Question Posted Wednesday January 24 2007, 9:13 pm
okay, so theres this guy, lets call him.. well, lets just call him boy. so last year, by friend really liked boy, and i thought he was adorable as well, cuz well, he`s the cutest thing ever, but i didnt know him. he was in high school, and me and my friend that liked him were in middle school. so my friend moved about half an hour away, so she goes to a different high school and doesnt talk to him. at the beginning of this year, we started talking and we hung out a bit. then he snuck me out, just the two of us, and he kissed me. but at this time, he liked another girl. like, really really liked this other girl, but that other girl went to a different school, so they didnt talk much besides online. the next day, after the kiss, i asked him what it was all about. he said it was just spur of the moment and stuff, but i really liked him. after that we kinda stopped talking. now hes trying to get over the other girl, and were talking again and stuff. today, when we were walking, he grabbed my hand and now im so confused and i dont know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chrissabelle37 answered Saturday January 27 2007, 4:37 pm: Hey. He probably really did like this other girl but he may be over it now and realize how much he does like you. He was probably confused and needed time to sort out what he's done with the two of you. By grabbing your hand it was probably his way of telling you, that he likes you and so I would go for it. Tell him your feelings for him and he may tell you he feels the same way. If he turns you down don't be hurt because he may also be one of those guys that likes a lot of different girls. I really hope this helped you and good luck! =) [ chrissabelle37's advice column | Ask chrissabelle37 A Question ]
christian_grg answered Thursday January 25 2007, 9:23 am: yea ok yea is a guy and guys have emotions to and so if he is trying to get over that girl and i hope he is he is going to go with plan B which is you i have been through bad breaksup myself and i am a guy to so yea it does hurt when someone breaks up with you but you have to move on and so to fill that hurt in his heart he is going for you and so yea thats why he grabbed your hand thats his way of telling you that he is getting over that girl and that he likes you and really likes you if he has thcourage to grab your hand well i hope this helps thanks if you have anymore questions my email address is christian_grg@hotmail.com [ christian_grg's advice column | Ask christian_grg A Question ]
SarahG answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 10:35 pm: I think that 'Boy' does like you and if he isn't going out with the other girl then ask him if he would like to go out with you. If he says he doesn't just say you wanna be friends and that you accept the fact that he doesn't like you [ SarahG's advice column | Ask SarahG A Question ]
rachey answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 10:24 pm: I have been in this position. I liked this guy and he liked me he just didnt want to go out. So we would talk and hang out once and make out. But then he wouldnt talk to me for another couple of months. Then the same old again. One day I was just like forget it. So, my advice is to ask him exactly what he feels and then if you dont like the answer give up. Because any boy who plays with your feelings is not worth your heart. he will just abuse the unconditional love you would give him, and his love might be just to get some. [ rachey's advice column | Ask rachey A Question ]
JesusFreak2006 answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 9:49 pm: You have to becareful of that..hes acting on his hormones until you know he is completely available I know its hard...but you shouldnt recipicate..I am sure he likes deep inside but you should wait so he can be faithful to you..so you know for sure he isn't the same with anyother girl [ JesusFreak2006's advice column | Ask JesusFreak2006 A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Wednesday January 24 2007, 9:18 pm: hey, well its not fair to you for him to just lead you on like that. tell him that you need to know if he likes you or not and if he does that he likes only you and no one else. explain to him that you cant take his mixed signals. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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