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okay i need help
im 16/f
well lets get this started my mum died and well when we were in thehospital when she died my dad said it was all my fault and i will nevr for give you. my brother felix has been crying ever since that and i havent cried since
at school im the biggest popularest bitch ever everyone is afraid of me.
im having sex with a 21 year old who thinks im 18. he figured out im 16 by one of my back stabbing friends. my friends thought he was a total jerk but i loved him
when i told him i loved him he thought i was nuts.
then i went off at him saying i was just this hook up for him to have sex with an stuff. and then he told me he was in love with his room mate molly who doesnt like him in that way.
i got in a car accident with my back stabbing friends
the guys driving the car ran off afraid of cops (car ended up being stolen)
an i have a broken arm which looks like a alien coming out of my skin and my face has a million scratches.
my dad is mad because he figured out i was in the stolen car. he puts me on complete lock down an is thinking about sending me to boarding school. i saw print outs of different schools. smith(21 year old guy im hooked up with) came an took me to hospital since i couldnt tell dad. but i had to go back home smith was still mad that i lied to him about my age. my dad is sorta mad now but is now im off complete lock down. an me and smith well i dunno
this is what is going on in my life. crazy yes i know.
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okay sorry to say i understand that you say you love this 21 year old guy your with but he is just using you for sex get rid of him because he's not worth your time and stuff so yeah i'm sorry bout the whole accident thing you need some new friends maybe you shouldn't be the most popularist bitch maybe you should try hanging out with people who aren't as social as you are or aren't as high on the social statis as you are and maybe you should think about what you are doing your dad wasn't right for blaming you for your moms death. but with the whole bording school thing you might want to put yourself in his shoes. maybe he thinks he's doin wats best for you and he's trying to help you so yeah
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aww I am completely sorry about your loss. Wow, you seem to be getting so much bad luck! :[ You need to talk to your dad, and tell him how you feel, tell him you loved your mom very much & it isn`t your fault. That 21 year old, just forget about him. He seem`s like an idiot anyway, You told him you loved him and he thought you were completly nuts. He seem`s like he dosen`t care about you that much & he`s just with you so he can have "fun" if you know what I mean. & You need to stop doing thing`s like getting in stolen car`s because that`s just going to get you in tons of trouble you really don`t want to be in. You need to also talk to your brother, and comfort him and tell him you are there for him. & Your arm will get better don`t worry. Just try to stay out of trouble, & I`m sorry about your loss & your arm & your dad & everything. I wish you tons & tons of luck in the future! & I hope I helped! :]
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Im so sorry, its hard to deal with stuff when it happens all at once.
For Your Mom- Its not your fault. You didnt do a thing. You (assumeing) loved her and she knows you didnt do anything wrong,chances are when she was your age she had fights to,and she knows how you feel. and its hard to go on with out a mom. Your dad needs an excuse,he wants to blame himself-or anyone else. he figures if he puts the blaime on you it can make him feel more at ease. its not. sometimes people dont cry cause they're so shocked and thats just how they take things. its not like your numb. As for school. you see yourself as everyone is afraid of you- but why? If you think your a bitch,then change. Complement people,smile at them.What makes you a bitch? ask yourself,and change it.just be friendly. Truthfully,you cant trust anyone,unless you really believe they could keep a secret. i guess you learned that the hard way unfortunatly. trust no one. I'd say get into a smaller group of friends,not too small but keep a main circle. Seriously,i wish i could get away from this place im in right now. And boarding school,if you must go,think of it as a good thing. A new reputation,another chance. im not saying its the greatest,but you'll be away from the drama.Maybe you should recover and stay from for a day or two. your dad cares about you,but i truthfully its been buried and hes become more careless. Maybe he thinks theres no hope for you. Prove him wrong. At least once,every two days have normal,small talk. If he says anything cold or mean during it,just pause,and say something like "im sorry you think that way" or whatever the situation is,and hover for a bit,then walk away calmly. It'll make him feel horrible he did that. This whole time he thought you did something,but this'll make him realize that its not your fault. As for your boyfriend,you cant really do anything. Just stay clean for a while. im sorry if i didnt helped,but i hope i did at least a little. good luck!
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Wow, I am sorry for your loss. I can relate, and I know these situations are incredibly hard to deal with. For your safety, I suggest you stop seeing the 21 year old. He IS only using you anyways, and I'm positive you can do better. =)
You should try to build a relationship with your father. Try hanging out with him sometimes and talking about memories of your mother. If you and your father build a strong bond your life will run much smoother.
I suggest talking to an adult or school counsellor to deal just to express the problems in your life. You stress will be eased.
About your backstabbing friends, just ditch them. I have gone through this many times and they are not going to change. They are going to continue doing it and hurting you until you are strong enough to move on.
Good luck with everything =)
If you need any more advice just let me know!
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