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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

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hey, i heard u n joel broke up
i kno this is kinda personal, but yall were datin 4 so long, wut happened??
u don't hafta answer if u don't wanna, and i don't rate on personal questions

hey, i was on and it said i had a new message in my inbox, wow idk if i've ever answered anything this fast

well, im glad u don't rate, cuz i don't care about ratings
and it is kinda personal, but i don't mind

okay, well me n joel live about a half hour away, we met at a skool soccer game, i played, he watched
well we hardly saw each other, but when we did see each other it felt worth it, cuz we cared so much, but i started to miss him, so i called him up one day, and we went to see a movie, and went shoppin
well afterwords, i talked to him, and said im not ready for a serious relationship, so like 4 now we could see other people, and whenever we saw each other we could go out, and maybe just maybe we could end up together again

so i broke it to him gently, then about a week after that, i told him the truth, that i couldn't stand never seein him, and so i had to break up with him, and i was ready for a serious relationship, just not wit sum1 i never saw

so rite now im single n all, but i do still miss him, and im tryin to get over him

Hope this helps!!

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hey i just wanted to say that your a REALLY good columnist, and i think ur super hot will u go out wit me. HBO!!

thanks
and OMgosh ryan u dork(yea thats rite im callin u a whale penis lol)

DON'T RATE THIS, specially if u ain't ry lol

yupp i ain't that dumb, of course i kno ur jokin, even if u weren't ry, i'd still hafta say no, at the moment i don't mind bein single
o and im answerin u so fast because i was waitin for u to rate or add info or sumthin

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ok heres a random poll: which kind of clothes r u most into?

•abercrombie/hollister
•hot topic
•pacsun
•vessie b type stuff
•atletic type stuff...soffees,t shirt,n tennis shoes

4 me it's the same excact thing as that one person, gosh i just 4got their name

abercrombie/hollister
hot topic
and pac sun
i also like sum athletic stuff, like soffes, they're comfy, and cute :-)

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how do you put the background and the extra stuffs in on it,is it free.

yes it's free, well dependin where u go
i go to websites to get it

i do google searches under backrounds, or love, or hearts, all under images

or i got to the followin site
http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/
either that or background isn't plural

then i copy the link
go to :column settings:
then i scroll down, and it will say sumthin like page background URL, and i paste, then hit submit

i wouldn't be allowed to do it if it cost anything!

After my previous answer- im not sure u can do it like that anymore, i just tried to change it, and it totally deleted, ask Advice_admin and see what she's up to

***sry, i just realized that it said precious, i meant previous lol***

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I have a serious issue with cocaine. The saying is "If you've tried it once, you are addicted", and I am no exception. I tried it for my first time around February earlier this year. I then stopped for about 1 1/2-2 months when a lot of my friends and peers were doing it. Then another break, and then about 2 weeks ago I started summer school in a suburb town of my city, and my class was full of coke heads, which then made it extremely dificult cause I either got it free, cheap, or very easily. What would be some good advice to quit and/or avoid peer humilition because of the issue. Thank you.

you can talk to a parent or a skool councilor, we start skool in a week, but i guess it all depends where u live
u need to find a rehab, and do wutever u can to not think about coke
Good Luck, your a good person for knowing wut ur doin is wrong and tryin to quit :-)

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do girls realy think those lame polo collar shirts are hott??? i mean do they like atract females because i think there lame as hell and i would never wear one... well maby depending on the results to the question...

i think they make the guy look nice
but i wouldn't date a guy dependin on if he wears polo shirts
do don't wear 'em if u don't like 'em

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wut is a hand job and dry sex mean

ok, sry last nite i was gettin ready to watch a movie and hit the sac when i answered, so here's my answer

handjob, like a BJ wit ur hands, when grls massage a guys dick, it's kinda hard 4 me to explain
now dry sex, im not totally sure how to explain, it's not actually sex, i guess it's like masturbating
maybe u could ask one of my fave columnists, like shannon, she has really good answers

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Hey guys! Okay well my column is really blahhhh...it's like brown and black and white..not too nice to look at, anyone kno how to make it all colorful and such ?? I can't figure it out !! Help me outtt =) thanks xoxo!!

well for your column, it gives u different color choices unde edit settings

but if u want a backround with designs, u can do one of the following

search google or yahoo, under designs, or under desktop images, or cute desktops

or u can go to one of the sites that i use
Http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

GL hope i helped! :-D

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is it possible to have a six pack at 13? i'm 4'11 and 85 pounds so i don't have too much fat to lose i dont think because im pretty skinny im not a bag of bones though.

Of COURSE, my nayber is 13, and he has a NICE six-pack if ur a guy then its SEEEEEXY
if ur a grl, then it still looks good :-D

( i don't judge grls, but ya kno wut i mean)

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i need a screen name! im 14 ndm y name is katie nd im a prep

Xo KaTiZzLe oX
KrAzI KaTe 14
SeXi KaTiE XoXo
KiSs Me KaTiE

if u mean for advicenators then sumthin like

Xo_KrAzI_KaTiE_oX
~*~KaTiE_KaT~*~

sorry, i have to go, ill edit this lata if i remember!!

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how do you delete an entire advice column?

the admin was thinkin about lettin u change ur name, but u can't delete it, even if it's banned or anything, it won't be deleteded sorry

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omfg...im such a dumbass...i acidentily deleted all the names on my buddy list...is there any way i can get them back cuz i had like 200 and can only remember like 5...!!!!please say yes!!!!!!

i've done that before, thats y whenever i add sum elses new screen name i save my buddy list, if u didn't do that, then bring a notepad to skool, and have every1 rite down their screennames

cuz unless u saved, if u can't get it back, if u saved then go to load buddylist, and u'll get it back

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I know this sounds really nasty but I'm bulimic, but instead of throwing up, I take laxatives. I don't know how to make myself stop. My dad knows and he isn't really doing anything to stop it. Has anyone dealt with an eating disorder who can tell me?

well i was aneorexic fo almost 3 years, then i had to see a councilor and everything, i actually kept it from my parents for 1yr, the only meal they weer ever home for was dinner so it was easy just to say i was eatin at sum1 elses house

but here are sum sites, go to both of them, my phsychiatrist made me use them, and i think sum1 else on here had them down too

http://eatingdisordersonline.com/treatment/index.php

http://eatingdisordersonline.com/medical/complications.php

it's extremely dangerous what your doing, and heres my view on the dad thing

he's either not a very caring dad, or he doesn't wanna belive it's tru, like he's in denial or sumthin, maybe if u talked to him, and asked him for help, u could stop, just think eventually you'll have to get put in a hospital with needles stickin thru u, IT'S EXTREMELY PAINFUL, BUT EXTREMELY IMPORTANT, being bulemic, and aneorexic SUCKS, but if u get the help u need, then u'll overcome it!! Good Luck, and if u need ANYTHING, drop it in my inbox :-D

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i find myself never being able to sleep until like 2 or 3 in tha morning everynight..i cant ever sleep so i just go on AIM or something like that..any advice? i appreciate it. thanks

i agree with hyperactivemiss and fernfully

those are sum methods to go to sleep

there's also another thing
ur prolly just used to it by now, and now that were about to start skool up in another week, your gunna hafta try to hit the sac a few hours early, and try to wake up early

if it's really startin to become a problem, then see a doctor, i doubt it, but u mite have insomnia

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My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.

Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend?

well, the only way to find out if it's offending your sister, and her gf, would be to ask if it offends her

but i guess it all depends, is your sister ready for the world to know, like is she ready for people she doesn't know, to find out

the only way to be sure is to talk with your sister

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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on???

i think it's REALLY sweet when a guy does that, but don't get carried away

sumtimes if ur so sweet, and we end up not crushing on u anymore, we end up just dating for pity, take it to a level where on anniversary's u pay for dinner, or where it's a special occasion u pay, but other then that, split the meal, or get 2 seperate checks!!

we love that in a guy, as long as they don't get carried away!!
Heck, if i was single, i'd date ya ;-)

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what is bronzer used 4?? i got spray bronzer and the cream an the powder???i rate*

it's supposedly a fake tanning thing
i had a friend who used it, and the next day he came to skool lookin orange

be careful when u use it! it does work tho, cuz me n my sis use it, it's just how much u apply and stuff

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teen guys - would u go out with a girl knowing that she doesn't intend to have sex with you?

i kno u said guys, and im a grl, but here goes neways
my bf's datin me and i haven't had sex wit him

also i asked about 20 guys, all but 2 (they were jokin, i think)
said yea they aren't lookin for sex

then again i guess it'd depend on ur age
since u asked for teen guy's i'd suspect most of them won't want sex, unless u mean like 17-18, maybe just maybe

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ok here is the deal, i need to go school shopping but i don't know where to go! i live in miami and im 15! does anybody know a good stoRe?

dependin on if u have any of the followin places

jc pennies
khols
hot topic
goody's
Sears
Belk
pac sun
claires
icing
Journeys

any of those places

if don't have any of those, then sorry, i tried to help!!

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ok i know this is in the wrong category but.. in about a week im going to the eye doctor... and im 99.9% sure im going to be getting contacts for the first time.. what i want to know is do contact hurt after so long wearing them or.. do they easily fall out somehow.. an stuff like that.. please help! thanx.. ((i rate good))

as longs as u don't sleep with them in (that could really hurt and scratch ur eye, trust me my nayber had to wear an eye math for a month)

and as long as if ur swimmin, u either need goggles, or just don't open ur eye under water

my brother tried gettin his contact out after swimmin and opening his eyes under water to see, well in the end his eye turned super red, and he found out that it fell out in the water

other then that, ur good, trust me CONTACTS, way better then glasses, i have glasses, because im not allowed to wear contacts cuz my eyes aren't bad enuff, actually my eye doctor said, that my eyes are gettin better, and that i mite be goin abck to 20/20 :-D

sorry, off subject, but as longs as u don't fall asleep with them in (unless u get a certain kind) and as long as while swimmin ur eyes r closed, or u have goggles, then ur good :-D:-P:-)

hope i didn't scare ya or anything, CONTACTS WAAAAY BETTA THEN GLASSES :-D

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