about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

alright so im (15/f) and all of my friends have done stuff with boys. i havent. is that wierd? i think im just scared because once i find someone i really like i dont wanna be like hey yeah i dont know what the heck im doing! lol soo what should i do.

if i was in ur situation i wouldnt worry about it because there is always a first for everything and most of the time when you do it the first time wit a guy and they know that it make them feel special. i wouldnt worry about if i were you.

♥ Steph

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oh my gosh
ok the guy i liked is freinds with my brother
and they went in my room and found dirty underwear
(wich was this coverup stuff and lipgloss me and my freind were doing for a joke for my freind anthony) anyways
and they thought it was something else and they dont belive me
so now the guy i like thinks im disgusting
and doesnt like mean anymore..
should i just laugh about the whole thing and forget?
or stay sad and deppressed
what would you do?
PLEASE!
IM SAD
i rate 5s if you try!
thank you so much!

laugh it off. he will 4get about it sooner or later.
♥ Steph

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ok so im good at grinding, i think,, but there is a possibility that im doin it wrong. ok so what do you do with your hands/ how do you grind. websites would be nice.

also, are grindin and freakin the same thing

basically they are. when your grinf your basically dancing with them in a sexual way. your hands can be on your hips, on top of ur hand or just loosely hanging down. hope this helps
♥ Steph

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im 14/f and my friend is hooking me up with this guy and we've been talking online but no matter how much i try to get off the subject hes always like what will you let me do to you the 1st time we meet will you let me finger you n all that shit
and im like really uncomfertable because i never kiss a guy before and i feel like different
should i meet this guy or is he just using me for head

please help
ill rate 5 no matter what

PERVERT DONT GO OUT WITH HIM. that is him tellin the reason he wants to go out with you is to get in your pants i wouldnt do it if i were you.
♥ Steph

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Hi, I keep getting notices in my email that say there is a question in my inbox, or someone answered my questions, and when I come to the advicenators site, it also says that I do have questions and answers waiting for me. But then I check it and there's nothing there, even though it says that there's "Inbox (1)" or something like that.

What's going on? Just a glitch or something?

Thanks!

most likely someone asked the question adn then deleted it that is why you couldnt read it
♥ Steph

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okay im really scared. because i just shaved uhh "down there" for the first time and now its turning red. is this like, really really really bad?\\13f

its prefectly normal dont worry
♥ Steph

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Theres this guy i really like and i found out that he likes me too! but unfortunatly i am moving at the end of this month. he is on vacation for another week and then he's comming back. he told me he wants to hang out before i leave and i'm not sure what that's going to lead to..(nothing TOO serious, I'm sure!) if he asks though, should i go out with him? i've been in a long distance relationship before, it didnt work out only because i haven't seen that guy in 5 years. I know i would see this guy all the time though because all my family is here and we will vist A LOT. im soooo confused. Help!!!!

try it if it doesnt work out then it was not meant to be. you never know until you try it. hope this helps you out.
♥ Steph

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I think I'm allergic to the wax or lotion my salon uses or something, cause the last few times I went I got a little bit of hives and then I got a lot of pinples near my eyebrows. Should I try a new salon, or should I try threading?
thanks

i would try thread. i only get mine done with thread bc the salon can shape them wayy better and they come out wayyy prettier.
♥ Steph

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Hey iam sorry if this is under the wrong topic,but I wasn't sure.Iam 17 years old and my mom told me to break up with my boyfriend daniel so I was going to,but I never did I told her I did instead and the other day I snuck over to his house I told my mom I was going for a walk,but I didn't know she was going to follow me in the car I didn't know she was there and when she found out I went to my boyfriend's house she dosn't trust me anymore she dosn't let me use the phone the only time I can go anywhere is family no friends just family and I have to use the computer at family's house becouse she dosn't want me to be emailing my boyfriend or have any contact with him in any kind of way becouse he was arrested in he was 17 and becouse she says since he is 19 and iam only 17 he is way to old for me and now I don't have her trust how can I get her trust back my mom and I use to be so close and now we are practically strangers?

first off your almost an adult! you should be able to date who ever you want to date. (idk if had extra info about him being a criminal but i am using what i found) i think your mother should respect that fact that you are an adult and that you are old enough to go out with who ever you want anad make the right decidion. yea your mom is protecting you but the only way you learn is not from success but from your mistakes. i would talk to her about it and tell her your point of view on this and listen to her point of view adn try to work it out. what ever happened to age is only a number.
♥ Stephanie

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my boyfriend asked me if i wanted sex i said 13 was way to young to have sex and i wasn't ready! he said that that was ok and he could wait! but my friend said when she got drunk at a party the had sex! shes's apoliged and i've forgiven her! but i asked max ( my boyfriend) if he had cheated on me and he said NO WHO WOULD GIVE U THAT IDEA!! i'm really heard and wanna explain i no and dump him but i want to to it in a way which will heard him like he heard me! i no thats sounds meen but my best mate! how could he!! what should i do? be crule? our just leave?

everything everyone under me said what i was true but you know what they say WHAT GOES AROUND COMES BACK AROUND. what i would do is find a guy ASAP. and dotn break up with him just yet but kiss or even make out witht hat guy right infront of him. then go up to him and be like its over.

♥ Steph

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how do you get pictures on myspace- but not like the profile pictures, ones like under the "about me" section or "my interests"?

thanks!

you gotta upload them to photobucket and get the code URl and then when you want to put it in which ever section you put this in

then you gotta space it using


take out the space between the S and the R and the one between the B and the R and it will work. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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ok me and my boi friend have been dating for 3 weeks to the date and today he has been compleetly ignoring me and i dont no why what did i do rong? how can i fix it? plz help..ill rate high thanxz

~trisha~

have you tryed talking to him? it is possible that is his way of sayin it is over but i wouldnt jump to conclusions i would talk to him about it if i was you.
♥ Steph

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i always carry a extra pack of birth control in the car in case i leave my real pack at home. I have been on it the past 9 months and i ALWAYS take it on time. this time i did leave it at home but i took one from the other pack. they are both active pills (the pink ones), but i didnt take it from the same day, i just took it from the first one of the new pack. is there anything i should worry about?

it is ok because if it wasnt the same color then it is bad but it is cool. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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ok, so my bf and i will just be talking and what not and he is lying on the couch and i just want to say to him" oh my god you are so effing hot i have every reason on earth to jump on top of you and furiously make out." But that would be wierd.... so how can i get to that place where i can actually do that. how can i "seduce him" into making out with me without sounding desperate?
PLEASE I NEED GUYS FOR THIS TOO!

personally i would just get on top and kiss him. he will get the point and start making out. trust me when it comes to guys and kissing or anything involvin sex they are all up for it.mayb you could saw something like since i am on top of you i think it would be so hot if i could make out with you right now. i have learned that guys like it when girls arent predictable and just do whatever they feel like doing. they like it when a girl takes charge. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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My and my boyfriend went all the way the other day and about 20 minutes after we were done i was bleeding out of my vagina, not heavy like a period buti could tell i was bleeding. It only lasted a few hours also. I have had sex before once but that didnt happen after words! What happened? Is something wrong? Please help

your prefectly normal. you just got your cherry popped. the reason why it didnt happen the first time was your other person who did it didnt go "deep" enough to do that. hope this helps.
♥ Steph

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What do i do if this boy acts like he likes me around certain people, but then he talks about me really bad around other people. Should I just forget him?

hell yea girl this guy aint worth your time. he using you to have something to talk about. stop talking to him and leave him alone.
♥ Steph

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I have a hairy stomach

there i said it, lol

seriously, my stomach is kinda hairy, not like thick dark hair, its blonde but there is a lot of it. If i shave it, it will grow back coarser and darker (just like leg hairs do) and i would have to keep shaving it the rest of my life. Nair causes a skin reaction and i get red and it burns and waxing would probably irritate my skin as well. What can i do to get rid of this gross hair that i feel i am the only person who has it?

PLease dont tell me to just accept it for part of who i am , that kinda pisses me off a little becuase i dont want it so why should i accept it? please respond!!

i am gonna tell you both sides on shavin and waxing and i will give you my point of view and you will have to decide

*~waxing~*
waxing is something that will hurt a lil your first time until you numb the area and you wont feel it but since ur tommy isnt a bone it will hurt but with waxing after a couple of times it wont grow back. when waxing you will pill it out the root and after a while (a couple months) it will stop growing. when waxing you wont have to wax it all the time just once ever 2 weeks

*~shaving~*
it doesnt hurt. you can do it whenever but it can be a pain in the butt. it will keep growing and you will have the problem until ur older. but if you dont want the hair to grow as fast as your leg dotn shave it all the time. give it time. like only shave it once a week.

*~*~*my choice*~*~*

waxing it wont come back even thought it hurts it will be worth it.
*~*~*~*~*~beauty is pain~*~*~*~*~*

♥Steph

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What should I do if i like this boy and we hug in the hallway and i have his number, but I am scared that he will not like me if we start to be friends? What do i do?

you really cant be not friends with him and give him a hug. call him up talk to him if you dont go out at least you guys can be friends you noe. you never know unless you try it out. hope this helps.=)
♥ Steph

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can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?

Dont do it. it will mess up hair. i would leave that for the pros to do.
♥ Steph

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In the Bible doesn't it say that we shouldn't pray aloud to show off? That instead we should pray in the privacy of our own room? (not the exact words) If that is so then why do people go to church? I'm christain but I don't believe that going to church makes a difference in how we are seen in God's eyes. Everyone pressures me to go to church saying that it will "lead me in the right direction" but I don't think it matters if I go to church or not.


Does it matter?

well it doesnt really matter but only reason y people go there to visit the church and pray because your are in his home and ur prayin to him. i guess it is supposed to make him closer to you becausee you are there. but my family just like urs they want me to go but i dont go i dont think it would make that much difference but i am cathlic so yea
♥Steph

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