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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
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just dont pay attention to them and act like your ignoring everything theyre saying. theyll eventually leave you alone. people who spend their time making fun of other people and making up rumors about them.. stuff like that.. they need to get a life. you'll get through it.
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some people think that i'm fat but i dont think so. i mean i watch what i eat, and excersice daily. But, i cant lose weight. and i have a lot of friends who are super skinny, and they make me feel fat. what should i do, because i want to look more skinny i just dont want to me anerexic.
plese write back,
chunky monkey? (link)
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you dont need to listen to what other people are saying about you. lose weight because you want to, not because someone else thinks your fat. try to do crunches daily, run, and drink lots of water. good luck with losing weight.
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does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant? (link)
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um no.. have fun with that one
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my friend has been 2 months late on her period.. she took a pregnancy test and claims shes not pregnant. she said that if there are 2 lines, it means shes pregnant..well i saw 2 lines, one was darker than the other and when i said i saw 2 lines she threw the pregnancy test back in the box. shes been awfully moody lately and has been telling her parents she has gotten her period for the past 2 months. she hasnt been acting the same..im really worried. what do you think? (link)
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make her take another test, she might be pregnant
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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!? (link)
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ahhh... age... i dont think it matters what-so-ever. if you wanna go out then go ahead. my aunt and uncle are 10 and a half yrs apart but theyre married and have 2 kids. everything worked out for them. age should not hold you back. go 4 it.
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There's been alot going on about abortion lately and here's my take!
we have eighty year old male politicians and the abstinent catho-lics (nuns and priests)telling young fecund women whose bodies are basically setting them up to get pregnant, that contraception is not right in the eyes of god, and THEN after that, neither is abortion.
So this is what I get out of all of this-
Either we're supposed to deny our instinctual, primate desires and wait until marriage because they said so, or suffer pregnancy out of marriage and be locked in to raise their future goddamn tax payers- and not to mention- army ants.
NO, their god would FORBID that any human being ould have the control over their own body, nor would any woman be able to move freely and independantly throughout society living as she chooses, without being judged and condemned to eighteen years of servitude to some god-fearing patriotic moron's children?
This is yet another way in which the "man" is getting us down. (white rich male eighty-year old christian authority)
Anyone who thinks abortion should be against the law should shut their damn mouths and take a good look at our 99 percent old, male government and ask ourselves, to what extent will this desicion affect them? Are they about to get knocked up, or get someone pregnant? They can say it's not right to impregnate someone out of marriage or end the life of your unborn child, but when the hell will they ever be faced with such a situation? Do they really have a right to talk? Furthermore- DO YOU????? (link)
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i dont think i would EVER in my life have an abortion. but i dont think it should be wrong to get one. i feel that anyone has their own right to do what they want. abortion should be up to the woman whos going to have that kid. i agree with you.
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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well it depends on what you want to do.. and how long u've been going out. if this is one of these things where you just go out for a few weeks and break up then i wouldnt have sex with him. if your sure your really ready to be with him then go for it. think it through for awile before you decide.
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is it possible to get pregnant the very first time u have sex, and don't wear a condom? (link)
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of course it is.
good luck.
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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half this month and we have talked about having sex and i feel like im ready and i think he does to but i'm just kind of worried that something might happen and people act like i dont think about wat could happen but i do and i feel so emotionaly ready to have sex i mean a lot of people who respond to this will say i shouldnt because im to young and i should wait because im 14 but i mean if i feel comfortable and ready for it then dont you think i can. i mean no one can really stop me from doing it but i mean i dont kno i just need advice on wat i should excpect i kno its gunna hurt but like other stuff... and like wat are the most durable condoms? please answer.... thanx (link)
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i say if you want to do it then go for it. its your choice and i dont think its a big deal to have sex at a young age... i would recommend trojan condoms... and, just to let ya know, its gonna hurt alot the first time!
good luck
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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do? (link)
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tell your friend you like him. then she might not flirt with him. she probably didnt mean to not talk to u at all... she was just talkin to him and forgot to come say hi. it'll all work out.
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Well lets see, theres this guy and i like him alot and we went out before but he broke up with me after like a week, now supposably he likes me again or somethin and i still really like him, but hes 3 years soon to be 4 years older than me and there are plenty of other better looking girls that he knows, and if we were to go back out, who knows what will happen, i guess im tryin to say that im scared of getting hurt, what should i do? what if he doesnt really like me, and i probably like him alot more than he likes me so if he broke up with me if we went out it would be like easy for him and soo hard for me.. (link)
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aww seems like you like him - alot. i understand how you feel. everyday i worry about getting hurt. its something that you cant get off your mind once its happened to you. i think you should g for it and try to be with him as long as possible and cherish the time that you have with him. lots of luck 2 u.
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One of my best friends (Lizzie) has been totally ditching me for this other chick (Amanda).. And it's starting to worry me, because Amanda is kind of bossy, and a bit of a whore.. Lizzie has always had self esteem issues and stuff, and i think Amanda is gonna end up hurting Lizzie.. And I'm also kind of hurt because Lizzie won't talk to me (Amanda and I hate eachother), and I really miss being friends. Any thoughts on what I should do? (link)
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talk to her about it and maybe you guys can work something out... try to be nice to the girl you dont like... you could end up being friends. just talk to them
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ok so my friend is 15 and her and her bf had sex but the condom broke. well she got this short period for march. it lasted a day and a half she said. shes been eating alot and peeing alot now too. does it sound like shes pregnant? im going with her to planned parenthood tomrrow..but what does it sound like to you guys?? (link)
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she could be, i guess you'll find out when u go to planned parenthood.. let me know how it goes, good luck 2 ur friend
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ok im sorry if this is long :(. Well,one day my friend,call her Devon,got mad at me one day.Because she thought i was mad at her.She said i was in a b****** mood all day [[when i never talked to her]]. Shes in my math group and i've said sorry about 5 times. I'm leaving her alone but i dont want to think about how such a good friendship ended like this :(.What do i do?i rate to 5!
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um.. it wont end.. your gonna get in fights with ppl all the time but it doesnt mean ur friendship is gonna end over it. p.s. you spelled bitchy wrong... it would be b***** (u had one 2 many stars LOL)
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When does the "cycle" usually become regular?!?! Mine keeps coming at random times and now, it's not coming at all! The last time I got it was February 24??? (link)
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well you could be pregnant, its not normal 4 ppl to miss it for like over a month...
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well i think im really in love and at the movies this guy that i'm gong out with touched my boobS and i think it was by acident. but than he did it again but he sqizzed them and .. i liked it . than he touched my pussy... and when i say this i mean he went into my pants and fingerd me during a movie than we started making out. He soon took me out of the movie and we had sex. i'm 13!
i'm a A/B student i have lots of freinds and i'm a good girl. (When this happined 3 weeks ago, i hadn't even had my 1st kiss yett... so that made it ever weirdr)
wut should i do? (link)
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god i hope your not pregnant
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I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother= (link)
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whats wrong with being sexual?
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I have a little issue see I get turned on by gurls. I basically grew up around guys and i always heard them sya damn look at that a.s.s. or she got a nice rack and I always ignored it like why do i want to hear this now when I ee a gurl i think the same excact thing i wonder what she looks like naked, what tricks she can do, just things that I would think about wit a guy. I have never done anything with a gurl and want to experiment but I am scared because i dont know how to approach a gurl to let her know. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!? And could you give me some hints on what to do when you are with a gurl do you do the same things you do with a guy and are there any special tricks?
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im confused... are you a guy or a girl?
if your a guy then theres nothing wrong with wht ur feeling but if your a girl then i take it your a lesbian. nothings wrong with that either.
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when do you start showing when your pregnant?? and does anyone know how much tests at planned parenthood cost? (link)
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well you start showing at like 4 - 5 months... i dont know how much tests cost but i think you should go to a doctor first to see if your actually pregnant...
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well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!! (link)
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i think you need to talk to someone and tell them how you feel... talk to someone who understands... try to think of things that make you feel better. good luck!
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