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my dad and my grades =(
my grades are so low....and im in the highest program at my school and its too hard for me...ive always had good grades till now...im doing my homework and everything but i dont know..im not understanding ANYTHING...ive talked to my mom about and today she talked to my dad but he started yelling saying im on the computer too much and talking on the phone too late and my social life is taking over and he wont let me change out of the program...he said hes not gonna let me see my boyfriend *of 6 months* anymore..=\...wut do i do im so upset? he said hes gonna have a talk with me tonight..(hes not mean hes just strict about my grades/school
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i tottaly understand that, just relise its not the end of the world and that its just like this year and its half way over of ebing in this stistion things should not chnage with you and your boyfriend its just this come sfirst and you need to egt your school stuff done first, my dad is excalty like that and if idont makes grades im like dead and i get the phone and computer talk like ALL the time i know its hard but w/e dont let things like that get to you just know that it will get better! just try and work hard so he'll get off your back!
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No matter what, the majority of the population will have that one class that will kick your ass in your grades. I know, I'm having mine right now. All I can say is do your best in the class and don't give up. Maybe you're just having a bad six weeks? Also, set a goal for yourself. I had like a 76 in the class and raised it 7 points to an 83. I was pretty proud of myself considering that is a significant raise in grade. All of my other grades are A's by the way and I'm in all advanced. Don't let the computer take over your life, it's nice to have every once in a while. And maybe consult friends that are on the internet about assignments you have in that class. I know that if everyone is confused, and everyone is making a bad grade, I feel a lot better because I'm not the dumb bunny in the class.
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Tell him that you're doing your homework, but you just don't get anything. See if maybe he'll help you to understand everything. Just remember to tell him that your social life has nothing to do with your grades. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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Try to explain to him that it doesn't have anything to do with your social life. Your just not ready for the work that you have in front of you. Tell him that you work your ass off, and its not getting you anywhere. Just tell him that as long as you have classes like that.. then those are the grades that he should get use to! then see what happens
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Does he have a point? If you are struggling, could part of it be your social life IS getting in the way, or have you spent more time on your social life because you've given up on your school work? Think about that before your dad starts talking to you about it. I was in high level classes and had to drop out, but mine was due to depression not social life. I was able to pick some of them back up later. Is there some kind of tutoring/mentoring program you can get into to help you understand the course work? Sometimes getting someone else's perspective helps alot. Good luck!
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