OK, I got this problem with my guy pal, "BoB"... He is super duper nice, and I really think that if someone asked he would give them his right arm, but "Bob" can also be annoying as h***!!! And he is so clueless about when he is being annoying, so I give him some slack...but I did something that upset him, and he's forgiven me now, but I need help...see, the most annoying thing "Bob" does is he absolutely LOVES having his picture made...which would be ok, except that whenever he gets his picture made, he gives EVERYBODY copies, and now I have more pics of him than I currently have of my own boyfriend, my folks, and my bro COMBINED!!! And "Bob"'s poor g.f. "Meg" has had to devote 2 entire dresser drawers to her ever increasing collection of "Bob" pics. We've tried talking to him, but nothing has slowed the avanlanche of pics rushing forth from him. So, when he gave me one a few months ago, I threw it in the little trash in the girl's restroom where I thought no one would see it, kinda to protect Bob's privacy, ya know? Well, someone not only saw it, but they turned it over and told Bob about the message he had written me on the back. So Bob got really mad, and didn't speak to me for a few months, which really sucked b/c Bob's the only one of us with a car & license right now, and while we all kinda feel like we take advantage of Bob, he has repeatedly said that it's a trde-off, we get to go places and do stuff, and Bob has friends, so it's all good. So, now, Bob has forgiven me and all, but once again, I'm trapped in a downpour of Bob pics...so how I can get rid of them where nobody will know? I would torch them, but my house burned down when I was 5, so I am really scared of fire...
No matter how much you dont like to recieve pictures of him i would still take the pictures maybe but a photo album or even suggest to him that you'd like a photo album of course a big big one to put all his pictures in cause you got em tossed somewhere and you dont want to get em ruined.. i meani know you dont want him mad at you again and you dont want to hurt his feelings.. i dont know if you liked my advice but i tried.. ♥ Dez
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Whats the best way for a guy to masturbate? (that doesnt involve buying anything)
using his hand.. ♥ Dez
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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?
Most people know when the time is right.. ♥ Dez sorry i didnt help much..
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Okay, i need help, well I have a myspace and my boyfriend does too. and he comments on some of my friends myspace's saying that they have a nice ass, and look hot etc. but when i confronted him about this he said "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." and i forgave him .. but now i found another one of my friends on myspace and she is flashing the camera and he said. nice pic. then commented again and said take off the bra lol j/p.....but the thing is i dont think he was just kidding. i mean wow .. i didnt know he was like that before i started going out with him? i dont know.. but can you guys help? please?
okay i know what you mean.. my boyfriend comments my friends not on my space or even in person but to my own face and i complained and bitched and eventually he stopped.. he said he was sorry for ever lookin at my friends like that he loves me.. so on so on.. i would suggest talking to him about it and how you feel about it.. ♥ Dez
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I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering?
my mom got a divorce.. well she had to sell our old house and neither one of them got the house but they split the money.. my mom got the kids but that cause he's an alcoholic and drug user and only lived in a half way house, i would think cause he's in the Army you'd get the kids **if you have children** i think who evers name cetain things were in you'd get and some he'd get.. the courts will figure it all out.. ♥ Dez
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Me and my friend have been best friends forever! She reccently had a sleepover and when we were there we prank phonecalled a boy who likes me at 2 in the morning, even though he didn't even care that we did. Well her mom found out and got really mad...now I'm afraid to ask my friend to hang out with me over the summer because I'm afraid that my mom will find out and I'm afraid of my friends mom. So what should I do?
dont worry about it she probably forgot about it by now.. girls always do things like that its fun.. just call your friend.. ♥ Dez
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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance
well theres alot of things to do at camp keep busy.. ♥ Dez
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is there a cure for pubic lice?
go to a pharmacy and ask for something over the counter they'll give it too you.. ♥ Dez
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My boyfriend isn't very talkative. Even before we admitted to having feelings for eachother, I was always the one to pursue the conversation. We're going out tonight & I'm worried we'll totally run out of things to talk about. Can anyone help me out with some topics to bring up? By the way, we don't go to the same school. Thank you!
~Allie
Ask him about school.. ask about things at home like how some family is doing that you kinda know about.. if he likes sports try to talk about em.. most guys like sports lol.. compliment him on something he's wearin.. clothing or colonge.. ♥ Dez
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i no this is a stupid question and i should no but how do you give head and doggy style?
plz no stupid ass answers i really wanna no
~*i rate high*~
giving head is suckin a guys dick.. its also known as givin oral so you know you do it with you mouth.. doggy style is when a girl is bend over and the guy is behind them and doin them.. they do a girl in the vagina some people think doggy style is gettin done in the butt.. but personally i dont consdier it doggy stlye i consider it anal like what it is.. if you need anymore answers about sex hit me up and leave it in my inbox.. ♥ Dez
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You know those spongey things that you use in the shower? I forget what they're called..neways! How long should you use the same one?
well eventually they start fallin about or atleast mine do so i change mine about once a month.. ♥ Dez and i dont know what they are called either he he
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Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do?
i think you should write this letter.. maybe read it a couple times and decide how YOU think she'll react.. then decide if you should give it too her.. which if you feel really guilty i think you should give it to her because it'll probably help get that off your shoulders.. maybe she'll even write you back or call you.. ♥ Dez
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Hello. I am 14 years old, and have secretly been cutting for 3 years. I have never told anybody before, but I am wondering if I should. Would it be in my best interest to get help?
I have a lot of trouble trusting people,though.
Any advice would be appreciated.
Thanks
go to someboyd you trust the most and tell them whats going on and why you do it and tell them you want help.. ♥ Dez
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okay just a couple of weeks ago i had to go to the hospital fer a few weeks and they found out i have FSGS a form of kidney disease..and now i have to take steroids (not the kind fer sports and making you strong) but they have all these really bad effects on me and body swelling is one of them my face and stomach are really swollen and it makes me feel really uncomfortable taking pictures or going swimming...
should i feel this way??
you have a sickness that you cant help.. you shouldnt feel uncomfortable i mean i can understand why you do.. i think just focus on gettin better not worry about what you look like swimming or taking pictures have fun.. ♥ Dez
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is it normal to get a cold in the summer? because i think i have one i have a really soar throat and my nose is sooo stuffy! also what can i do to help get my nose unstuffed?
try tylenol allergy and cold medicine.. and yes you can get a cold in the summer time.. it could also be allergies.. ♥ Dez
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, and we decided that we are comfortable having sex. well, i really need help! i thot this would be an interesting experience, but he has such an odd sexuality. example: he like practically ripped off my blouse, then like snapped oppen my bra and IT REALLY HURT, then like he takes my panties off and start rubbing them on himself,then when he had enough of that, he got whipped cream and sprayed it on my pussy, then licked it off. now that whippe cream thing may turn some weird girls on, BUT NOT ME!!! i'm like what the heck???? so then i just get dressed and leave because this was ridiculous, but we're really close so we made up. but what can i do so that next time, (its proabably not going to be for awhile tho) he acts NORMAL!!!
Yea i wouldnt want a guy to do that for my first time.. id want it to be special not some freaky kinky shit atleast not right away.. your boyfriend must of watched toooooo much t.v.. tell him what you expect for your first time.. and tell him what you dont want that way its okay and perfect.. or maybe find a more normal guy.. ♥ Dez
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in order to qet tested for STD's.. do you have to have your parents know ? my mom would totally like freak if she thouqht i was doinq anythinq sexual.. ive been w| my boyfriend 9 months.. i wouldnt have intercourse now but.. maybe oral & i want my boyfriend to qet tested. please help, i rate hiqh !! 14\f
go to planned parenthood then you dont need your parents.. ♥ Dez
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i really like this boy and he knows i like him but im afraid to ask him wat he thinks of me,but i dont want to get rejected wat should i do.
you'll never know unless you say something.. if your too shy then ask in a letter i guess which doesnt sound cool.. ♥ Dez
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well i am a 13/f and like sometimes when im in bed at night or whatever i have these fantasies of my friends and/or enemys getting naked and touching eachothers boobs..is this normal?
its normal if your a lesbian or a bisexual.. maybe your just curious which is okay.. ♥ Dez
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I just gave my boyfriend head. We didn't use a condom.. He didnt cum or anything, can I still get an STD?
Yes you can still get an STD.. ♥ Dez
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