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My name is Ryan. And I will answer most everything you want to ask to the best of my God given ability.But I will not sugar coat any answer and I will give MY advice. I don't care about my ratings, so don't think giving me a 1 for an answer you don't want to hear will scare me. And if you already know what you should do about a sitaution, don't come to us here at advicenators asking for a second opinion. And here below is a list of questions you should NOT ask on advicenators. Granted some of them may vary and be acceptable, but overall don't ask the below questions on Advicenators.
**Don't ask questions like "OMG i heard this song on the radio with "insert pointless pop lyrics here" and i wanna know what it is so what is it! Thanks!! I rate 5sssss! hearts". This question can be simply googled with the lyrics, or you need only ask a friend
**Don't ask "ok so there is the hott guy/gal in my class and he/she like got me a *insert gift or simple trinket here* do you think he/she likes me?" This is the most common question here on this website sadly. Unless it is vitally important and actually pertains to a feeling of true feelings, don't ask it. This is most asked by teens. And what teens need to learn is "love" is not thinking a guy/girl is sweet and hott and nice. I know love, and it is so far from all those things. Remember Cicero when he said "Out of all the emotions, love is the most violent. Love is madness."
**"Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and we like used no protection omg he came in me do you think i am pregnant?" Ugh. Stupid teens and their hormones. IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ALWAYS RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY, UNLESS YOUR STERILE. And if you don't know anything about sex, you shouldn't be doing it. Even if you "love" your partner, half the time this is a disallusion and you will end up hurt. Sex is for marriage.
**Or asking what's "in" for fashion, or what they should wear out tonight. Or what is "cute" and what looks good. Pick and choose for yourself what you like, think for yourself instead of trying to let other people do it for you. Stand up and be yourself.
These are the most common questions I have seen on Advicenators. Now there are a few questions that are very good questions and deserve the 3 rating and the best answer possible. But they are usually blocked out with the kinds of questions listed above. If you want to ask something, check the following off that I am listing.
1.Does the question pertain to anything important or trivial?
2.Is proper grammar used?
3.Is the question long and in one paragraph?
4.Is it a question that you yourself can answer?
5.Is there enough detail?
Following those 5 guidelines, you can write a good 3 point answer. That about wraps it up.
I spend alot of time online and here on advicenators, so if you ever need anything then just send something in my inbox or IM me. I'm not opposed to helping people at all, in fact I love doing it. I just want some people to wake up from asking a stupid question.
Thank you all for your time.
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my name is Leah and I REALLY need your advice! Ok, so me and my bf Jacob have been going out for almost a year now. our aniversery is on the 11 of May. and i love him so so so so so so much. i know you hear that from alot of teens and they dont mean it but i do. he's nice, smart, cute, freindly, sweet, and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me. the first like....5 months we started going out we really rough. we didnt seem to even like eachother but then we started changing for the better and fell in love. we're both happier than weve ever been. but the thing is when we go to highschool their are going to be alot of girls who want to go out with him and alot of cute guys. im so scared as to what will happen. he told me that he would never break up with me but i dont know. in your opinion do you think we can make it through high school? were going to the same one but its a HUGE highschool and we wont have any classes together. is their any advice you could give me? also, do you have any gift ideas for our aniversery? i want to get him something REALLY special. i dont care how much it cost or anything. PLEASE HELP I SWEAR ILL WRITE FEEDBACK AND RATE A 5!! (link)
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You know you don't have to rate 5's or give feedback, I don't care at all about my ratings.
For gift ideas, I have absolutely no idea what you should get him. I know nothing of his likes, dislikes, etc, so I couldn't give you anything close to a good answer.
As for the highschool issue. If your both true to each other, then there should be no issue there. I can understand your concern, but like I said, if you are both true to one another, then there will be nothing that will seperate you. It is a matter of trust, and as long as it is there between both of you, you'll be fine no matter what happens.
Just don't let the social, academic, and personal things in highschool affect you too much to the point you will forget things. Stay true to him and you'll be fine.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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okay, so i found this site and thouhgt it would be fun to try. i got a couple people hooked on it. but now people are doing it just for like popularity. it really bugs me. and now no one comes to me for advice anymore - and i used to have alot. is there anything i can do about this? please any ideas. (link)
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Give advice to what you think should be done, because it is YOUR advice to be giving.
Don't worry about your ratings, and give the best answer no matter how much the truth hurts. Keep doing this and people will see you as a solid columnist.
It is the way you should give advice.
-Ryan
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Okay what is pet cemetary about? I saw the movie last halloween at a party and i still don't get it. All I know was a rat popped out when this guy was taking a bath and a woman hung herself. I also remember a bus going back and forth on the street. Why is this? Please don't give me a summary just paraphrase it. Thank you so much and you are giving everyone here great advice!
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The choices people make that ultimately lead to a regretful decision and the influences they have that also contribute to that ultimate ending.
The movie for the most part is true to the book. Although I am still trying to remember the parts with a rat and a woman hanging herself from the book, I don't think they are in there. And there really wasn't a bus anywhere, the Creed family lived next to a busy road used by trucks, so perhaps that is what is is alluring to.
If you want to know anything else about the book, I would be happy to explain any of it. It is one of my favorite Stephen King books so I have read it a few times.
I hope I helped. And you should really read the book if you saw the movie. It is a pretty easy read at about 374 pages, with a very suspensful climax.
-Ryan
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Im a 16 year old boy who doesn't want sex....at all i have a girlfriend and i guess she expects me to be perverted maybe because her other boy friends were. Im a virgin shes not.She be offering me oral sex but i don't want it.then she calls me gay and all these other homo names.
I was raised on not being able to see people kiss at all if i said sex i was slapped,and i never seen a womans vagina ((Porn)) until i was 15 and I gagged when i seen it.Is this normal? am I gay? (link)
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No your not gay.
Your just somewhat out of the ordinary. Because most teens today really in all honesty, want to satisfy their hormones and do whatever to do it.
If your girlfriend is calling you homo name and gay, tell her off. And then you should probably think about getting her away from you. It is your choice to obstain, not hers.
If it is any conslodation to prove your not gay, I am about the same way. I don't want sex or anything to do with it right now, nor could I care less what people think about me because of it and guess what, I'm 16 guy as well. And I am 100% sure I am NOT gay.
Keep your beliefs, and don't let people change them.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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i feel all weird when im around the guy i like. i always stare at him and i look forward to go to school just to see him but when im around him i cant breathe and my stomach goes all funny. the other day there was even a big misunderstanding because of this lol. could i be in love?????
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To understand love, takes a great deal of person meditation and a very deep care and devotion for the person you love.
Your not in love. I don't need to read anymore to tell that this is nothing more than you just probably "like" this guy and enjoy his company.
This is my sincere advise. Of course I cannot be completely right since I am not you.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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Okay here it is. Im the popular girl in school, and alot of guys think im hot. Oh yah,and please dont answer this if you are just going to say im a bitch or something.Yes,i am hot and pretty and im pretty much use to all the boys wanting me. But there is this girl in my school,a wannabe me. She got the exact same haircut as mine the other day!Can you say:BITCH!!! i know! Anyway,theres this HOTT guy and he barley knows her but he thinks she is hot.GRRR. This is a major problem if you are me! I dont share! Does any one know what i can do to you know well...get him away from her?Im so mad! Shes ugly but im not going to lie,has a nice body.I know people say you dont like someone because of there looks but,i mean come on! One thing i dont do is lie,and beleive me im not lieing SHES UGLY. Sad to day,for her anyway,a few people think so too. Im going to get this guy no matter how much it takes no matter how much clevage because people!, I had a dream that one day ugly people and pretty people(*Me*) do not mix! And i need your help. Maybe you think im concieded so what,if you are too you will probably be able to help! Thanks!I Rate!!!HIGH! ANSWER FAST! Time is wasting :/ (link)
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I completely and 100% agree with missmoo.
Why are you even asking me this question? Big woop she has the same haircut. BIG DEAL! You realize there are over 6 Billion people in this world, and there are bound to be people with the same hairstyles, clothing sense, tastes of things, etc. Get over yourself.
Second, do you understand the word "pompus". To cut it short it is self glorification and you have alot of it from what I read. Let her be. Big deal she has the attention of a guy you think is hott. It's his choice, not yours. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, not in the eye of the next person.
Please consider your life right now. Like what missmoo said, where do you see yourself in say..5 years? 10 years? In the REAL world, people do NOT CARE how pretty and popular you are. And you will NOT get far in life with the attitude you have.
And what is with your "I have a dream of one day ugly people and pretty people (*ME*) do not mix". Go live a day in the real world and see how far you get with that attiude. And then promptly lose it and forget it, because everyone is both ugly and beautiful in their own right.
Oh, and by the way, when you say "The one thing I don't do is lie" is a lie in itself. From everything I read, everything in that was a lie, other than you thinking people might think you conceited, because I think you are from everything I read.
As a lasting note, grow up and change your attitude. This question got me really fired up because I cannot STAND people like you, who think themselves better because of popularity and looks and the like, and consider those not popular and blessed by God with good looks to be of a lesser class. So that is why you have been bashed.
Sincerly,
Ryan
P.S. I don't care about my ratings. I come to this site to help people, and often times the truth hurts.
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Why is sex a sin? I know that its not a sin if your jewish, so why is it when your cathlic? (link)
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Sex was set up by God.
It is peoples perversions that make alot of it sinful. God ordained marriage between a man and a woman and included sex as one of the benefits. Sex itself is NOT sinful, it is peoples sin and perversions that make it that way.
And where did you get it is not a sin of your jewish? Christians and Jews have the same God, the only difference is Christians believe in the promise of the messiah, promised by God, was fulfilled in Christ Jesus. Jews do not believe the messiah has come yet.
I'm interested to know where you got that info.
I hope I helped, and I answered your question.
-Ryan
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what's the da vinci code? everyone was talking about it, and now theres a movie. what is it?
thanks xo (link)
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i have a girlfriend and we have done smooches and physical contacts. but she isnt ready to do sex. tell me what shud i do to make her do so with me?????? (link)
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Screw off, that is what you should do.
It's obvious you don't care much for her and more about getting sex. She doesn't want it, and no means no, so deal.
Get over it and grow up.
-Ryan
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hey i am a wheetish coloured boy and i wanna look sexy hot and white. tell me what hsould i do to look white and sexy??????
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I will concur with the columnist before me.
This is a website for advice, you are asking flat out how to be a certain way. Why do you want us to tell you? Do you want your life run by other people?
Find your own path.
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17f. Ok heres the deal, i'm sorta talking to this guy and we're getting really close and everything but we're not actually together. We have all the elements of a relationship just without the title. But because we dont have that title we're not technically together and i just wanted to know since we're not together would it be wrong for us to have sex. It hasn't really come up as an issue yet but i don't really wanna get myself in a predicament that i'm not sure of. (link)
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If your questioning it and wondering about it, and if you have to come to us here on advicenators for this choice, you don't need to be having sex.
Simple as that. Don't do it if your in question.
-Ryan
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Dear Advicenators,
I want to get my belly button pierced so bad (for my 8th grade graduation) but my mom says no. I don't know what I can say to convence her that I really want this, and will do anything to get it.
What can I tell her to convince her to let me get it peirced? My dad will accept if she accepts, but I already brought up thae fact of good grades, good friends, and I dont' know what else to say! Thanks for the advive.
-Krys (link)
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Ignore the what the person below me said, using forced tactics will never get you want you want, it's only going to get you in trouble.
Have you tried compromising or negotiation on any of this? Ask her what it is gonna take for her to approve it. And if she is still saying no, there isn't anything you can do about it. I know that is not what you want to hear, but it is true. But atleast try to negiotiate for it, I'm sure you both can reach something.
It's a valid question, and I hope I helped. Good luck.
-Ryan
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ok so what are some really cute love quotes.. or sweet ones...pllllllease. kthx. (link)
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Simple as that.
Or here is one I like.
"Out of all the emotions, none is more violent than love. Love is madness." - Cicero
Increadibly true.
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Hey Im making a CD to go with my friends birthday presents with a song by each of her fave bands, I listen to most of them but not Nirvana, can someone tell me the best Nirvana song in thier opinion....thanks xx (link)
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In Bloom
and Heart Shaped Box.
Two of my favorites. Of course, I could list countless more by Nirvana, since they had a long list of good songs..
RIP Kurt
-Ryan
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ok i keep getting these emails from Chase saying my chase bank account has been violated...the only problem is I dont have a chase bank account. Im not even old enough to have a bank account! IM 13! I suspect phishing becuase I got like 6 emails from them at the same time once saying someone tried to acsess my account, and then the first one I got from them saying my account has been violated, they spelled "been" wrong. I have yahoo, and i flagged all the emails I got. What else can I do? I have gotten a phishing email before, from someone claiming to be from eBay. ♥♥&heart;s (link)
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I receive the same emails..........
Just ignore them and delete them, they are nothing more than scammers.
Good luck, and don't believe a word they say.
-Ryan
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Okay, well, I recently tried to install the Sims game on my computer, but it keeps being retarded and it says my computer doesn't have enough memory or hard drive room or something. But we deleted all the things with a lot of room so there's more than enough room for a game that's only 2.06 MG. So what's wrong with it? I really want to play the Sims too. It's my favorite game. And don't reccomend getting a new computer because that's out of the question. And I don't want Sims for PS2 or PSP or anything. Thanks. (link)
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Have you tried disk defragmentation?
When you delete things constantly (and especially in large amounts), a kind of "trash" will be left behind. The more things that are cycled through your computer, the more this builds up, causing your computer to run slower and unnecessary lose of space on your computer. I would suggest trying to do this first.
Then also you might want to consider spyware. You would be wise to run some spycheckers and see if there are any on your computer. Because they will cause the unnecessary lose of space as well.
Then you might have forgotten to empty the reclye bin, which would leave the memory intact if you havn't emptied it.
Although....your computer might be refering to virtual memory. There might now be enough RAM left to play the game. In that case, if there isn't enough RAM left to play the game, you need either have to go out and get an upgrade on RAM, or run less programs while playing Sims, because the more programs you run, the more virtual memory it takes up.
Btw, what is 2.06 MG? I'm not familiar with it...
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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My friend and I were choosen the student directors of our middle school drama club, and we have to cast the parts for our two skits on Tuesday. This is my first time casting and directing without anyone above me. Anyways, I was wondering if anyone has casted a play before and how they specificaly chose the parts. By the way, this is not a musical. (link)
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How well the person fits into the "feel" of the character they are trying out for.
Are their lines dull? Dramatic? Over-dramatic? Calm? Is the person nervous or excited? Look for all of these things. Don't pick favorites, if your best friend is up their trying for the lead and there is another girl up there who is better acting but you don't know her as well, don't just cast your friend as the lead.
Take everything into consideration. Consider body movements and expressions when people read their lines. You can often tell how bad someone wants the part just by their determination.
Also, some people just are "born" to play some roles and you can tell right away who they are. Say a very funny person wants the part of some kind of fool? They would be alot better for the part than a serious person.
And most of all, go with gut instinct and feeling. If you think someone would just be GREAT for a part, then go with it.
I hope I helped, good luck with your casting! I'm sure you will do fine!
-Ryan
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i like this boy. hes sooo cute and nice and just plain out perfect for me. we get along really well and we talk online like everyday. i like him so much. but i dont think he is interested. i think he just wants to be friends and i cant stand it. i flirt with him as much as i can without going overboard. i always invite him to hang out to, he always says maybe but then we never do. i dont know what to do. when i asked him if he liked anybody, he said "eh idk. kinda..but not really" ahhh what can i do? (link)
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Lay off?
As said many times before, you can't ever force someone to like you. You must deal with your own feelings and sort them so you can work through them.
He may be perfect for YOU, but you may not be perfect for HIM.
I hope I helped, and please sort out your emotions before they carry you away. Good luck.
-Ryan
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I had oral sex with my bf where he has played on with his figers, and it now i have missed out my periods the last time i had periods is on 3/04/06.
what i am worried about is i had an injuction by which i must get the periods in one hour after i had but its already 38 hours. i am very tensed on that help me out plz (link)
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I say this to anyone who asks "can I get pregnant from.." kind of questions.
You can ONLY get pregnant if semen enters the vagina. And on the side note, if you don't know anything about sex or the risks, then you shouldn't be doing it, simple as that.
-Ryan
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ok well i just got my ipod today. . and well i dont know how to upload songs to it and transfer it to my ipod. i installed the itunes and stuff but i dont know how to go from there. i have a video ipod so can anyone help me?
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Your iPod did come with a manual correct?
SO USE IT.
It is simple plug and play. Use the USB 2.0 data cord and do what your instructions tell you, it's extremely simple.
-Ryan
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