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Alchoul Problem
I`m 15 in about a month or so and I think i`m an alchoulic. I want to quit at times, but then again i dont. I didn`t come on here to get lectured, just advice on what to do in this situation. Thanks.
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xx CaM
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I don't understand how you are an alcoholic at fourteen. I don't understand where you even get enough alcohol to be an alcoholic at fourteen. You most likely aren't so stop throwing that word around. It doesn't make you cool.
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If I were in your shoes I would try my best and talk to someone about it. I would attempt to try to quiet. I know its hard but I have a friend that was everything to me! We were the sister we never had. To make a long story short I dont talk to her anymore because she is friends with all these drunks and when she gets drunk which is everyday she just loses control and does every guy! she ditches me for these guys/beer/sex. She use to tell her mom she was sleeping at my house but really snuck off to get drunk and screw around. I wouldnt want to see a samrt kid like you lose friendship and a REPUTATION. Friends mean the world and You cant live without them but when your always drunk you never know what will happen. Freindship even comes and goes.
I hope everything works out! And im sorry if you consider this a lecture. I hope you didnt. I just care and thought a "experience" would help a little.
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You def. need to tell a parent or an adult and join a re-hab or something .. i hope everything works out for you =)
xO bRiTtAnY
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do what your heart tells you to do.. that may sound gay but its the truth really.. i would suggest quitting but im not going to lecture you
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well if ur an alocoholic and u think its an issue than u could just moderate ur alcohol intake like rather than going places with ur friends that drink, ull just hafta make the right choices... i seriously doubt ur an alocoholic tho.. but u can im me sometime if ud like to discuss this topic further... mrdotjones
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I think you should consider talking to an adult maybe a close family friend or even your mom or dad or maybe even a friends mom or dad....maybe a youth group leader at church just talk to someone if you have an Alcoholics Anonymous in your town call there and ask for there advice.
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well it might b becasue of the people u hang out with soo trii to hang with people that reeli dont get into that stuff or tell ur mom aboutit...xox Jessi
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Try hanging around someone who you know would never drink.. or Find something else to drink Like water
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Tell a trusted adult. Go to a rehab center, then after, hang out with only sober people who will never drink. Dont go to parties you know there will be drinking at.
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Try cutting down a bit, drink haft of what you normally drink.
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try drinking less alcohol and more water. but not all at once. just level it off. drink less and less until you're not doing it at all. drink more water...that will help you to get it out of your system, and try to not have alcohol where you can see it. that old saying "out of sight, out of mind" actually true.
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stay away from it, and get who ever knows that you drink, to take it away from you when ever they see it with you, it might help, worked for me! x3
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Hay... first let me say that it takes a lot for a person to admit that they might have a problem with drinking...
i did some research and out of all the websites i looked at i think this one will really help you...
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GO there because they can help you more than ne one ever could... Good luck with this!
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okay thats tough, do your parents know about it? and do they let you or yell at you? i used to drink a lot, me and my friends would go up in the woods and drink all we could. and as soon as i got away from it and got in trouble for it i only drink when my mom lets me have a sip or a bottle of twisted tea or whatever. but it might be hard to get over drinking if your parents let you. habets are so hard to break! i hope you can stop yourself tho! be strong! and if it dosnt work, ask again
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Try getting help from a doctor. They can direct you on what to do, and they'll tell you whether or not your an alchoholic. See the thing is alchohol is one of the hardest things to get un-addicted too and it will be really hard so im doubting theres anything you can do all by yourself. It may take a while but you need to take advice from the doctor and help yourself be freed of your habit. Best of luck..xoxoxo i really feel for you hun, i know its hard.
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None of us are here to lecture you. We give you background, because it gives you more of a thought pattern of what to do in the situation...but...If you want it just plane and simple...then just Decrease your drinking each day, or whenever you want to drink. Drink a little bit of it, then stow it somewhere in order for you to stop..just at that bit. Then, if you want more, get it out of the same bottle, and do the same thing...you'll more or less decrease your drinking, but if you want to stop...then go get help from your parents or guardian.
I hope I helped! Have a wonderful day my darlin! <3
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I'm not here to lecture you. I dated a guy who was in a situation like this and I helped him quit. First, try to ration your drinks. You know, like say you drink four or five drinks a day, lessen it step by step. On the first week, just drink three a day (ex. one with each meal). Then once you get a handle on that, take it down to two a day (ex. one in the morning and one at night). After you have that down, just do one a day. Once you have completely gotten comfortable with that, just go a whole week and see if you can't go without drinking at all. At your age, you shouldn't be drinking. It's not good for your body because your system is still growing and forming. I know, I said I wouldn't lecture you, so I will stop. Hope you get it worked out!!
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drink less and less each week until your hardly drinking any..
drop one in my inbox if you wanna talk or you have a question
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I think that you should tell someone about your problem...drinking causes serious dangers to the liver and elsewhere. Even if you "kinda" don't want to quit...you should.
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Well, from what I've seen, drinking can often result in regret (Damn. Did that sound like a lecture? I hope it didn't). If you're not sure if you want to quit drinking, then at least slow down. Don't drink as often.
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