's looking down on the camera. So did she put the camera on the floor and took the picture? I mean they're sooo cute and i wannt know how they took a picture with those poses. Thanks (link)
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Hey. Well I'm pretty sure with the one where they're looking down they put the camera on the floor and look down into it. With the one that looks like it's above their head that's exactly what they do, hold it above their head lol. I'm pretty sure for the ones with the special effects you need a certain camera or lap top that can do it. Or you can ask your friend to borrow hers. I hope this helped and good luck! =)
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my boyfriend is turning 18 on the 9th and i dont know what i should get him.
im thinking about making him cookies that are heart shaped and he keeps telling me that he already got what he wanted[me] but i told him that that didnt count.
but i just need some suggestions from a few guys or maybe girls because i really dont know what i should get him. =[
thanks. (link)
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Hey. Those cookies sound like a great idea, or you can get a personalized cake with a picture of you and him on it. You can also buy him anything personalized with both of your names on it. He may act embaressed but he'll be really pleased. Or you can make him something personalized. You can make fake coupons that say one free dinner or movie, etc. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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Theres this hot guy, and i want to hook up with himm. I talk to him on facebook, and see him on weekends. What are some things that i can comment his facebook with that will make me sound sexy&that will make him want me? (link)
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Hey. Just say goofy/flirty things that show how much you like him though. Try to say these things in person too for it might be more effective.
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what is the normal weight for 5 ft 5? thats how tall i am,(girl) and i weigh 126, which i think is to much. i went from 115 to 126 in like 3 months and i have been trying to lose some of it, but before i get to serious with it i want to know if i should bother. thanks! (link)
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Your weight is perfectly normal for 5 ft 5. You're perfectly average for this hight and that's great! =)
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