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Question Posted Friday April 1 2005, 10:37 am

well for the past couple months i have been really sad and drepressed! i dont know whats wronge with me....i like havent been feeling like doing anything but sitting around and i've been crying alot for no reason....i have also cut my self...i dont know if is drepression or what? please help!!!

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wise_one answered Saturday April 9 2005, 10:59 pm:
cutting yourself doesn't help. It's actually a really immature way of dealing with your problems so instead of that ask yourself why you feel that way and why cutting would help. Also seeing a counsellor would help because they deal with this sort of thing quite a lot and would know how to help you deal with it.

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xoXCoNfUdLeDXox answered Sunday April 3 2005, 8:36 pm:
I realy think you should tell a close friend or your parents theymight be ale to put you on medication to make you not be depressed.

luv,

~*cHeLlY*~

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maria2653 answered Sunday April 3 2005, 7:31 pm:
see a doctor they can diagnose depression. hope i helped!
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savorystillborns answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:20 pm:
...This is defenitely depression. You're in what's called a slump and it's a normal emotional phase which you'll get over if you jsut give yourself time. You need to clean house spiritually. Try to locate the problem that has made you so withdrawn and weary. So you have problems at home, or perhaps do you feel lonely?
Remember that no matter how bad it gets there IS A TOMORROW and it will be brighter than today-
thing yin and yang- there are two sides to everything. You have to live through this null patch right now, but there are better things yet to come. Things balance out.
Search out the people you love and who value you and take the time to remember how much they care. And besides, summer will be here soon. Get out in the sun, warm body and mind. The heat and the freedom of summer will get you happy again.
Oh poor baby... you'll be better, just think about tomorrow- and how the more you suffer today, the greater you will enjoy tomorrow.

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Nokomis answered Friday April 1 2005, 9:12 pm:
It sounds like depression to me. Talk to your mom and get her to take you to the doctor. sk your doctor about your symptoms and he/she will probably give you either lexapro,zoloft, or prozac. It should really help. Best Wishes! Let me know how it goes.

~Nokomis~

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Friday April 1 2005, 4:23 pm:
if your young you might be getting your period. but if your not that yound then you should talk to someone that you trust, like aa teacher,parent,siblings

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reach_for_the_stars_14 answered Friday April 1 2005, 2:32 pm:
its deppression and by what youve said it seems bad get help NOW!!! before you do something worse like suicide and i know you never think you would do it but deppressed people will do almost anything!! so tell someone and go to a doctor ar phyciatrist really soon!!!!
hope this helps
~livvy
GOOD LUCK!!!

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frenchfries21 answered Friday April 1 2005, 1:32 pm:
i think you need to talk to someone and tell them how you feel... talk to someone who understands... try to think of things that make you feel better. good luck!

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partygurl24 answered Friday April 1 2005, 12:28 pm:
It is understanable to feel sad and depressed for no complete reason because that has happened to me (I felt sad, but not depressed for no reason). I think that it's a matter of being able to control your feelins. You really need to talk to someone dear to you or someone who could understand where you're coming from. Many people who are also in this kind of emotional state go to cutting because they think that it make them feel better inside...but cutting is not the solution. It doesn't lessen your pain, but instead destroys your body. You need to really talk to someone baout this beofre you start cuting yourself again or doing something else more drastic. If you have anymore questions, just sen dthem to me in my inbox, and I'll answer them ASAP. I hoped I helped!

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_Bianca_ answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:34 am:
Hey! I have felt like that before. I have sat in the room and cried and cried. Then I would ask myself why I was crying and I don't no why I cry. This is what I did. I talked to a friend and told her what was happening. She made me feel better. Hope I Helped!
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Laura_Ashanti answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:08 am:
Aw, well as bad as life gets, you cant cut yourself! I would suggest talking to someone about why your so upset or maybe if you dont even know why, talking will help you figure it out! Im sorry you have to go through this. I know how terrible you must be feeling. But you cant let whatever it is thats making you sad (or just your emotions going crazy for no reason) control your life. Especailly if your a teenage girl. For me, the hardest years to deal with were age 11-15. Especially the age of 13 because I started getting my period. Dont let it take over you - You have to be a fighter through this. But, you are obviously NOT alone which I hope makes you feel at least a little better? I go through it & so do many other advicenators, too. Talking is the best way to get through all of it. So, if you ever need to talk write to my inbox ♥ Laura

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MCalways answered Friday April 1 2005, 11:06 am:
That happens to me a lot also..mainly because I have an anxiety disorder. you maight have that also, or just some of the symptoms. Look it up Generalized Anxiety Disroder on webMD and see if you can relate. Talk to your doctor about it, and see if they can find some way to help you!

Best of Luck--and let me know how it turns out!

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