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I'm going to another school [i've posted like a million questions about this stuff, lol.. but this ones different.
I'm having second thoughts.
Like, what I'm making a bad decision?
& my mom keeps saying, really think about this hayley..& i mean up to this moment ive felt like i most deff. should go.
I mean, if you lost your friends, because your not going to the same highschool as them, & they decide your not good enough.. well you'd leave too.. right?
[i go to a private school, & there gonna go to a private school, but im going to the public.. (they think public schools are full of juveniles with purple hair, & pyscho people)]
Anyways, I tried hanging out with other people. But, like I fit perfectlyyy with the people I hung out with. like If it was a puzzle, & I was a piece, then like.. i'd be perfect in that puzzle.
That was queer? but it was an analogy.. or whatevs.
Anyways, I just think itd be best for me.. i'd be prepared for highshool too. like.. i'd make new friends.. get used too it.. & stuff. & i have friends there..
& i can't stand looking at my old friends anymore. it like makes me upset. like i'm always on the verge of tears. & there is like what.. 4 months or something left of school..
should i stay? & have no friends & be on the verge of tears everyday? or should i switch schools.. with the risk of not having many friends, but not having to worry about seeing the old ones?
oh, & if you go to public, & when you get a new kid.. they make friends pretty quick, right?
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Hey, well right now you obviously feel very torn in between two worlds. Those old friends of yours are definitely not good friends if they're making fun of you for going to a public school. I've went to public school my whole life up until this year (for high school) and I love my new school. But, there's really not too much difference and not everyone has purple hair and everything. It sounds like they have a bad idea of what public school is like. I mean yeah there are the occasional people like that but they could turn out to be incredibly nice. They're kids just like you no matter what. I would try the new public school where you might meet a lot of friends. I kind of did the opposite and it worked great, I've met so many nice people that are like the best friend I met in public school. This may happen to you and you'll be so busy with new friends you won't have to see those old ones at all. I bet you'll meet a lot of new people at your own public school rather than having to transfer far away and leave your town because of those jerks. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
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Good for you for refusing to group yourself with fake people! :)
Being the new kid in public school is probably close to the same as being the new kid in private school. You don't know anybody.
The kids in public school aren't what they make them out to be. I was one of the purple haired types in my day, but that didn't make me a psycho. However, there are people in every school, public or private, who are fake a**holes. There is no way to avoid that type of person.
BUT by you leaving your current school, you are letting them win. They are running you out, and you are willing to go.
Weather you decide to stay or go, you need to teach yourself to not care what others think of you. Who cares what they think, they are fake anyhow, right?
If I were you, I'd want to leave too, but at the same time I would want to stand my ground to show that I am the bigger person.
I wish I could help more, but this is a decision you have to make based on what's best for you. I can't make this one for you.
There is an up side and down side to either decision, so think hard and choose wisely.
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