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asking out a girl


Question Posted Tuesday October 30 2007, 7:50 pm

how do i ask out a girl who i like a lot. But i dont really talk to?

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christina answered Friday November 2 2007, 1:07 am:
You could find her on MySpace & add her.


Or, become her friend in real life [not a website, obviously] & talk to her. Get to know her, and if you think she likes you back, ask her out.


If you ask her out now, you might get hurt, but go for it anyways. Life is good to live spontaneously.

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omgsamanthax3 answered Thursday November 1 2007, 2:22 am:
Try myspace.
It's a good way to talk to people and get to know them before you talk to start to talk to to them in real life.>>if your the shy type.

Believe, coming from a girl, if you really like her go for it. There's different signals that tell you she likes you.

-she looks at you alot
-she smiles at you
-she'll see you and then start walking the other way
^ mostly if the girls really shy

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CatholicSchoolGirl answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 11:56 pm:
You should definitely first start talking to her so it doesn't create and awkward conversation between the two of you.

Over the course of a week or two, offer to take her places and show her your best side. You can ger flirtatious, too.

Then, invite her out to HER favorite spot (if she likes the park, take her there; dinner, take her there.) Treat her to everything, and at the end of the date, you should tell her how much you have enjoyed spending time with her, and then go for it - ask if she would be your girlfriend.

Good luck! :)

- CSG

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real222 answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 5:56 pm:
Start taliking to her. Don't be shy and start a conversation. ask your dad( if you have one) for advice. your parents are always there for you.

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Ignatz answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 5:18 pm:
There's always the direct approach.

Buy a package of dates at the grocery store. Medjool dates are nice and sweet. Get pitted ones if you can.

Walk up to her, hold out the container, and say, "Want a date?"

If she smiles and takes one, then say "So, Saturday night good for you?"

The worst she'll do is turn you down. She will definitely remember you as the guy with the good line.

If she makes fun of you, obviously she's not worth your time. Give her the kiss-off, and move on. The secret here is confidence. Treat her as if she's interesting, but not essential to your happiness. Don't let her rejection crush you or send you into a spiral. There are lots of girls out there, and you will eventually find one who thinks you're incredibly charming and interesting. (Believe me: I was an incredible geek in high school. I read fantasy novels, listened to weird music, and had a mullet. I eventually lost the mullet, and that made all the difference. ^_^)

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fallen_rose_petal answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 8:38 am:
being a girl...i say you should try hanging out with her more. some girls like going out with any guy, while others like going out with guys they have grown to love so that there is a smaller chance of getting hurt. Get to know her, what kind of girl is she? Flirt with her a little and see if she gives off any hints that she likes you to. make her smile alot...girls like that. Good Luck!

Jaci

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coOokiie answered Wednesday October 31 2007, 3:56 am:
Aww =]
When you see her just say can you come for a walk with me ? and then just say i really like you and i was wondering would you go out with me and say it's find if you say no and you want to get to know me more
or you can do it through messaging or msn/aim

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