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i have a girlfriend and we have done smooches and physical contacts. but she isnt ready to do sex. tell me what shud i do to make her do so with me??????
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You should not at anytime make her do anything she is uncomfortable with. It will put up untrusting walls faster than anything else. Talk to her about (yes i just said talk to her) like really talk to her. Find out her opinion and feelings on sex. It might be that she doesn't want to have sex until she is married or it might be just first time with you jitters. Talk to her, but do not pressure her into it. (and you might want to say during your talk that you don't want to pressure her into it. just fyi)
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You know, I don't think it's a true relationship if what you want from her is sex and you are on here to figure out a way for her to give it.
I do think that if she hasn't given it to you yet, she just isn't ready to do that. &I think you should respect that .. because with respect comes trust .. &with trust comes you two agreeing on more thing .. sex may be one eventually. Just keep talking to her about it.
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ok, well you can't do anything to MAKE her, because this is a big step and if she is not ready, she is not ready. im sorry but you can't change that!
i realize that sex isn't that big of a deal for guys, so to you it may seem like nothing but it means a LOT to girls.
also, if she is not ready for sex, then she is not ready for the responsibilities that come along with sex! obviously the biggest problem is pregnancy... there is a chance that she can get pregnant, and i can guarantee you that she is in no way ready for that!
lastly, why would you want to have sex with someone if they don't feel comfortable doing it right now? the whole purpose of it is for 2 people to share their love for one another... it's a way of expressing emotions! the reason it feels so good is because you know you are also making someone else feel good, not just yourself! if she is not ready, then it won't feel good for her, and as a result it won't feel as good for you!
if you force her to do this or talk her into it somehow, she will regret it because she's not ready for it, and it will ruin your entire relationship... i guarantee it! so what's more important to you? getting layed and then losing your gf, or respecting her wishes, making her happy and keeping her around to make you happy? it's your call! :)
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Buy her a vacuum cleaner.
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You cant MAKE her do anything you jerk. if she isnt ready she isnt ready, and you obviously dont care about her if you want to force her into it.
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Apparently, if you care for your girlfriend no more than that you need to grow up and find someone else..Prostitute maybe?
NO means NO
-GD
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If she isn't ready, she isn't ready. Girls respect guys who wait. When she is ready, she will want to have sex. Wait for her! Have respect! Girls <3 that.
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just like what most of them said, if shes not ready then shes not ready. You can wait or leave her. If you really love her, you would wait. If you dont, then you won't feel bad when you leave her.
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-brittany
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First of all, FUCK YOU YOU IMMATURE BASTARD. I don't care how you rate me, that's immature and stupid. If she says no, it means no. If you aren't mature enough to know that no means no, then you DEFINITELY aren't mature enough to be having sex.
Grow up.
♥ Melissa
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Screw off, that is what you should do.
It's obvious you don't care much for her and more about getting sex. She doesn't want it, and no means no, so deal.
Get over it and grow up.
-Ryan
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I don't know what you should do, but I have a good idea of her best course of action, which would be to dump you. You don't "make" someone have sex with you: you wait until they're ready and willing. Anything else makes you a jerk who doesn't deserve a girlfriend. Guys like you make me sick, my first boyfriend had exactly your attitude and let me tell you, it wasn't that long before I dumped his sorry ass.
I smell a 1 here, but frankly my dear I couldn't give a f*ck. Come back to us when you've grown up a bit(which probably means never-Yay!)
Good luck!
Lucretia.
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Dump her and find someone with a weaker will.
Your girlfriend isn't ready for sex. That means No Sex For You.
Deal with it or dump her.
If you pressure her into sex just because you are a horny little turd I hope her 200 pound daddy hunts you down and pounds you into the ground. Even if he doesn't, your relationship will never last after you make her go agianst what it is she wants.
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