Question Posted Wednesday October 31 2007, 10:53 pm
My girlfriend wears clothes that are pretty revealing, which I like, but she also wears them to school in front of other guys (I don't go to her school)
She's very attractive and I don't want other guys staring at her when im not around. What can I do?
thelaura answered Thursday November 1 2007, 4:01 pm: I'm sensing jealousy here.
I know it's not what you probably want to hear, but she can dress how she likes. Sure, you can have a talk with her and explain to her it makes you uncomfortable knowing other guys may be looking at her, but at the end of the day, if she doesn't want to change her fashion sense then so be it.
Remember, YOU are her boyfriend. Not the other guys.
You should trust her. A relationship without trust won't work.
If anyone starts flirting, she should tell them she has a boyfriend (if they don't know already)
I reckon you just need reassuring here, so have a few words with her.
It's really nothing to get worked up over.
She may be having the same problem too - meaning she's worried about girls noticing you.
It happens. It's life. But you two are together so don't let something like this ruin your relationship. If anything, you should be happy knowing a girl like that is yours. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
katie_babey answered Thursday November 1 2007, 1:04 pm: well tell her how you feel about her wearing those type of clothes and see what she says but you also cant tell her what to wear. Guys are always goin to look at other girls and how their dressing and everythin but that doesnt mean that shes goin to do anythin and im sure if those guys try hittin on her she will tell them to back off because she has a bf. you cant stop guys from staring at her but just remember your the one who has her not them. And maybe try telling her like to wear nice clothes and kinda revealing but not too revealing because i know i dont like when my bfs tell me what i can wear and what i cant..i dont know how she is but no one likes a controlling bf/gf. talk to her about it and see what happens from there but remember shes yours no those other guys at her school so dont worry too much about it!!! :] i hope i helped if i didnt im sorry.. [ katie_babey's advice column | Ask katie_babey A Question ]
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