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Q: what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?

just stand up for youself and say no no no no you most likely shouldnt be around that person

Q: how do you learn to do new hair styles? any ideas for websites or anything?

just experient with your friends hair and try wacky things and look at pics of your friends hair but lil gems or something in there do like 2 messy buns and put a banddanna around your head thats cute

Q: When you are looking for a boyfriend..what are good trates to look for?

personality is most important

Q: what is a good way to get your mind off boys and concentrate more on school work?

try to be interested in school maybe study with a boy

Q: is it okay for a girl to ask a guy out?

sure is

Q: How do you get parents to be less strict?! i rate high! =)

talk to them and be close to them tell them alot like not a real personal thing but let them know what is going on in your life i learned that and i have pretty much my own free things to do im on my own but i got some boundaries

Q: Can too many fruits a day be bad for you. I am always finding myself picking up an orange and eating it as a snack. I end up eating about twice as many as ur supposed to. lyk 8-10 a day.

not that i know of your might want to cut down on the fruits tho try food food and like veggies

Q: im a cutter. i have scars all up and down my arm. only 2 people know about it. but every time i see my boyfriend i have to cover it up, and make sum sort of excuse. i HATE lying to him! i feel like i should tell him, but i dont want him to think im crazy and dump me! but like.. i cant stop cutting. its always been my way of calming myself down...

you should tell him and also get help before you seriously hurt yourself or hurt yourself extremely bad

Q: my friend told me when you start to get abs you start to get a little 'box' or soemthing by ur belly button like a little pudge or something... can u tell me sum signs that running, sit ups, push ups, crunchies, lifting weights actually works!~

youll see the "box"

Q: ok what does this mean: x3 ??? bc i kno that

yeah that or times 3

Q: hey...
i'm really shy around my boyfriend most of the time ... how do i stop being shy?

spend more time together and you will lighten up trust me

Q: ok i gotta ask this now..i heard someone say something bout there bf bein bipolar..what does that mean? is it like split personality?! also..my ex was really mean and called me hoe and stuff then like the day before that he was like baby i love you ill never leave ur side..is that bipolar?

bipolar is where your happy and what not all that good stuff 1 sec. then pissed off the next

Q: I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.

Signed
xx CaM

do what your heart tells you to do.. that may sound gay but its the truth really.. i would suggest quitting but im not going to lecture you

Q: how do u girls keep ur hair down like i have straight hair but liek 10 mins after brushin it it get tangled up all messy can yall help me out

when i get out of the shower i put it up in a towel then after like 15 min. i take it down brush it blow dry it then brush it then straighten it

Q: This Subject probably doesn't match but any wayz, I've heard that eating a lot of carrots makes your boobs grow bigger and my friend had like none and then like a few months later like 6 months or something maybe a little less, she has huge! Is it true? She said carrots helped since she ate some like every day! Thx I'll rate yall 5!

well that happaned be a miracle or luck or something she just may think carrots helped and they happan to grow during that time she ate the carrots but they help sight

Q: well my bf started thinking all this bad stuff about our relationship just because his friend told him. like im sure he sorta felt it but his friend really brought it out. im really scared that once school starts and hes w/ his friend(s) more they will Really affect him up til the point that something bad happens. i think he really likes me or loves me but i donno i mean could he Love me if he lets his friends affect him?? i donno im scared. help

talk to him about it when its just u 2 alone and make sure he takes you seriously

Q: i sorta REALLY flirted with this guy n made out n blah blah with him.. but one of my best friends all of the sudden likes him.. what should i do :\

tell her

Q: this question is for my friend:

my boyfriend is so sweet. he'd never cheat on me and he never acts Interested in another girls or stuff like that. do you think he could be gay? because he doesn't seem to be interested when girls are wearing skimpy clothes on tv or pictures and id ont think he looks at it on his own. but he gets horny around me. i don't think he is but soemtimes i wonder.

well maybe he is just trying to be polite around you

Q: Hey my friend told me about this place so that i would stop asking her for advice.....I went to a new school today and I made some friends and this and that, but when I first laid eyes on this boy that already had a gurlfriend and it was like love at frist site, but we talked and he seemed to like me, but when his gurl came around he wouldn't talk to her or look at her, and I don't want to make her think that Im a slut , but I don't want to hurt her feelings..andwhat do I do??

i would just leave them alone and if they break up then move in but dont rush into a relationship with him become good friends first

Q: Can anyone give me Ideas? I want to get my boyfriend a gift and I'm all out of ideas!!! Some info that might help you is he is kinda in the middle of punk and prep not in clicks or anything he is 17 and we have been dating for 7 1/2 months. I want something thats cute and shows I love him but does not but cost a lot of money~ Please help me out~

get him something for the marching band or something that has to do with punkness maybe a beanie? hackie sack?

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"