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I dont know what to do I just moved to this new school. I still like this kid from my old school, and I know it might sound stupid but I really think we can be good together!! even though I might not see him again I still think about what we could of had.*help*
Jordan

Just try and stay in contact with him. If you're sure you'd be great together, go for it! But if it doesn't work out, it just wasn't meant to be, and you'll find someone. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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i have this rash on my lip that itches and peels. i've had it for a while and it wont go away. could it be a cold sore, or could it because i don't drink much water? i scratched it alot and i think maybe that's why it looks bad and won't go away. i don't know though... or could it be herpes? because i gave oral sex before i got it. but my mom is getting the same thing, and so i don't think it could be herpes. what do rashes on your lips look like if you have herpes?

It's probably just a severe coldsore or something. Cuz you scratched it a lot. I would suggest going to a doctor or a dermatologist and get a prescription for it. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Somethimes i feel like my boyfriend is only with me to get booty . I dont know what to do cause I really love him and I dont know if I should tell him how I feel. Please Help!!!!!!

Well, talk to him about it, but if he says he loves you and not for your booty, then believe him. Just be careful about it. If you really think that's all he wants, dump him. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Everytime i make out with my boyfriend i feel like he is attcking me with his tongue is this normal or does he have issues??? Can i have some advice to work around this!!

Just tell him you're uncomfortable and to slow down a bit. Lol. It's probably normal...for a guy. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Last night i was making out with my boyfriend, and the only thing i could feel was his braces. Can you give me any hints to avoid these jaw of life?

Well, don't tell him, it'll make him upsest. I guess the only thing you can do is just get used to it. And hopefully he's getting them off soon. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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my grades are so low....and im in the highest program at my school and its too hard for me...ive always had good grades till now...im doing my homework and everything but i dont know..im not understanding ANYTHING...ive talked to my mom about and today she talked to my dad but he started yelling saying im on the computer too much and talking on the phone too late and my social life is taking over and he wont let me change out of the program...he said hes not gonna let me see my boyfriend *of 6 months* anymore..=\...wut do i do im so upset? he said hes gonna have a talk with me tonight..(hes not mean hes just strict about my grades/school

Tell him that you're doing your homework, but you just don't get anything. See if maybe he'll help you to understand everything. Just remember to tell him that your social life has nothing to do with your grades. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ok i have this HUGE project due TOMRROW and my partner (we got to pick our partners) shes my friend and everything but she is so flakey!! she already has a F in that class and i didnt know that and i tryed getting together with her over x mas vacation to start it and she never could...and i talked to her about it at school and shes lkie OMG ya when is it due again? OHH tuesday...well lets do it on sunday...and then so yesterday about 2pm i called her and she was getting ready to leave and then she was like lets just do it at lunch tomrrow...YEA FINSIH A PROJECT IN 30MINS AT LUNCH TOMRROW! but the thing is IM HOMESICK TODAY!! i am throwing up and EVERYTHING...and my grade s already a low c in that class....should i just do the whole project now and 4get about her (because for all i kno shell forget to go in at lunch today) and if i did do the whole project id only write my name on it...not hers....but the thing is we signed up and the teacher nows were partners....wat should i do...its a huge project but i have all day and if worse came to worse id hand it in a day late...

Ya, do it yourself. Just tell your teacher that she didn't do any of the work. And your friend already has an F, she probably won't care. Good luck and get better!
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♥ Erin

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ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!

A guy shouldn't make you cut yourself. You need to just forget about him, and you'll stop hurting. Try hanging around other guys, because that way, you'll forget about him faster. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I took like a week break from gymnastics and now I am going back tomorrow with a bunch of cuts on my wrist because I slit my wrists a few times over the week. I didn't think I was going to go back to gymnastics and I'm still not sure but I might and everyone will see the cuts and they're going to wonder what they are. I don't think they will believe it's from my cat. What should I say? I can't wear bracelets or anything over them that is noticable because we're not supposed to. Help!! How do I hide them?

Put concealer on them first, and then put powder over top. That'll cover them up for awhile. Bring extra in case it wears off. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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ok there is a girl at my school that is like stealing my bestfriends and my best friends dont no it i feel like im a sucky friend and i dont no what to do they spend less time with me and like when i try to make plans with them they end up doing it but not with me but with the other girl i just cant take it anymore they treat me like crap and i dont no what to do i need help!!!!!!!

female 13

Try talking to them about how you feel. No one should be treating you like this. If it continues, you have to find better friends, because they're not being good friends at all. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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im doing 300-600 sit ups a day is this bad 4 me?thanx

Well, ya it is. You should really only start with 20-30 a day, and then increase the number as you get more used to it, but 300-600 is really bad for you. You shouldn't overexert yourself. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!

I think he likes you. If he always told you who he liked, but not anymore, it's cuz that someone is you! Those little random things he says, he might be trying to give you hints, so talk to him about it! Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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i have this friend. shes nothing like me, and follows me around everywhere. i've tried to deal with it, but its really annoying. ive told her several times how i felt , but she still follows me and stuff. i guess i kinda feel sorry for her. only im tired of it. should i move on?

She's probably just lonely and needs friends. Try introducing her to more people, so she won't be following you around everywhere. Cuz that's so annoying, I know how ya feel. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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i have this friend named amy, she always brags how skinny she is and if shes one pound over she says shes fat. all my friends say im to skinny, but i think im fine. amy always jokes around with me , like saying " your fat..and stuff. and it really makes me mad. i told her how i felt many times, but its like she forgets and does it so often.now my friends are saying i look too skinny. what should i tell amy.

Try writing her a note and tell her that you're freaking serious when you tell her it makes you mad. If she doesn't stop, I would suggest finding better friends, because she's not really being one.. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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Okay i'm a 17 year old female and i'm a senior in high school!!
Well I kind of think i have a problem... i freak out over the littlest things! It's so horrible, like for example this morning my mom wouldn't let me drive her car somewhere where i wanted to go (mind you i have my own car anyways) and i got so pissed i started yelling at her and got all mad. I tend to do this a lot and i sometimes i get so frustrated like when she says okay this is done or something i'll start crying becuase its almost like i like to argue or i just want her to tell me i'm right or something i can't explain it. She always tells me that she thinks i have a problem and i tell her that i agree and that i kind of think i need help or something but then she just kind of blows it off. I am a really sweet girl and i'd do anything in the world for anyone but i get so mad about the tiniest things? Is there something wrong with me? and how can i talk to my mom about this so that she takes me seriously about me needing help?

Ya, I know what you mean, I'm 16 and do like, do the same thing. It's normal, cuz you're just going through puberty and stuff. Just write your mom a note or an email saying how you feel. This is what I do, and it works like a charm! Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I was wpndering how you did your backround on your column like that and how you added all that stuff. Do you have to be a paid member? Thanx xoxo - KrIsSy*

Nope, you don't have to be a paid member, I got most of the stuff here: http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx#text I got my backround here: http://www.geocities.com/icingchills/backrounds.html
And I got my cursor here: http://www.diamondrains.com/main.html
That's it!
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♥ Erin

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I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH!

Try asking a dermotoligist. It might be an allergic reaction. Use vaseline in the meantime, it works wonders. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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Hey, does anyone know any websites that have step by step instructions that show you how to dance?

Here's a good website I found on Google for ya: http://www.bustamove.com/
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♥ Erin

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14 female (sry if its confusing)

1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me

Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high)

Just try to move on. It's hard, but this happens a lot. Just try to flirt with other guys and get to know them. Once you're around more guys, you'll forget about him. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don

Well, maybe instead of candy, eat yogurt and fruit instead. Just eat healther and exercise a little more. Do about 20-30 situps, pushups, and crunches before you go to bed. Good luck!
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♥ Erin

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