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are we over?
ok me and my boi friend have been dating for 3 weeks to the date and today he has been compleetly ignoring me and i dont no why what did i do rong? how can i fix it? plz help..ill rate high thanxz
~trisha~
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Maybe he is scared that you might be breaking up with him. Or maybe your best friend told him something about you (such as you were a sl*t) and he is now avoiding your best friend, who you are around all the time. Am I right? This happened to me, and it involved many slammed doors, slammed phones, and pushed over cafeteria chairs. But talk to him, and see what is up. Hope that helps!
Alice
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That's a bit sketchy of him. I wouldn't jump to conclusions though. He might have been having a bad day. A lot of people cope when they are in a bad mood by pushing the people they care about away. If he hasn't shown any other signs of not wanting to be together, then I would start being more paranoid about it. But don't think that it's you and that you aren't a great person. You are an incredible person. But either way, I would call him or go over to his house or something and ask him about it. Talk it through with him, be willing to help him out and tell him how you felt hurt and disrespected and whatever you are feeling as well. Try and compromise. I hope everything is okay with you two. I hope I helped and let me know how it goes! Good luck. -GC07
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hey its ok we have all been there. the best thing to do is just give it some time. if you cant wait and you dont want to talk 2 him about it maybe you should just stop and look around. is there something going on in his life that he isnt telling you? you never know, he might be going thru a really hard time but doesnt want to tell you because he doesnt want to get everyone involved, or maybe he doesnt want anyone to know. you could try droping some hints like" i just want to let you know that if you ever need anything im here for you" or " if you need to talk im here" if he is in something he will love that you care
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have you tryed talking to him? it is possible that is his way of sayin it is over but i wouldnt jump to conclusions i would talk to him about it if i was you.
♥ Steph
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Hey, try giving him a call and let him know how you feel. just say "hey i was wondering, is anything wrong? I mean today it just seemed like you were ignoring me. Is anything bothering you? I'm here to help you if you need it." and that should let him know how you feel and that youre there for him without being whiny.
Good Luck!
~country girl~
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