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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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Do you guys think its weird for 16 year olds to go trick-or-treating? I dont do it to steal candy from little kids, I do it because I am a kid at heart lol and its fun! PLUS ITS FREE CANDY! But some people give me weird looks when I knock on their door and say "Trick-Or-Treat!" I guess its because I look like I'm about 20. Several houses last year gave me just one piece. But I dunno if they did that to everyone or JUST me. So my question is this: Do you think there should be an age limit to trick-or-treating? Why or Why not?

No, I see nothing wrong with it.

I'm 16, and I still trickortreat. I'll probably be trickortreating til I'm noticably old. Right now, I don't really look my age, so I'll be trickortreating for a while. :]

how do i get layouts for my advicenators site? i did'nt use mine for a while now i started to use it again but i cant remember how to get layouts and where to get them.

You can get them here:

http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php
& here:
www.tinypic.com

On Tinypic though, you need to get the IMG code. Take the [IMG][/IMG] codes off the ends & put it into the column settings part. You'll see where it wants the code. :]

In the Mall, do you think they have Cameras in the Elevator? and if they did could you get in trouble for making out in there, i did, but i'm just curious if they have cameras in them.

and, in the dressing rooms, do they have cameras in there too? or around them? or does it just depend..and also what if you got caught making out in a dressing room, JUST MAKING OUT, what would happen? would they notify your parents?

thanks a bunch=]

Dressing rooms are not allowed to have cameras since it's illegal. Elevators might, but I'm not sure.

If they did happen to catch you, they'd probably ban you for a little bit, or just notify your parents. I'm not exactly sure. They could always just tell you to the leave the store as well with no real punishment. Depends who works there.

how do i ask out a girl who i like a lot. But i dont really talk to?

You could find her on MySpace & add her.

Or, become her friend in real life [not a website, obviously] & talk to her. Get to know her, and if you think she likes you back, ask her out.

If you ask her out now, you might get hurt, but go for it anyways. Life is good to live spontaneously.

Ok, here it is. I'm "Gothic" and the guy I like is a "Jock". I like him nad I'm pretty sure he likes me. Problem, I have no clue how it could get any farther than smiles and small chat because of the gossip and just people at our school. I swear, it'd be like WW3! Please give me your advise, Anything would be good at this point.
Thanks!
~VampireGirl818

What sport does he play? Go to one his games & if he plays well, compliment him on it & get to talking about that. Even if you know what none of the moves are call, just congradulate him on scoring & making a point, or if he plays football, you can congradulate him on a good tackle or whatever.

Honestly though, just talk to him for more than 5 minutes. Get his number, talk to him online, whatever. Forget the labels though. You are who you wanna be. The word gothic & jock do not describe you guys.

im getting my tonsils out and i need to know what all to do!

I've never had my tonsils out, so that should help.

My dog is bringing up blood. What do I do?

Take it to the vet before it dies? Wow.

Does anyone know some pretty quotes about life and love and friendship? things about simplicity and joy just things like that. I love quotes and wanted some new ones so if u know a few good ones or have a favorite or anything please tell me! For your help i will rate you all!!! :)

www.wittyprofiles.com

One of the best quote sites out there. It's got a quote for everything.

is it wrong to refer to an animal as "it" when you dont know its gender?

Nope.

But it's always cool to take it to a vet because a vet might be able to tell you.

the one year anniversary of my cousin's death is coming up in a few days .. we were best friends. are there any songs or quotes that talk about it being the 1 year anniversary of a death? or even just really sad quotes about missing someone who has died .. thanks a bunch

I'm really sorry about your cousin. :[

Anyways, song on the left, artist on the right:

When You're Gone -- Avril Lavigne.
Your Guardian Angel -- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
The Truth About Heaven -- Armor For Sleep.
I Miss You -- Blink 182.
I'm Lost Without You -- Blink 182.
When We Die -- Bowling For Soup.
Untitled -- Simple Plan.
Wake Up -- Coheed & Cambria [not really about dying, but it could refer to it].
Tear My World Apart -- Greeley Estates.
Without You -- Greeley Estates.
Sleepers Just Don't -- Mayday Parade.
Your Song -- Mayday Parade.
Radios In Heaven -- Plain White T's.
The Grim Goodbye -- The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus.
Here Today, Gone Tomorrow -- Silverstein.
My Heroine -- Silverstein.
Discovering The Waterfront -- Silverstein.
Crashing Down -- Sugarcult.
Never Too Late -- Three Days Grace.
Maybe Memories -- The Used.
Say Days Ago -- The Used.

do supermarkets or pharmacies sell morning after pills or do you have to go to your doctor for that too like you do for birth control pills?

You can get it at Planned Parenthood. Not a supermarket, but you can still get it.

My girlfriend wears clothes that are pretty revealing, which I like, but she also wears them to school in front of other guys (I don't go to her school)
She's very attractive and I don't want other guys staring at her when im not around. What can I do?

Tell her how you feel, but you really shouldn't expect a change. I agree with thelaura. Your girlfriend can dress how she likes, and won't change it just because you don't like it. However, girls are hypocrites & would get mad if a guy didn't change their ways. But honestly, no reason to be jealous. She's with you & not those guys & if they fuck with her, she should have the decency to tell them she's not single & isn't interested in being that way, or cheating. Just trust her.

Okay, really stupid question here, but what exactly are dreams? And do you have one every night? Someone told me that you may not always remember the dream you had once you've woken up, but you always have one. Is that true?

Thanks.

Dreams are just visions of things you don't usually see during the day, don't notice or things your mind just wants to show you. You have one everynight whether you remember it or not. They occur in the 5th stage of sleep called REM Sleep, and they can be movie length depending on the dream. They may not seem that long when you have them, or when you wake up, but they usually do last a while. You can read all about them on Google:

((the story)) Im pregnant oh and im also 19 years old.. i recently found out and i called the father of the baby.. he is not my boyfriend.. but he is the boy i love with all my heart. he is the love of my life. when i told him he just right away said i dont want it, that i needed to take care of it.. i got mad and just hung up the phone and sent him a text saying i would talk to him later, that i wasnt in the mood to talk... later that night we talked some more, he made it 100% clear he doesnt want it.. he told me to take a pill or get an abortion.. i said ok... but the truth is.. i dont know if i want to... i know im young, i know i have my life to live... but i want a child... i feel like i need it.. to fill the emptiness i feel inside me.. that i have felt for such a long time... but at the same time.. i know if i keep it i will loose him, which makes me not want it... i love him with all my heart, with everything i have..but i know and feel in my heart that he and i will never be what i want to be... we have been "together" ((friends with benifets/bestfriends/'inlove'/all of the above)) for 2 1/2 years now.. and he knows i love him, and he claims he loves me aswell.. but he never wants something "real"... if i keep the baby, i am like 90% sure he will have nothing to do with me because i will be going against his wishes.. that or i just dont tell him and i leave to live in the US ((i live in mexico bythe way)) to stay with my family who lives there...

((the question)) should i get an abortion and continue being in this f*ed up relationsip that goes no where with theman i love.. or should i keep the baby and risk losing him forever, yet gaining a new never ending love of a child??

I don't think you should have an abortion.

You're 19 years old, and you're young, but it doesn't matter. You and your ex or whatever the hell had sex & you guys should take responsibility for your actions & keep it. Now, if he doesn't want the baby, then that is his problem, BUT he should at least help you by pay for food or clothes or something. You need to talk to him more. You're 19 so my question for him is HOW IN THE FUCK does he EXPECT you to do this on your own? Babies are lots of work & that's why there's 2 parents.

Anyways, don't get the abortion. If you do that, you're taking away the life of a child who could become the next einstein or brain surgeon. This baby could change the world & by killing it, you're not doing anything but fucking yourself over. I realize your ex will be upset & ditch you, BUT nothing replaces the love of a child.

Also, don't flee to the US without your green card. It's not worth it to get in trouble, so if you're going to come, come legally. :] Another thing; if this guy loved you, he'd help you & stick around. He's a dick. A man who gets a girl pregnant then ditches doesn't deserve to live. And always remember:

No child is a mistake; just an expected miracle.

What would you get your boyfriend for christmas ?

Cologne.
CD's.
Clothes.
Shoes.
Jewelery [if he wears it].
Belts.
DVD's.
Electronics.

so i forgot how to write a summary and i have to read a small, smallll article on something inparticular and write a summary about it, what do i say?

You write what the article was about, but keep the main points in tact.

well im 14 and for some reason i just think its totally pointless to have a relationship before you can drive. dont get me wrong i have nothing against people who do have relationships but is this like totally wrong? i feel weird cause my friends are all like OMG he is sooooooo hot! and im just like whatever doesnt matter to me

No, it's not wrong. You're just more into being single than other people. There's nothing wrong with it, but your time will come.

And I happen to disagree. While it'll be easier to get around & hang out, it's not like you guys can't get rides places.

okay so there is this kid named mike, and i have been on and off liking him, like im kinda confused cause he likes this other girl. But deep down i know i REALLY like him.

well last night i had the best dream,
idk where we were but like i guess i was cold and he like gave me his sweatshirt to wear and we were like holding hands taking a walk and stuff...

idk but this dream made me like REALLY really happy!!! and i have this like vibe that it meant something but i cant figure out what.
its making me mad cause i want it to be true so badlyyyy!!!!

so like does anyone know what this means or am i just wanting something so bad my mind is playing tricks on me?!?!

i really want it to mean something, i really want that to happen

P.S we are good friends we hang out and talk alot so yeah =]

helpp

It's just a dream. Dreams like that don't usually mean anything.

I have had a song in my Music file for years that I now learn does not have the correct title nor is the recording artist(s) correct, at least as far as I have been able to determine. Music of the 50's thru the 80's is a hobby of mine and it bugs me that I have this song that no one seems to be able to identify.
Who can help? Any web sites known that will listen to my mp3 and answer this mystery?

You can always Google it & see what it is.

Also, if you know the lyrics, type the first line or something into Google & see what comes up.

Okay.
So I have a boyfriend (but besides the point, I'm kinda crushing on another guy.)
Anyway,so me and my friend we're always together, and we're always hugging and just touching.

So today we were goofing around, and he was hugging me, and hehheh, I felt that he had a boner, cuz well I could feel it on my leg, ha.
So I don't really know about that stuff, does that mean he likes me?

Either he likes you, or he's easily excited. Or he could just be sexually attracted to you, but not have feelings towards you. Yes, there are people like that.

Talk to him about it & see what he says.

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