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Booty
Somethimes i feel like my boyfriend is only with me to get booty . I dont know what to do cause I really love him and I dont know if I should tell him how I feel. Please Help!!!!!!
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All the time I was going out with my boyfriend, I thought he was with me just for making out and stuff. Yesterday he broke up with me and even though inside I'm dying because of the pain, I know I'm better off and I know I was right, all he wanted was my body. Why am I telling you this? Because I know exactly what it is like. I tried talking to Jon when I felt like you do now and he promised he liked me for my personality, not just my body. You should talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him how you feel but if you still feel like this afterwards, then I would break up with him. I know it sounds hypocritical because I felt that way and I didn't break up with Jon but I should have. It would have saved so much hurt and pain. I'm not saying it wont be painful if you do but you can get over that pain. Go with your heart.
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Why is it that you think he's only with you for "booty" as you put it? Cuz yall are havin' sex? well here's a clue, don't give him none for a while and see if he stays around! Good Luck!
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stop giving him booty and see if he's stil around!
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If you're worried about it, the first thing you need to do is talk to him. Explain to him what you're feeling and why you feel this way, if you have reasons. If you don't have reasons, let him know that too. He can't know there's a problem if you don't tell him, and I assume you do want this fixed, right? Just talk to him. When there are things you're worried about, the first step to solving the problem is talking about it. You've gotta always let people know when something bothers you. I learned the hard way. Don't make the same mistakes I did. ^_^
Hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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tell him you dont want to do anything besides make out anymore. If he says anything or even hints at pressuring he is. I told my bf i didnt want to do anything besides make out. He was like ok and never even asked why. That is what I call love.
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WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T JUMP INTO CONCLUSIONS! If you like him, don't dump him or anything until you find out that what you think is true. Don't let him do some of the things he wants to do to you or with you and if he really does like you, then he will stay, but if not, then he is a bastard.
Good Luck,
obabisocute
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Well, I will have to edmit.. If he is, he is not the only one. There is so many guys out there for just a piece of ass. Don't let them get to you. The best way to find out is don't give him what he wants and see if he stays with you, or else talk to him. If he cares about you and wants to be with you for who you are, than he will stay with you no matter if he gets some ass or not. And also talk to him tell him how you feel, You know for a fact he will not tell you the truth but you can get a pretty good view of it if you find out his reactions towards it. If you need anymore help, contact me by leaving one in my inbox! - good luck! - CaitLynn
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Well, talk to him about it, but if he says he loves you and not for your booty, then believe him. Just be careful about it. If you really think that's all he wants, dump him. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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talk to him and ask him whats the real reason he is w/ you and if he can't be honest then he doesn't deserve you. he might just be using you for a booty call or something and that is not cool. all i can say is talk to him and use the right kinda of judgement.
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