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okay, so theres this guy, lets call him.. well, lets just call him boy. so last year, by friend really liked boy, and i thought he was adorable as well, cuz well, he`s the cutest thing ever, but i didnt know him. he was in high school, and me and my friend that liked him were in middle school. so my friend moved about half an hour away, so she goes to a different high school and doesnt talk to him. at the beginning of this year, we started talking and we hung out a bit. then he snuck me out, just the two of us, and he kissed me. but at this time, he liked another girl. like, really really liked this other girl, but that other girl went to a different school, so they didnt talk much besides online. the next day, after the kiss, i asked him what it was all about. he said it was just spur of the moment and stuff, but i really liked him. after that we kinda stopped talking. now hes trying to get over the other girl, and were talking again and stuff. today, when we were walking, he grabbed my hand and now im so confused and i dont know what to do. (link)
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I think that 'Boy' does like you and if he isn't going out with the other girl then ask him if he would like to go out with you. If he says he doesn't just say you wanna be friends and that you accept the fact that he doesn't like you
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i just read the response you gave to someone about you losing all of that weight. congratulations! anyway. I'm 5'1" and i weigh 136. I'm very unhappy with my weight. can you please explain to me in detail what all you did to lose weight?
and also, how long did it take you?
I'll rate. =] ♥ (link)
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Hey, thanks for asking me for advice. First of I started off going for an hour walk everyday. this was at the begininng of my weight loss. I also use to snack alot!! but I started not eating anything accept brecfast,lunch dinner. I at cereal for brecfast,a wholmeal sandwhich for lunch and whatever my family was having for dinner. If I felt hungry between meals I would only eat fruit. And as I got fitter and lost more weight I gradualy buil my hourly walks up to 3 hour walks. The weight didn't just disapear before my eyes but it happened within a year,maybe a little sooner. well good luck with your weight loss and keep me posted, tell me how it goes. p.s don't do something silly like starve yourself though!
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MY MOM. grr. she tells me I can switch schools, & then makes these excuses like.. "Well.. lets think about it.. isn't there someone else you can hang out with" & im like omgg. grr. ITS SO ANNOYING. Like, I hang out with the meanest girls in school, the plastics, whatever you want to call them. AND I CAN'T STAND THEM. I want out, like..I just don't want to hang out with anyone else. There either sluts, fake, annoying. & I know nobodys perfect, but see.. its just, I don't know. Its not that these people don't like me & stuff, its just..i'm sick of them all. I've been in school with them for 9 years [private school]
How can I convince my mom to let me out? She keeps telling me how.. 'she hung out with the mean girls & she dealt with it, & it wasnt that bad' but my mom was one of them. & that just isn't mean. I'm not some little stuck up.
AHH just help!
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Tell your mum that you can't possibly focus on your school work if your worried about those bitches. If she is offering you to switch schools
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My sister has loads of anger problems and for the past six years she has caused a lot of tension in our family. During this time I've always been the 'good one' but recently my Dad has been taking things out on me more and more. I admit that I'm not always as well behaved as I should be, but it's not like I'm worse than any other average teen. Now even when I haven't done anything wrong my Dad will be unreasonable and start shouting and swearing. I always try and be mature and walk away from the situation then come back and talk things through calmly later but 9 times out of 10 he will refuse to admit that he has been wrong and usually he won't even listen to what I have to say.
I know that he's under a lot of stress from work and my sister which has also put his relationship with my Mum has been put under strain but I'm finding it increasingly hard to deal with it. It's got to the point where I'll say something completely politely and innocently and he'll start yelling and cause a huge family argument for no reason.
What can I do? I've tried talking to him, my Mum and my sister many times but it makes no difference. We've also completed several sessions with a family counciller but that only made things worse. (link)
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Your dad sounds extramly unreasonable. In this situation all you can do really is maybe when he gets angry like that don't say anything,let him yell, let him scream, and after he has cooled down don't mention anything. Don't do things that you know might set him off 'although it doesn't sound like you have been' And if he starts getting physicly abusive towards anyone in your family inform someone who can help you with this. And if you have any other problems just ask me and I will atemplt to help
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Ill tell you my story kinda.
Theres this boy ,i'll call him Dave.
Well me and Dave used to be really good friends for about 3 years, maybe a little less.
That led to us doing "stuff" [if you know what i mean]
After that , we were still friends and all until everyone found out and he hated me so much
for a long period of time.
I still liked him , through all of it.
Just recently, maybe 4 days ago he talked to me,
told me he doesnt hate me and said he liked me as a friend and he was being nice about it.
It made me more happy than ever,we talked for a long time too.
He told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend and he did.
He said he likes another girl [michelle], i know her a little bit.
I thought nothing of it becuase they never talk.
Until , i did something really really stupid.
My friend made a fake screename to IM him,a long time ago before we became friends again.
She picked someone random and she picked a girl name Carleen, who just happens to be best friends with michelle.
When "Carleen" was talking to Dave on the fake screename, he seemed to like her and stuff and he talked to "Carleen" for like hours and hours for 3 nights.
After those 3 nights, we stopped.
Apparently, Dave must have told his best friend [jimmy]about Carleen so jimmy decided to talk to carleen.
Now , im pretty sure Jimmy and Carleen like eachother and now Dave and Michelle dont really talk but Jimmy and Carleen are going to try and get them to be better friends and Carleen thinks Michelle is gonna like Dave,who im in love with!
What makes me the most mad, is that we just became friends again and becuase of this, he isnt gonna talk to me as much as he would without Carleen and Michelle, and I think its all me and my friends fault .
Oh and my best friend who made the fake screename, likes Jimmy.
So, what should we honestly do?
I know this was realli realli long,plz help!!!!
15/f
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It's not your fault. I think you and your friend should tell Dave and Jimmy how you really feel but son't come across as desperate for them to feel the same way. I f they don't tell them that you respect that and tell them you still want to be friends
best of luck!
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Ok a while back I heard some of my guy friends discussing something they didn’t want me hearing. My friend *Bob was asking my other guy friend if he had ever gotten his "red wings". If you don’t know what that is don’t worry i didn’t know at first either. I found out it is when I guy has sex with a girl ON her period. That is just sick! Why are guys determined to receive their "red wings"? It seems so immoral. Thanks every. You really give me great advice when i need it (link)
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I understand where your comming from. I have very strong moral opinions as well, and I find people who talk in that way to be very male shovanistic. Sometimes though I feel that I am wierd and that it's judt normal for people to talk like that but it's not! keep your morels and steer clear of boys who treat girls like sex slaves. I know it may not seem like it but there are guys out there who aren't just interested in 'getting their red wings' there will be guys out there who have very strong moral opinions as well. look after youtself and if you have anymore questions just ask.
best of luck
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i wanna start losing weight, what should i do?
17
Female
189 lbs
5'3 (link)
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Well I would start walking for an hour a day or three days a week. Then I would go on a diet. start sticking to regular eating habbits. eat breckfast,lunch,dinner, and if you need to snack have fruit instead of fatty foods. It wont happen over night but in time it worked. you see I was emensley obese and I did this and it worked, it took a whole year but I am 5'0 and 90 pounds now. just try it you have nothing to lose but the weight!
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Ok, I'm a 15 year old female. I do a lot of exercises right now, I started about a month ago. I do about 100 good crunches a day, if not more, 30-100 arm curls (per arm) at a shot(i do these shots about 1-5 times a day), I do leg lifts, stairs, wings, and at least 30 squats (some times with a 5 pound weight in each are). I do all of the arm exercises with 10 pound weights. I weigh approx 130 pounds and am 5'4 1/2.
Now here is my question: what can I do to trim down my thys? I don't want any more muscle, just to trim them down so I look better in a bathing swit. I have till late spring to finish trimming down. If I do not get any results within 2 weeks of doing an exercise i quite it and try something else. but no matter what i seem to do, my thys are not getting any thinner.
P.S. I have cut down on my eating as well, i eat about the same for breakfast and lunch, but not as much for supper, and I do not eat chocolat, chips, candy, or drink pop, so i know it's not my eating habits.
please help me, any advice will be apreciated.
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Well I was 5'0 and I weight 165 pounds. And I went on a diet but the main thing that helped was the excercise bike. and now I weight 90 pounds and I have chicken legs!!! My suggestion is to use an excercise bike 15 minutes every day and gradually build up to 40 minutes everyday. but look after yourself and don't diet too drasticly
best of luck
sarah.G
well if you don't have axcess to a excercise bike try walking for an hour a day then gradually build up to three hours. Walking is the best form of excercise. walking trims down every part of your body and is the most healthy form of excercise
goodluck!!
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