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long, i need some good help though
Ill tell you my story kinda.
Theres this boy ,i'll call him Dave.
Well me and Dave used to be really good friends for about 3 years, maybe a little less.
That led to us doing "stuff" [if you know what i mean]
After that , we were still friends and all until everyone found out and he hated me so much
for a long period of time.
I still liked him , through all of it.
Just recently, maybe 4 days ago he talked to me,
told me he doesnt hate me and said he liked me as a friend and he was being nice about it.
It made me more happy than ever,we talked for a long time too.
He told me he was going to break up with his girlfriend and he did.
He said he likes another girl [michelle], i know her a little bit.
I thought nothing of it becuase they never talk.
Until , i did something really really stupid.
My friend made a fake screename to IM him,a long time ago before we became friends again.
She picked someone random and she picked a girl name Carleen, who just happens to be best friends with michelle.
When "Carleen" was talking to Dave on the fake screename, he seemed to like her and stuff and he talked to "Carleen" for like hours and hours for 3 nights.
After those 3 nights, we stopped.
Apparently, Dave must have told his best friend [jimmy]about Carleen so jimmy decided to talk to carleen.
Now , im pretty sure Jimmy and Carleen like eachother and now Dave and Michelle dont really talk but Jimmy and Carleen are going to try and get them to be better friends and Carleen thinks Michelle is gonna like Dave,who im in love with!
What makes me the most mad, is that we just became friends again and becuase of this, he isnt gonna talk to me as much as he would without Carleen and Michelle, and I think its all me and my friends fault .
Oh and my best friend who made the fake screename, likes Jimmy.
So, what should we honestly do?
I know this was realli realli long,plz help!!!!
15/f
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It's not your fault. I think you and your friend should tell Dave and Jimmy how you really feel but son't come across as desperate for them to feel the same way. I f they don't tell them that you respect that and tell them you still want to be friends
best of luck!
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well you have to realise dave should still be freinds with you whether or not he has a girlfriend if was truly a good friend...you cant make someone like you...the only thing u could do is pretend your neutral about it and advie dave and jimmy not to date carleen and michelle i think you would have more success with dave then jimmy...just ask them to hang out and make sure u dont talk about them...however i dont think any of this is your fault yes you guys did pretend to be carleen however when jimmy or dave went to ask carleen about it carleen would have no clue what they were talkin about it so what ever happened happened on its own
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