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boyfriends comments on myspace are not right


Question Posted Monday July 11 2005, 12:23 am

Okay, i need help, well I have a myspace and my boyfriend does too. and he comments on some of my friends myspace's saying that they have a nice ass, and look hot etc. but when i confronted him about this he said "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." and i forgave him .. but now i found another one of my friends on myspace and she is flashing the camera and he said. nice pic. then commented again and said take off the bra lol j/p.....but the thing is i dont think he was just kidding. i mean wow .. i didnt know he was like that before i started going out with him? i dont know.. but can you guys help? please?

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ElmosBrightStar answered Wednesday July 13 2005, 8:17 pm:
He won't cry if you're mad, he just knows he is wrong. Call it on him again. He needs to stop that, because the next thing oyu know, he could be cheating on you.

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dreamandhope14 answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:45 pm:
dump him girl! omg if you have a boyfriend who does that, he's obviously not a true boyfriend. you do have the right to be mad at him, if he were my boyfriend, he'd be outta my life in a heartbeat. if you don't end this, he'll keep on doing it and you're gonna wish that you had ended it. trust me, relationships are supppose to be filled with happiness and honesty, and obviously, he thinks that honesty and your feelings don't matter. dump him.

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girlygirl answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:36 pm:
Find a new bf! If he does that kind of thing right in front of you, he's doing more behind your back. And you can only take the "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." ONCE. He's hurting your feelings and relationshiop and he KNOWS he's doing it but continues. He's a jerk and you deserve to be treated much better than that.

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M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Monday July 11 2005, 4:22 pm:
Boys will be Boys... if you've confronted him once and he doesn't understand he has obvious disrespect for oyu. Try confronting him again and don't fall for his sensetive act. But be direct. The first time you confronted him did you tell him it made you uncomfortable to see him commenting on other girls liek that? You need to be straight forward and tell him exactly how you feel. If that doesn't work then i'd say lose him because a man that doesn't respect you doens't deserve you.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:55 pm:
okay i know what you mean.. my boyfriend comments my friends not on my space or even in person but to my own face and i complained and bitched and eventually he stopped.. he said he was sorry for ever lookin at my friends like that he loves me.. so on so on.. i would suggest talking to him about it and how you feel about it.. ♥ Dez

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itknowitall answered Monday July 11 2005, 9:32 am:
ok, i stopped readin ur questin when you said that he said he'd cry if you were mad at him....ahhh
u need a new bf hunny

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advicekitten4 answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:11 am:
Whoa...ok...hold up. If your boyfriend really does care about you than he would not be looking at other girls buisness (ya know what i mean)and especially comment about it in front of everyone. I definately think you should concider keepin this guy around and usually when guys say stuff like "whoa shes got a nice butt ooh I'm j/k" there NOT kidding! If i was in your position I dont think i would be with him for much longer. I know it can be hard to break a relationship but in this case its for the best. Hope I helped..*Beth*

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Reko4420 answered Monday July 11 2005, 1:10 am:
Well What i think you should do is sit down and talk with him tell him how it is really bothering you even if he is kidding and that it hurts your feelings and confuses you when he says things like that to your friends and see what he says to that* *Kell REko*

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crazyoutyamind answered Monday July 11 2005, 12:40 am:
you need to talk to him about it tell him that you dont like it when he leaves comments and that he needs to stop and if he contiunes (sp?) than leave a comment like that on one of his friends and see how he likes itwell hope i helped and if you have ne more quistions just drop em in my inbox
-kelly

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