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hey. my name is sam. i love music and my friends. feel free to ask me anything, even if its stupid. maybe not that stupid...oh and if you add me as a favorite, tell me so i can add you back! =]
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?
i would get an abortion or put it up for adoption. if you do keep it, get the father involved. just call his parents. dont worry. he agreed to have sex too so they cant blame it on you. good luck
ok so i was talkin to my ex n he told me to listen to a song n thats what he wants in life....the song is swing life away by rise against.....the he IMed me n said "we live on front porches and swing life away"...anybody know what the song means or what that verse above means?
thanks
i think it means that your just sitting around thinking of what to do instead of getting out there and doing it. good luck...
does anyone know what the best hours to tan are
thanks in advance
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well it doesnt really matter as long as the suns out. normally i tan in the afternoon. the clouds dont block the suns rays, so you can get a tan even when its not directly on you. hope i helped!
15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks
well if he trys to kiss you, make it short and just pull away. hes not going to attack yuo again if you pull away. lol
I'm never really sure what to say to the question "I love your shoes! Where did you get them?" or any other clothing item because I really don't want to say anything to incriminate me. The popular kids will laugh if you answer anything like "target", "payless shoe store", or some other department store, and the kids that I'm friends with call me stupid if I tell them that I bought them at Hollister. What is a generic answer that I can say that will satisfy everyone?
i would say that "my friend got them for me" or "its my little secret" lol (im trying here!)
hope i helped!
My brother is 12 years old. A couple years back, we would always get into fights and I would always yell at him back. He would just take it in, or cry. Lately, everytime we get into a fight..he get's VERY physical and will fight for whatever he says! He is very violent..(he will climb on you and jump and scratch the heck out of you)It's starting to scare me because I can't even yell over him anymore. He's only 12 and I think he needs anger management! My parents think it's my fault because I make him mad first..but the only reason I yell at him is to set him right. He is VERY out of control when he's mad and he cries ALOT. Please give advice.. i don't know how to take this anymore..(I would hit and scratch him back..but that would only make the problem worse and he would keep on persisting to claw me out)..I'm a 16\F by the way. Thanks..I rate
i would ignore it at first, but if that doesnt work, talk to your parents and dont stop until they realize that its really bothering you. :) good luck!
We just moved from Oregon to California and we have all this winter clothes. I think we are haivng a garage sale next week. The problem is, I don't know how to price my items! They may be used, but they are in excellent condition. We have many different brands from gap to abercrombie to bcbg! How should I price my clothes??-I paid good money for it!
umm i wouldnt price the things too high or else no one will buy them. but the $1 range (sometimes even less) is typical for clothes. hope i helped!
ive had aboyfriend for 17 years and i think hes is going to dump me tonight or he might keep me should i be nervouse
i dont know your situation, but you should probably not jump to conclusions. you may not be the problem. just talk to him about your feelings, and if he doesnt wanna talk, ask later. its better for him to be ready to talk than be annoyed with you.
~sam
well, about a year ago, i got hit by a car and broke my thigh bone, the doctor put two screws in it.. recently, the doctor told me i had to go into day sergery to get them out, i asked what it was, i he sed that you had to be awake throughout the whole entire thing! i got so scared... should i go though it, cuz he sed i have a choice, does it hurt alot?? help!
i know what its like to have metal in you. lol, but the doctor will give you pain medicine and numming stuff. you wont be able to feel it. its better to have them out now instead of being at risk later. and unless you dont travel, its a pain to be searched at an airport.
~sam
Well, I've hardly been eating ANYTHING lately. And when I do, it's small doses of like...carrot sticks or something. I've been loosing weight and everything. I don't think I'm fat and all that, I don't even want to be on some stupid diet. I want to eat, but everytime I try, I get sick if I eat too much. Should I see a doctor? Or is this normal for a girl my age?
13.f.
ritalin or adderral can make u not wanna eat. Adderral made me anorexic but luckily i was caught soon enough.
Hey i have blonde hair about halfway down my back and i've been thinking about getting cut just for a change. Dose anyone have any ideas what hairstyles might look good?ThAnKs!
If ur hair is flat, Get layers
Angled hair always looks nice
I have a few questions about getting shiney hair.
1. Does icy cold water really help make your hair shiney?
2. Are there any other techniques that help make your hair shiney?
3. What are some good products?
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Ive tried to whole cold and icey water. It doesnt work. Theres is this product that i use. Its called Biosilk-Silk Therapy. Only Use a small drop! It make ur hair shiney and silkey. It smells good too!
If u have dark hair i wouldnt recommend using it a lot. Dark hair can look shiney as it is.
~sammy
okay...all my friends tell me that i'm turning punk little by little...and most of my friends are punk. i listen to punk and am starting to dress punk too. if i totally change my style over christmas break do u think that the people in my school will call me a poser? i'm 13/f in 8th grade. thx...*changing*
Okay. This is a hard one to tell u but yes, they will think your a poser. If u suddenly turn into punk, People will naturally think that ur just being a fake. Change ur style little by little. Start off with a shirt by a band u like then wear black pants, then earings, then shoes...I think u get the idea. Hope this helps a bit!
~sammy
For the past few monthes i have gone through a lot. Family problems, friend problems, school problems...etc etc etc. All i have really wanted is someone to hold me and be there for me (to put it plainly i really want a bf) Just so he can be there for me to tell me its ok. Friends are great to have and all but i want someone to hold me when i need them. My problem is i can't seem to get guys to like me. My friends say i am really pretty and i have everything it takes to get a guy. But for some reason i can't get a guy. Could someone please tell me what to do? :-/
I know how u feel. Ive had a LOT of family problems and ive been in and out of hospitals the past year. I know what its like to be alone. Guys are attracted to confidence. Don't be so worried about how u look. They like it when a girl can beat them at sports.If u know where theres gonna be a lot of guys from school, go to football games and stuff. Don't just come out and say something about your problem. He will think u need too much attention. If hes not interested, dont feel down. Just move on and try someone else. Dont make it too obvious though! Hope this helps!
~sammy