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hmm where to start.. well gee its fair time where im at and last year i was with this guy.. lets say his name is * steve.. well i had my first kiss with steve there.. and wow it was all so good n sstuff anyway things ended and min en his friendship faded.. but then we hooked back up .. he cheated on me once.. but i got over it and me n him always messed around.. but really n the end i was being used.. and i fell n love with him uh.. and then like we got n this fight and didnt talk 4 months.. well eventually me n him became friends again .. and we messed around again.. but c he uses alot of girls and alot of my friends have been all depressed over him.. and its so bad i mean i got used to b his friend but then he kisses me n it all changes he so perfect for me he just doesnt c it i love him so much and friendship meant alot to me.. but c me n my friends had this thing kall'd game plan where i was supposed to lead him on then leave em haha yeah it was so mean so i didnt do it but he found out about it anyways and now he hates me (again) and i saw him tonyt at tha fair and he hates me he told me all nyt and to fuck off and he wuldnt ride anything with me and kept sayin shyt and weve been thru so much i just wish i culd tell him .. i juss need some advice =/.. thanx
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say like "i've forgiven u for so much and u cant even forgive me once?! i thought i loved u and u loved me! i love you a lot and i dont want us not talking like before! please talk to me!!"
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WELL.... IVE BEEN THERE AND DONE THAT!
The thing i relized is that i wasnt fallin for the guy i was fallin for what we had in the past.
Maybe by u kissing him it brought ur feelings that you had for him in the past and ur just fooling yourself with old feelings... Try to step away from all that.. you might end up hurt like the other times! If you cant just be friends with him then maybe you shouldnt be friends with him. Im just sayin that... if you know hes nothin but trouble why put yourself through the heartache!?!?!
Teresita
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wow! sounds sticky! well i went out with a boy so many times even when he cheated on me i kept. going back! and now i relized it was stupid, but if you believe he is something worth it then go after him. but if not find another guy that you would like. sit him down and say listen stop being immature and he needs to shape up because you like him a lot and knew that it would hurt him to really lead him on then leave, so you didn't do it! if he dosnt trust you its not worth it, and hey- if his like any guy he should come around and not be mad and saying f off and everything.
hope i helped somehow
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It sounds like he uses a lot of people. If a lot of people are depressed over him, then does that mean he's been doing this to a lot of people? Don't worry about him. Find someone better. If things suddenly get better when you kiss him then it is probably mostly a physical thing, and you should get away from it. Just stop seeing him, and eventually it will stop hurting. I went through something similar with my ex-fiance, where he kept breaking my heart, but he's kiss me and it's be all better. Well, he ended up cheating on me, and I ended up pregnant, and he left. DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKE!
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I have had situations like this several times, but in different ways. You don't need to be with a guy who's always using you. It's not good for you. It will make you think you aren't worthy of a good person and you can't get any better guys. There is a guy out there that is made for you and will stay with you through anything. It's okay to be friends with this guy, just don't let him kiss you if he doesn't TRULY love you. If you need any more help, let me know.
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The same thing happened to me last summer. Its really really tough..um...he uses people..and he cheated on you..I wouldn't even wanna be friends with that jerk. He's trying to make you think that you did something wrong just to cover up the fact that it was his fault. Forget about him babe.
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ya cause its not that easy just ot like not like someone.. even if they are a jerk. guys dont understand what its like to be used somtimes until they get it back at them. but doing the same to him wouldnt be good either, you need to confront him and tell him either its just us or its friends. well that would work but you said he hates u soo you need to be friends and if he like jumps on u again be all dude are you foreal this time. make it firm cause no girl should be used like that. hope i helped.
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Wow.... That is definately so..... wow. Okay if you want advice then here it is. It sounds like you guys have got this messed thing going on, so just forget about him. I'm not a psychologist (yet) but it sounds like he has some issues. You're just going to get hurt, and its going to suck. You could call him, or email him. But if you REALLY want to explain to him that you weren't going to go through with the "game plan" then have one of your friends email him. But if I were you, I wouldn't even give him the time of day. Hope I could help you.
-The Knight Owl
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