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How do you get parents to be less strict?! i rate high! =)
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That's an easy one. Prove and show them that you're responsible. They're strict because they don't want you to make the wrong decisions. Find a good way to gain their trust. Give them an idea how you're able to be dependable for your own decisions. Oh yeah... I dunno if this will help you in your situation; but I appreciated my mom by just giving her a simple thank you card and she was totally lenient that whole week on me. :] Just a suggestion. Have fun!
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talk to them and be close to them tell them alot like not a real personal thing but let them know what is going on in your life i learned that and i have pretty much my own free things to do im on my own but i got some boundaries
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well getitng your aprents 2 realize you're more mature then they think you are is alwyas a good idea. if my parents sed no i couldnt go 2 a party or sumthign i used 2 get upset and always ask "why?" or start 2 yell ro sumthign-so try 2 avoid that if you can bcuz that ussually is annoying 2 parents. also if u try 2 get a closer relationship wiht your parents that may work so that way they no more about you and they wont have ne reason not 2 give u more privliges. hope i helped =)
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Just aSK them - be like " mom , dad - can i have a litl more freedom? plz u can still trust me tho! plz rate! hope i helped! kasey lynn xox
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Tell your parents that you've grown up a little more and you would like some freedom. If they know your a good kid they should have no problem with it unless you be unreasable with them. Such as If your curfue is 9:00 suggest it being pushed till 10:00! Hope i helped =)
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Theres no real way to make them be less strict because maybe they grew up with strict parents too and were tought that way, but maybe they will losen up if you act more responsible, then they can trust you more and act a bit less strict. Good luck! =) <333
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The only thing I can tell you is to tell your parents that you are growing up.. and they need to trust you... that you will make the right decisions.. and that they dont need to be as strict with you anymore.
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Heyhey Hun,
You need to show them that your responsible. Such as doing extra chores, cleaning up your room without them asking. If none of that works, confront your parents about, you'll actually be suprised how they respon.
<3 xox Britt
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Well you need to show them that they'd be able to trust you!! So be very responsible and if your parents ask you to do sumthing do it!! even if you dont want to!! cuz my parents are bein really strict with my sister.. but she doesnt show them that shes responsible and it gets worse and worse for her. lol!! Hope everything goes well!! Any other ?'s just ask!! x0x
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parents ARE strict... it's their nature. really the only way i can think of is just asking them to let up a little bit. remind them (gently) that they can't protect you from everything. tell them you just need some more space, just like they did when they were your age.
if you need anymore help, PLEASE ask, cause i know exactly what you mean
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Talk to them about what ever you want them to be less strict about and pray to them they'll be okay with it! x3
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show them that they can trust you... do extra chroes around the house without them telling u to.....keep your room clean...be nice respectful and courteous...dont lie to them .....dont yell at them do what your told.....keep your grades high during school n what not.....and if that doesnt work talk to them about it...but remember theyre onli trying to do whats best for u.....
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By pRoving to them how Responsible you aRe, and taking the extRa fReedom they dish out to you little by little... it'll add up eventually. I hope eveRything woRks out foR ya! Hopeuflly I helped!! =D
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I think you should let them know and even show them how mature you are. Make good decisions and do what your parents say. It may pay off in the near future.
~Hope I was of Help~
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well i dont kno exactly how.. but you can do things to gain there trust.. tell them what your doing and where your going.. and be honest.. thats how my parents became less strict.. and if they have other things to worry about like a job and a pet - and if theres something going on then theyll lay off a bit also ;)
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the truth is you really cant. But the thing you can do is gain respect. Offer to do more chores than you usually do, go out of your way to help them. They'll lighten up and just feel a little more comfortable with you having more privelages. You can also sit down and rationally ask for the things that you want, (like whatever leighway your looking for) but yelling or fighting or whining wont help. So be calm. Keep it cool. Other than that parents will be parents. But its always worth the try!
good luck xoxo
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talk to them and just let them know that you can handle maybe a little more than they think you can. thats what i did with my dad, also i just told him ya know, i'm 15 and i just wanna be able to go have fun, he lightened up!
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